The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[FSP]

Who said anything about bristling with confidence? Who said that confidence = approaching a lot of women? No one is asking for Superman to come bursting through walls. A basic level of confidence is something your parents should have instilled in you. It is not the job of any woman to play mommy and make up for your childhood inadequacies.

If your parents didn't teach you how to look people in the eye, avoid self deprecation, and ask for what you want in life, then blame them. If you find a woman willing to nurse your childhood wounds, then good for you and her. Hopefully you aren't a complete psycho and can be rehabilitated. But your inadequate childhood is not the fault of any black woman in your peer group. Furthermore, black women tend to get criticized for trying to change worthless men so I am not sure you can have it both ways.

Every man will have something he needs encouragement on as your relationship progresses and life throws daggers, but needing encouragement or lacking confidence in one area of life is far different from a person who overall has an unattractive, self deprecating personality. That actually goes for men and women.

This is the problem with black women. It's always no sympathy for you but whoa is me with all this criticism guys...

no.

I also like your cop out by saying any black woman "in your peer group" and not just "any black woman". Because you know that wouldn't be true. A lot of these after-thot minded females with exaggerated beliefs come from their after-thot minded mothers who remain thot minded because nobody wants to claim responsibility for how they treat the opposite sex during youth. But the truth is it starts with the females in your peer group.

 

[MajorVitaman]

You might have a point if either of our quotes had anything to do with promiscuity instead the type of partners people choose.

It all ties in together. Let's keep it 100 most women aren't checking for "nerds" until they're already washed & like the woman who wrote the article

 

[Gold]

oh boy. this thread just started at 5 in the morning and it's already at 45 pages in less than 12 hours? Yep, fukkery has left it's mark. somebody give me cliff notes of what happened?

Basically... there are a few (five) main schools of thought being debated here.

1. Black Nerds (men) cannot find their equivalent because Black Nerd (women) rarely exist in their circles

2. Black Nerds (men) have been emotionally scared by black women and for that reason have found solace in other races. They dont have a choice but to be with other races if they want sex.

3. Thugs pull all the black women until they are ~30. At ~30, all black women are washed thots who guilt trip black men into taking care of them and their babies

4. 90% of Black women who claim to be nerds are full of shyt. They are fake nerds/nerd wannabes

5. Black women will be with a guy who has obsessive interests as long they aren't nerdy tendencies


I've probably missed a few but meh... its a long thread

 

[Reginald Noble]

Lol a lot of women mess up and assume that men think like women. Most women are generally attracted to only a handful of men.

Whereas men have two categories.

1. Potential fukk
2. Potential wife

And a lot of women still don't realize that once you cross that thot-zone you'll never be elevated to potential wife status (unless dude is a stone cold simp of course).

Same thing goes for men who struggle getting friend-zoned who think they can weasel their way into sex by being the "bff"

Getting a Woman in America requires precision, accuracy intel and speed. Similar to military operations. I mean hundred page books have been written on the shyt. (Only in America) You don't have enough info and you don't execute correctly = You're dead in the water...

The average American male is not motivated enough to go through the training required during puberty to learn how to get females because the majority of females in their age range are already pre-diabetic, shaped like an apple and visually unappealing along with mentally non-stimulating.

This can be seen in the younger Gen Y cats on here who have a attitude about conquesting because the quality of p*ssy in their generation is virtually zero out of 100

 

[Wild self]

And fat thighs, love handles, old hag smell, USELESS WOMB that cant produce kids, old hag eyes, a huge deep p*ssy destroyed by countless other dudes, and wrinkles and crows feet...lames indeed have to take what they can get...at least its better than porn and whining on the coli

Sounds like white supremacy giving you the scraps n all.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

"Im trying to imagine a hypothetical date with a female equivalent of same cumulative attitudes:

She has nasty views on the intelligence of black males. Considers them dumb, and only interested in bird brains, which "forces" her to date white and asian men (I guess Im the lucky one she's willing to give a chance...heh).

She considers black males washed up by age 30 and undateable. Seems to bitterly relish the idea of scores of black men living alone the rest of their years.

Has an impossibly narcissistic self view of her own intelligence and personality. Thinks its the reason she cant connect with black males because they arent on her level. Considers her hobbies to be inaccessible to the underdeveloped black male mind.

When I ask her what her hobbies are she proudly proclaims they are: going to "Carnival", going to the casino, and posting on internet dating apps.

When I tell her outside of visiting message boards, I dont consider any of those hobbies to be ideal or interesting, she launches into a huge tirade against me, and ridicules me and black men as being uncultured, and proof of why we are dysfunctional..."

Oh shyt, this birdbrained chick works at my job!!


That is EXACTLY the argument that me and her got into when she first started.
Total birdbrain.
Thinks she's gonna land a man because she's from Jamaica and her daddy is asian and her momma is black.
Bird please...nobody wants you because you're worthless to the human race beyond being a cumbucket.
You wouldn't believe the stories she tells around the office about how guys do her wrong.
I just sit back laughing to myself and trying not to bust out laughing at her...


30+ and she still don't get it.
This is gonna be one of those REAL birdbrains that don't wise up and realize she ain't shyt until she hits 40+...

Reeeeeeeal piece of work I tell ya....

 

[Sassy]

Basically... there are a few (five) main schools of thought being debated here.

1. Black Nerds (men) cannot find their equivalent because Black Nerd (women) rarely exist in their circles

2. Black Nerds (men) have been emotionally scared by black women and for that reason have found solace in other races. They dont have a choice but to be with other races if they want sex.

3. Thugs pull all the black women until they are ~30. At ~30, all black women are washed thots who guilt trip black men into taking care of them and their babies

4. 90% of Black women who claim to be nerds are full of shyt. They are fake nerds/nerd wannabes

5. Black women will be with a guy who has obsessive interests as long they aren't nerdy tendencies


I've probably missed a few but meh... its a long thread

Luckily I'm one of the 10%...yay small minority!!!!

 

[Gold]

Luckily I'm one of the 10%...yay small minority!!!!

Nope, sorry, you are full of shyt.

You are probably with a thug right now as you type this

Don't expect me to take care of your kids when you hit 30 either

Spoiler: .

 

[Blackout]

Luckily I'm one of the 10%...yay small minority!!!!

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

oh boy. this thread just started at 5 in the morning and it's already at 45 pages in less than 12 hours? Yep, fukkery has left it's mark. somebody give me cliff notes of what happened?

Dafuq??




Read or

 

[Neuromancer]

Luckily I'm one of the 10%...yay small minority!!!!

 

[timothy_strickland]

Sounds like white supremacy giving you the scraps n all.

they want black men to deal with the female scraps and be content with it.

 

[Wild self]

Anyone who cant see how the media pushes a criminalized definition of black masculinity is blind.

Or benefits from this dysfunctional social dynamic. people who do will not say a peep because their social power and their p*ssy supply would be cut off. Like white supremacy.

 

[Neuromancer]

Nope, sorry, you are full of shyt.

You are probably with a thug right now as you type this

Don't expect me to take care of your kids when you hit 30 either

Spoiler: .

You ain't no nerd.

 

[Wild self]

they want black men to deal with the female scraps and be content with it.

They as bad as racist cacs