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Zapp Brannigan

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I don't really think that women like "bad boys" so much as they like confident men. It's just that "bad boys" always appear more confident because they treat women like they're expendable, being rude to them or treating them outright badly. I'll bet my bottom fukking dollar that a good man (not a "nice guy") that can match said bad boy for looks, athleticism, and personal success could beat the bad boy out every time if he makes a solid stand in defending said woman. In other words, they key isn't to be "bad," so much as being strong and exciting to be around.

:manny: My two cents.
 

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I don't really think that women like "bad boys" so much as they like confident men. It's just that "bad boys" always appear more confident because they treat women like they're expendable, being rude to them or treating them outright badly. I'll bet my bottom fukking dollar that a good man (not a "nice guy") that can match said bad boy for looks, athleticism, and personal success could beat the bad boy out every time if he makes a solid stand in defending said woman. In other words, they key isn't to be "bad," so much as being strong and exciting to be around.

:manny: My two cents.


Problem is, in today's world, you can't be an individual anymore. You either some super alpha male that :birdman: all day or some bytchmade beta male. Its in the extremes with the ladies and their perception. Like why 90% of ladies desire 10% of the dudes. Same reason.
 

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Problem is, in today's world, you can't be an individual anymore. You either some super alpha male that :birdman: all day or some bytchmade beta male. Its in the extremes with the ladies and their perception. Like why 90% of ladies desire 10% of the dudes. Same reason.

:ld: Fair enough. Being an optimist, I try to put a positive light on things with this fact. At the very least, it's good motivation to be in that top 10%. Once you get to that level with all of that personal success, you'll notice that all the other things that life has to offer besides p*ssy made the journey worthwhile on its own merits. :obama:
 

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Problem is, in today's world, you can't be an individual anymore. You either some super alpha male that :birdman: all day or some bytchmade beta male. Its in the extremes with the ladies and their perception. Like why 90% of ladies desire 10% of the dudes. Same reason.

This is textbook beta thinking... "women won't let me be me" :50holmes: :belinda:
 
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I don't really think that women like "bad boys" so much as they like confident men. It's just that "bad boys" always appear more confident because they treat women like they're expendable, being rude to them or treating them outright badly. I'll bet my bottom fukking dollar that a good man (not a "nice guy") that can match said bad boy for looks, athleticism, and personal success could beat the bad boy out every time if he makes a solid stand in defending said woman. In other words, they key isn't to be "bad," so much as being strong and exciting to be around.

:manny: My two cents.

You eliminated half the male population with that multi combo playboy......:jawalrus:
 
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I think a lot of people equate "alpha" with being a loud mouth jock looking fella...Especially women...Women are verbal communicators, so they love men who talk a lot...

To them a man who talks a lot is probably an "alpha," especially if dude has the physique to match his mouth...

I have had women tell me I am not "aggressive/confident" enough for them...Basically, they were telling me I am not an "alpha"...

I think for women it's a way for them to have an idea, if dude would be able to protect them in a dangerous situation...

So, when you are a quiet guy, women don't know what to make of you...They either feel that you are not all that interested in them and/or you are not going to be able to provide protection for them...(also they may think you are not "adventurous" enough)

Basically by being a quiet guy, you are not addressing their insecurity issues, so if a girl doesn't really know you like that, she probably wont give you the time of day...

This is just a generalized opinion...I am not a woman, so I don't really know...I could be wrong...

So take it with a grain of salt...
 

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I don't really think that women like "bad boys" so much as they like confident men. It's just that "bad boys" always appear more confident because they treat women like they're expendable, being rude to them or treating them outright badly. I'll bet my bottom fukking dollar that a good man (not a "nice guy") that can match said bad boy for looks, athleticism, and personal success could beat the bad boy out every time if he makes a solid stand in defending said woman. In other words, they key isn't to be "bad," so much as being strong and exciting to be around.

:manny: My two cents.
I agree and honestly think it maybe simpler than that. Alot of chicks scarred to get dissed so they hide behind bullshyt like I'm "traditional", he gotta make the first move, etc. If women weren't so scarred I don't think they would even go after "bad boys" like we think its just those are the types that don't leave them vunerable to get played by taking all the initial risk.
 
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