Key part of that rant "now that Im in my 30's.......". Now I know the female brain is confused at the best of the times but do these chicks seriously think the type of dudes they want are gonna wait until ur 30's and finally ready to stop being a hoe to settle down with u????? One of the females on here explain this to me please. Because I find it to be quite disturbing.
The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance
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Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
You just explained in your previous post as to how those unapologetic men were nerds and now your saying you dont understand how they were nerds.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
What you describe is a non social nerd. Im not talking about them cuz its obvious what their issue is.
There are social nerds that exist who still have to put in more effort than other types of black men to get their own. Thats the ones Im refereeing to.
Damn we regular people get no love.
Nerd this, thug that.
What about the average black person that dates the average black person?
Its always one extreme or another.
Nerd this, thug that.
What about the average black person that dates the average black person?
Its always one extreme or another.
You just explained in your previous post as to how those unapologetic men were nerds and now your saying you dont understand how they were nerds.
No I'm not
You might need to re-read what I just wrote
So what is a social nerd (one that hangs out with women) and how does it play out when he tries to get said woman?
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
I reread it and it still is true.No I'm not
You might need to re-read what I just wrote
You understand what specifics being a nerd requires since you know unapologetic nerds who get women, as said by yourself.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
He gotta put in more effort and have more game compared to other types of men to get most black women.
It is what it is.
Non social ones, absolutely.
Social nerds get women... so I assume you guys are all taking about the non-social ones.
In fact, if I look at all the people I know, the social nerds are the ones who are in relationships at a higher rate. Most of my other friends are single.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
We are talking about the social ones and how they have to put in more effort and have more game compared to normal black men to get those women.
Mirin4rmfar
Superstar
Its because its easy for women to get sex and men are willing to drop their standards for sex. So lots of women don't know their true value in the dating market until they start looking commiment lol. While men learn when they start looking for sex which is early.
JudgeJoeForilla
Richest Broke Ni99a You'll Never Meet
Well the a lot of black men I've come in contact with are or at least try to exude a thuggish demeanor. It's actually kind of funny I live no where near the hood yet so many of these bm I come in contact with try and portray themselves with this image. From my observation is say about 25 percent of black men in my area don't have that I don't give a fukk mentality and More times than not aren't prosperous in their relationship with the opposite sex of the same race.
.I just don't believe this... I think you would have to qualify what constitutes as effort.
-Going out often
-Working on one's appearance
-Working on one's game
-Working on one's financial standing
etc etc.
You make it seem like a bum ass nikka is gonna come thru and take a girl away from a social nerd who has everything else I mentioned above going for him.
I never see that shyt in real life.
which conversation? in pm or public. yes my " break glass in case of emergency" is an anesthesiologist, i think he's pretty nerdy and the other one was a software developer, many hours wasted watching him play boring azz video games. i just have never denied that i also have dated what you would call "undesirables" and i havent dated "regular" 9-5 black men.
