The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Gold]

I've never heard of a woman breaking up with a dude because he's too into sports, it might happen, but if anything they are gonna dress up, go tail gate, or she gonna go sit in the stands with him and eventually become somewhat involved because its socially acceptable and "cool" But lets say he's too into video game tournaments, is she going to be willing to travel, watch him practice and watch him go actually compete I have heard a many women say they can't deal with a dude that play's video games though...god forbid he actual traveled for them too. RIP

I've heard both actually.

Even in college I had girls who refused to date me because I played a sport. They just stereotyped me and kept it moving.

But I feel you, one is more socially acceptable than the other. Thats why you gotta find people who socially accept what you like. And that includes black people.

 

[Neuromancer]

Pretty much, people are just gonna come up with excuses.

I'm a short, skinny, flat chested, never had a perm, head always in a book, breaking the curve in class, glasses wearing quiet weirdo, yet all the men I've dated have been black.

If it's really important to you, you'll find a way. For men, sticking to their race just isn't as important as getting their dikks wet so

Who doesn't like short girls?

 

[Arishok]

I"m just going to say this and I'm done.

Before I met my boyfriend, I was dating a black male nerd who gussed over the fact that I was interested in anime, comic books, video games, built my own gaming computer, etc and how he doesn't meet black women who are into that very often. A month later, he's not interested in a relationship so whose fault is that


Another instance, I was dating this black guy who wasn't necessarily a nerd but also wasn't a thug either and he gave me the for a hood chick but I guess that's because I like thugs, oh wait


But believe whatever helps you sleep at night/get through the day. Everyone's experience is different.

 

[Neuromancer]

I've heard both actually.

Even in college I had girls who refused to date me because I played a sport. They just stereotyped me and kept it moving.

But I feel you, one is more socially acceptable than the other. Thats why you gotta find people who socially accept what you like. And that includes black people.

The internet makes this easier.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I don't think some of these guys are lying when they say that were bashed by women in their middle school/high school days. I'm just amazed by how much they allowed it to affect them.

You just don't know man...you just don't know.
There ain't no pain worse than putting your tender little heart out there and having it smashed to pieces in front of everyone.
I didn't talk for a month.
Not "sitting on the side quiet and sullen" shyt....
I stopped being capable of speaking due to a mental block/trauma.

Edit: Been fukked up ever since that day...

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

And for them nikkas that say "but but we would take any kind of black woman" If she walked up on you

....Dating sucks lol. Women want commitment out of their league men want sex out of their league which lives you with a lot of bitter people lol.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I"m just going to say this and I'm done.

Before I met my boyfriend, I was dating a black male nerd who gussed over the fact that I was interested in anime, comic books, video games, built my own gaming computer, etc and how he doesn't meet black women who are into that very often. A month later, he's not interested in a relationship so whose fault is that


Another instance, I was dating this black guy who wasn't necessarily a nerd but also wasn't a thug either and he gave me the for a hood chick but I guess that's because I like thugs, oh wait


But believe whatever helps you sleep at night/get through the day. Everyone's experience is different.

Oh wow....


Was your sex bad?
That sounds like the only reason the nerd guy would drop ya.
I've done that before...
There's nothing in this world worse than bad sex.
Ugh....

 

[ExodusNirvana]

It wasn’t until my 30s that I began questioning my line of thinking in terms of Thugs and Black Boy Nerds;

Like clockwork

 

[Arishok]

Oh wow....


Was your sex bad?
That sounds like the only reason the nerd guy would drop ya.
I've done that before...
There's nothing in this world worse than bad sex.
Ugh....

No I wasn't giving it up at all.

 

[Gold]

I"m just going to say this and I'm done.

Before I met my boyfriend, I was dating a black male nerd who gussed over the fact that I was interested in anime, comic books, video games, built my own gaming computer, etc and how he doesn't meet black women who are into that very often. A month later, he's not interested in a relationship so whose fault is that


Another instance, I was dating this black guy who wasn't necessarily a nerd but also wasn't a thug either and he gave me the for a hood chick but I guess that's because I like thugs, oh wait


But believe whatever helps you sleep at night/get through the day. Everyone's experience is different.

Amd or Intel?
Multi-GPU, Hybrid Crossfire, or single dedicated card?

Stock cooling, Aftermarket? Liquid? Phase Change?

Stock voltage OC? Overvoltage OC? Or no OC

Full Size ATX? Micro ATX? BTX?

Dual Core, QuadCore, HexaCore, Server Proc?





You cant just drop info like this in a nerd thread and expect it to be ignored

 

[Blackout]

I"m just going to say this and I'm done.

Before I met my boyfriend, I was dating a black male nerd who gussed over the fact that I was interested in anime, comic books, video games, built my own gaming computer, etc and how he doesn't meet black women who are into that very often. A month later, he's not interested in a relationship so whose fault is that


Another instance, I was dating this black guy who wasn't necessarily a nerd but also wasn't a thug either and he gave me the for a hood chick but I guess that's because I like thugs, oh wait


But believe whatever helps you sleep at night/get through the day. Everyone's experience is different.

I see.

Who was the first person you ever dated in your life? Was it a white guy?

 

[VFib]

And for them nikkas that say "but but we would take any kind of black woman" If she walked up on you

Exactly. " NO BLACK WOMEN wants me! Wah WAh" But if this black woman approached they wouldn't want her. Threads like this make me laugh. I don't have a problem with people who date IR, but enough with the excuses.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

....Dating sucks lol. Women want commitment out of their league men want sex out of their league which lives you with a lot of bitter people lol.

Nope it leaves you with a forum called "The Locker Room"

 

[The Mad Titan]

I've heard both actually.

Even in college I had girls who refused to date me because I played a sport. They just stereotyped me and kept it moving.

But I feel you, one is more socially acceptable than the other. Thats why you gotta find people who socially accept what you like. And that includes black people.

Yeah, I've been through it all so I see both sides of the coin. There are times where I was out at con's and tournaments and I was like why does it smell like booty and old sockets in here..... This is why you all can't get women.


I see where both sides are coming from and there is truth on each end, when it's all said and done. Being a nerd isn't a "cool" thing..... and sadly in the black community for as small as a population as we are in the US being cool is still a overwhelming "big" thing. Doesn't matter your age bracket. So if you don't fall into that then more than likely its going to be harder to find a chick.

Nerdy women are still women, they'll get there options simply because they are women.

And if there sexy like @CinnaSlim they can be choosy

 

[Neuromancer]

Amd or Intel?
Multi-GPU, Hybrid Crossfire, or single dedicated card?

Stock cooling, Aftermarket? Liquid? Phase Change?

Stock voltage OC? Overvoltage OC? Or no OC

Full Size ATX? Micro ATX? BTX?

Dual Core, QuadCore, HexaCore, Server Proc?





You cant just drop info like this in a nerd thread and expect it to be ignored

My wallet is crying looking at this.