The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Imlinkin]

Damn, not that it's not relevant but this topic has been covered ad nauseam. Gentically speaking, yes females are attracted to whatever they consider most dominant. They want to be dominated.

I did a quicksearch on YT. I found about 100k videos on it. I like this guy's commentary:

 

[J.E.T.S]

A lot of women identify as nerds nowadays, because they think it attracts intelligent men with good jobs.

I was at Twin Peaks a few weeks ago and one of the bartenders was doing this. I got her IG, It was Thotham City.

We all need it.. can't live without it.... Thotham Citttyyyy, Ohhh yeah.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

They gotta put in more work than regular brothas cuz of their interests.

So basically they gotta have more game than you to get women.

Having game requires effort. I have natural charisma. I don't need a front

I know the biggest unapologetic anime geeks that can hold conversations with any kind of woman because they're just cool

 

[MalikReloaded]

Too late. Those last 15 years you were riding the thug train, he hopped the fence never to return

 

[MalikReloaded]

This will go on deaf ears.

Immature women are common and thats the issue.

Not enough women want to admit their faults and want to blame black nerds instead of themselves for their crappy judgement in men until they hit 30 and finally smarten up when they are past their prime.

They will call the black nerd awkward, antisocial and lame and then tell him to fix it yet fail to notice how they ramp up the difficulty when it comes to him. Despite popular belief many nerds are social and not awkward yet only appear that way to women who clearly set up a lot of invisible barriers for his type and his type alone to knock down to get to her.

Then when he is forced to date out they lie to themselves and say how they prefer white women. They pretend as if the men they saw as thirsty, even worse a black nerd, magically have high standards when the reality is that a black nerd would be even less likely than other types of black men to have preferences other than a woman who would give him a chance.

I agree with the article that this cycle needs to stop so there will be less black nerds being forced to date out and benefiting non black women and less black women and children being used and then abandoned by aint shyt men.

I also agree that the media does promote being ghetto by both men and women rappers and singers.

I just hope a fad starts up which will make intelligent black men popular cuz looking at the scene it looks like thats the only thing immature women will respond to.

Before that black nerd could have EVER developed an attraction for white women or other non-black women, he loved black women first. But women are women and if you're not getting fed, you're gonna get food from somewhere.

 

[Neuromancer]

but these men are adults, they should recognize what she's doing and reject her

They damn well should. I think anyone being socially inept would jump at the chance for anyone to like them. It's a shame someone needs to teach them something about the world and women. But they as men must also accept their bad choices.

 

[Bless't]

Don't develop charisma because you think you're going to be bailed out by a washed up woman in her thirties ten years from now brehs

I kinda agree. But some dudes have it and some dudes dont.

Not everyone is born with a je ne sais quoi.

But people can work on being more pleasant and outgoing, regardless.

 

[Blackout]

Having game requires effort. I have natural charisma. I don't need a front

I know the biggest unapologetic anime geeks that can hold conversations with any kind black women because they're just cool

They still have to put in more effort than you regardless.

You see those biggest unapologetic anime geeks that your talking about. They have more game than you.

 

[Neuromancer]

No, that's the way you see it. I didn't read that big wall of THOT literature in the OP, I went by the name of the thread

And notice I said "regular brothas" and nothing about Thug Vs. Nerds. I know a variety of black men that don't fit into either catergory.


The only people that have a hard time approaching black women are the people who don't come correct. You have to have some type of swag about yourself






And I wish people would stop using Tyrone to symbolize the black thug archetype, it's corny

You didn't read the text?

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

No, that's the way you see it. I didn't read that big wall of THOT literature in the OP, I went by the name of the thread

And notice I said "regular brothas" and nothing about Thug Vs. Nerds. I know a variety of black men that don't fit into either catergory.


The only people that have a hard time approaching black women are the people who don't come correct. You have to have some type of swag about yourself






And I wish people would stop using Tyrone to symbolize the black thug archetype, it's corny

It's not the way I see it it's the way it is lol. Of course not all but the majority of BW seem to want guys what are either "thugs" or have thuggish qualities. This is one of the reasons why there are more black families missing the dad in the home than any other race in America because they prefer and are stupid enough to procreate with someone who is typically unreliable. To that 95 percent of black women the term nerd is used as an extreme. I've heard nerd used not only by black women but black men as well as a man who doesn't have the typical thuggish demeanor associated with the stereotypical modern black male or rap and hip hop culture. These are the out casts lol he doesn't necessarily have to be a geek as some of you guys are trying to use in favor of BW's choices. Nerds and geeks are two totally separate things of course he just has to lack that exemplification of the stereotypical black male our media portrays.

 

[The Mad Titan]

The thing about most nerds is they are being themselves, alot of them smash chicks on the regular or keep gf's.....Well the white nerds do.


So I have a group of homies from N.O

all of them are\were super nerds, I mean we traveled to game and to con's, dbz anime video games. all that

3 of 4 of em are black
1 is white
2 went to the military
1 is super swole light skin black dude with that ginuwine hair
3 got married one to a black chick the other to a latina chick and the other to a cerole chick.
1 of the marriages didn't work because she didn't feel like they had much in common.

I'll let you guess which one's are still married despite all of them being geeked out and which one didnt.


Other dude is still single and nerding it up to this day, ironically he hit the gym low key hard about a year and a half ago and now he has the same women that have been knowing him, some even for years and not giving him play are wanting to go out or date... talking about how great of a guy he's always been.

 

[Dr. Acula]

Get in the gym

I notice that all these women who typically write about how black men don't want them are ugly or fat. They never want to just admit to themselves that they are simply unattractive and that is why they are having issues getting men in general and instead try to make it a social justice issue about how black men are this and that.

bytch lower your standards and realize its just because you're not making yourself attractive to men.

For example this woman probably isn't having any issues with attracting black men

 

[Blackout]

Before that black nerd could have EVER developed an attraction for white women or other non-black women, he loved black women first. But women are women and if you're not getting fed, you're gonna get food from somewhere.

True

Its a shame how people dont see this simple thing

Many black nerds are forced to date out rather than become 40 year old virgins.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

"Gawker recently published an article by Ernest Baker titled, “The Reality of Dating White Women When You’re Black.” In the piece Baker explains, at length, his reasons for only dating White women which boils down to the fact that he was an awkward, Black Boy Nerd and White girls were the only ones who showed him romantic interest.

Initially the article annoyed me—why would I want to read page after page of a Black man claiming Black women weren’t good enough? "

Stop right there trick!!

See, this chick is already up in her feelings...WRONG!
The whole point of the goddamned article was that BLACK WOMEN DIDN'T THINK HE WAS GOOD ENOUGH!!!
And THAT is why he resorted to white women.
Don't get it twisted.

 

[LadySimone]

What a lot of you guys are missing is that young girls never have the best taste in men. That's youth, not some grand conspiracy against socalled upstanding black men. Kids will be kids. As we get older we should mature but truth is most black are slow to mature with regards to dating. You got men and women in their mid 20s and beyond still chasing media images.

How about you let kids be kids but expect adults to be wiser and made better choices in every aspect of life.