The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[FSP]

A real nikka is one who walks, talks and exudes confidence. Handles his business. Has steady income, is independent, has a job, a vehicle, handles himself like a boss, takes charge, is a leader, cares about his health and appearance, isn't afraid to stand up for himself, hits the weights, knows how to move in a room full of vultures, can adapt to any surrounding, can converse with any type of female, doesn't bytch, whine and complain that bytches ain't checkin for him, is always looking to improve himself and his situation, has goals and keeps positive people around him.

I could go on

**job not required

 

[MalikReloaded]

Are you generalizing all black women or all you talkin about ratchets?

Thugs, bad boys, alphas, swag boys, rappers, athletes, players. They all make up the top 20% of men. Your neighborhood ratchet wants the thug. The bougie chick wants Tupac in a business suit. The college chick wants the Q dog with swag. Same difference.

 

[Wild self]

A real nikka is one who walks, talks and exudes confidence. Handles his business. Has steady income, is independent, has a job, a vehicle, handles himself like a boss, takes charge, is a leader, cares about his health and appearance, isn't afraid to stand up for himself, hits the weights, knows how to move in a room full of vultures, can adapt to any surrounding, can converse with any type of female, doesn't bytch, whine and complain that bytches ain't checkin for him, is always looking to improve himself and his situation, has goals and keeps positive people around him.

I could go on

Wonder if Malcolm and Marcus Garvey would call themselves that

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

You mean I pump and dump them?

Nah that's not how it works brah. Men pump and dump women, not the other way around. Women get too emotionally attached, FACTSSSSSS.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Thugs, bad boys, alphas, swag boys, rappers, athletes, players. They all make up the top 20% of men. Your neighborhood ratchet wants the thug. The bougie chick wants Tupac in a business suit. The college chick wants the Q dog with swag. Same difference.

Why would nerds/geeks even be checkin for ratchets?

All those generalizations don't hold true in all cases. I know boogie college that only like nerd "educated" cats. I know college chicks that want ball players. There are so many females out here to choose from. Who really gives a shyt about the bytches WHO ARENT CHECKIN FOR YOU! It's all about the ones that are.

nikkaz spend too much gatdam time worrying about which female is datin some other nikka that has nothin to do them. Worry about the bytches who are interested in you and dudes will be aaaite

 

[Killer Instinct]

I dislike insecure men because I also suffer with insecurity and I feel like because they are men they should be better than me.

Ignoring how absurd the bold is.... Are you a feminist?

 

[notwhoiusedtobe]

A real nikka is one who walks, talks and exudes confidence. Handles his business. Has steady income, is independent, has a job, a vehicle, handles himself like a boss, takes charge, is a leader, cares about his health and appearance, isn't afraid to stand up for himself, hits the weights, knows how to move in a room full of vultures, can adapt to any surrounding, can converse with any type of female, doesn't bytch, whine and complain that bytches ain't checkin for him, is always looking to improve himself and his situation, has goals and keeps positive people around him.

I could go on

So one of my uncles who has no steady income, but is fit and can adapt to/literally fukk up a room full of vultures is a real nikka, basically because he's got a good mouthpiece, fists, and women simp him.

My cousin don't bytch I'm saying what he doesn't bother to. He's such a positive dude, he doesn't even watch the news. And he's studying art & design right now. He's not real, though

 

[MalikReloaded]

Wait didnt you say that nerds dont chase nor put any effort toward women and are socially inept?

How do they get any woman if they are socially inept, dont chase women or dont put any effort toward getting women?

Is it occhie wally or is it one mic?

He's a mangina / white knight / male feminist in the making.

His argument is that because older black women want squares and nice dudes that we're just intentionally avoiding them to date non-black women. Thank you captain obvious. We already KNOW black women want black simps when they get older. Who else is gonna pay the bills and actually marry women? We're talking about the years before 25. The years before b*stard babies, excess fat and damaged credit.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

So one of my uncles who has no steady income, but is fit and can adapt to/literally fukk up a room full of vultures is a real nikka, basically because he's got a good mouthpiece, fists, and women simp him.

My cousin don't bytch I'm saying what he doesn't bother to. He's such a positive dude, he doesn't even watch the news. And he's studying art & design right now. He's not real, though

Sounds like a real nikka to me

 

[Insensitive]

Sorry that I can't see Prince like a bad boy as much as I see later rappers etc.
I remember those early 90's days and no one had to be a bad boy or even remotely a thug. You had to just to available. I can't think of anyone who had to resort to whining about not finding a girl. You could be a regular Joe and you could eat. That started to change with Gangsta Rap and got worse with Baller / Shiny Suit Rap - coincidence - I don't think so ...

And in the context of the 80's prince was exactly that a "bad boy".

There have always been guys that struggled with women, the insinuation that it started with Gangsta Rap is well..insane

 

[MalikReloaded]

Why would nerds/geeks even be checkin for ratchets?

All those generalizations don't hold true in all cases. I know boogie college that only like nerd "educated" cats. I know college chicks that want ball players. There are so many females out here to choose from. Who really gives a shyt about the bytches WHO ARENT CHECKIN FOR YOU! It's all about the ones that are.

nikkaz spend too much gatdam time worrying about which female is datin some other nikka that has nothin to do them. Worry about the bytches who are interested in you and dudes will be aaaite

Why you acting like I didn't say other black women besides ratchet chicks?

Most young black women aren't looking for husbands. They looking for fun cool nikkas like you. I think I recall you saying you were a college football athlete and how you ran all sorts of trains and orgies, and smashed dozens of girls in college. Basically you were that nikka. Congrats Too bad you can only marry one girl when its all said and done though. All those girls you ran through gotta find a dude to marry them, and the squares most likely WON'T be there to marry these girls in their late 20s/30s after watching you fukk all of them in their 20s Thus the article, and all the other can't find good black men articles. They been left. They might have heard them sneaking out the door but, they were too busy sucking dikk

 

[MrPentatonic]

Here's the thing, if you are a person who went after the thug (or the instathot), you had your fun. After you've been used by the thug (or the instathot) and you procreated with these individuals, don't come crying that you can't find a man or woman of quality when you were too busy turning your noses up at them.

While you're not obligated to give the the time of day, they're not obligated to rescue you or give you the time of day once you've been burned out. This isn't a Tyler Perry film where you're going to get saved. And this goes for both men and women.

what makes a nerd a man of quality?

people shouldnt really use nerd/educated as interchangeable terms.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Cinnaslim is that toxic kind of black chick who is cute af, smiles a lot and is polite acting to everyone but only accepts getting her p*ssy blowed out by the roughest dudes in the city on the low

You love me tho.
The guys I've been with were more nerds than thugs. They don't fit in a box. They were all unique.

 

[EndDomination]

Honestly I am a Black nerd and I haven't had *too much* trouble with women, but I also have gone for a very specific kind of girl, intelligent, ambitious, mature, and goal-oriented. Other than my incredibly promiscuous ex (who is flourishing in school still), every other girl I've talked to has been the kind who hasn't gone through a "thug phase" or a "ho phase."
I don't plan on having anything less than a lucrative career as an adult, and I won't lose sleep over women who make poor relationship decisions

 

[EndDomination]

what makes a nerd a man of quality?

Probably not involved in anything illegal, probably not promiscuous, and usually has worthwhile interests that can parlay into a career (programming, design, coding, mathematics, etc).
All male nerds are quality, but a lot of quality men tend to be nerds in one way or another.