The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[JudgeJoeForilla]

Or maybe there's a high percentage of unreliable black men?

The circle goes on and on, hence the reason why this trite topic continues to do numbers despite being discussed at length numerous times.

I've mentioned that in my posts already. Regardless quality black men are not to be blamed for the reasons bw chose what they chose.

 

[Somewhere For Me]

The blame falls in black women because they're the ones who choose the path of dusty nucca only to complain and play the victim when it blows up in your faces. The moment when bw solar taking responsibility for their poor decisions is the moment you stop having fingers pointed at you. Why wouldn't "nerds" have a problem with being overlooked only to be expected to pick up scraps later in life?

Yes, because other races of women don't choose horrible mates and get pumped and dumped by them.

I am so sick and tired of us acting like other races don't participate in the foolishness as well...

 

[The Mad Titan]

This thread is pretty wild, but it shows what a disconnect there is between men and women. Especially black men and women.






I got me through the later half of the day tho

 

[Neuromancer]

Let me say this as well:

I think both genders, regardless of race, can have this attitude that just because they are "proper" that they are more deserving of a mate.

Yes, this includes chicks. I've known of so many chicks who think just because they are the good girl who is still a virgin that focused on her education above all is the only one deserving of a good man.

As we have come to see, plenty of dudes, including good dudes, will wife a ho up. Especially a reformed ho.

shyt, there are good chicks right now going through a crisis trying to figure out why the bad bytch ho beat her to the aisle...

Yo, I can write a book on this shyt.

You should. And this says something about our culture. We seem to reward bad traits. A good girl shouldn't have an issue finding a man unless she's not improving her self and is presentable. The same way a good man who is self improving and confident shouldnt.

 

[el_oh_el]

I've mentioned that in my posts already. Regardless quality black men are not to be blamed for the reasons bw chose what they chose.

That's bullshyt. I for one know damn well the lengths a dude will go to and lies a dude will tell to woo a female. It's all a part of the game..but to place full blame on females when nikkas is the ones pursuing and not living up to they promises is pretty hypocritical ..as per the norm in our society

 

[Phoenix Hoely]

This ain't about bm vs bw this is about the estranged black mans hardships when trying to approach women of his own race. By estranged I mean the black male who doesn't fit the description of what media and our modern African American culture tries to shove down our throats.

That is what it all balls down to. Blame yourself, but I see it's easier to blame women. Some of y'all are insecure. I don't even know you all personally, but I notice from some of you all posts, that some of you lack confidence. I can name a few, but I ain't going to go into all of that.

 

[marcuz]

Look for black comic conventions like mecca con or black age of comics convention. You can eat.

@7Revo, go eat

i'm not looking for a black nerd though. been there, done that; not as dreamy as it would seem. she watching bullshyt anime, we both on computers all the time, sending me unfunny reddit memes, her liking nintendo games nah, i'm cool. i'm a firm believer that opposites attract.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

This thread is pretty wild, but it shows what a disconnect there is between men and women. Especially black men and women.






I got me through the later half of the day tho

TBH after reading some of this I think the disconnect is between people who spend too much time on the internet and people that need to get out of the damn house and live life

 

[Wild self]

Stop. You are reaching right now.

Ok, what are your real hobbies? What kind of man makes you at every turn? Be honest.

And answer the rest of that post, for the sake of your intelligence.

 

[Neuromancer]

That's bullshyt. I for one know damn well the lengths a dude will go to and lies a dude will tell to woo a female. It's all a part of the game..but to place full blame on females when nikkas is the ones pursuing and not living up to they promises is pretty hypocritical ..as per the norm in our society

But who is buying the lies and not doing their research.

 

[Insensitive]

I really, REALLY hate these extremes of describing black people.
As if you can only be some awkward, introverted nerdy sycophant or a raging,
emotionally abusive thug.

It's VERY problematic to describe and look at black people in this way.

 

[Gold]

Ok, what are your real hobbies? What kind of man makes you at every turn? Be honest.

And answer the rest of that post, for the sake of your intelligence.

VFib, you betta answer the question







I need closure after you curved me

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

That's bullshyt. I for one know damn well the lengths a dude will go to and lies a dude will tell to woo a female. It's all a part of the game..but to place full blame on females when nikkas is the ones pursuing and not living up to they promises is pretty hypocritical ..as per the norm in our society

So you think it's bull shyt just because I said quality bm will not and are not deserving of the blame for black women's choices? That's not bull shyt it's the truth and when someone chooses a bad partner that's on them. I honestly don't see how women in 2016 can continue to be "woo'd" by lies from a man after all the bull shyt complaining bw have done over the decades. When someone makes a bad decision it's there fault. The bm black women chose to be with are at fault for the things they do but are not at fault for her decision.

 

[marcuz]

offtopic, but this girl is such a cutey pie

edit:

nope, yep, i stand by what i said. most of these "black female nerds" gravitate towards non-black men

 

[Blackout]

@7Revo, go eat

i'm not looking for a black nerd though. been there, done that; not as dreamy as it would seem. she watching bullshyt anime, we both on computers all the time, sending me unfunny reddit memes, her liking nintendo games nah, i'm cool. i'm a firm believer that opposites attract.