The biggest elephant in the room in most relationships: Women think they settled and could have done better

Roid Jones

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This not an issue for me

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They only feel that why when your money lookin funny… If your bread is right trust she ain’t thinking about the next nikka or the nikka she use to mess :mjlol:

If she on the Amex accounts, got Marc Jacob and LV bags pushing that big body Benz GLS 2023 model and 2 decades deep in a marriage and still getting long stroked raw 4 times a week… A thought about she could’ve done better never crossed her mind because I’m the nikka she did better with :mjgrin:
I believe this to the fullest!
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Have you seen the prices of everything?
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Could I be more in touch with my emotions? Could I give more words of affirmation? Could I be home more than 6 months a year? Sure, but when my family has not a single need nor want they can’t acquire all that other stuff is out the window.
:wow:
The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. What percentage of black men make 100k plus and do you have access to those who do?
:usure:
Money isn’t everything but it does provide security, comfort, and the world is less stressful. Do you want to risk leveling up, going back to the streets, so you can try to do better and get that 5% your man lacks?
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Most relationships built on this foundation are doomed to fail from the start and there are more women who feel this way than most men are willing to admit

Especially If she ever had a man in her past who was "the one who got away", it's even worse feeling for her and she will take the resentment out on you everyday, you can never measure up

How many coli brehs in a relationship want to admit that their woman looks at them with the "I'm so lucky to have you in my life" look:sas2:
That’s why you put them through the fiery crucible to combat this dynamic before you cuff. It’s like a platinum protection plan.
 

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Seems like it’s harder than ever for women to be content. I think the AI phenomenon will make online dating/social media less of an obstacle due to people constantly being scammed/catfished. So in person interactions and dumb phones will make a comeback
Yeah, I actually think people are going to start to reject the internet because it's too fake.
 

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I believe this to the fullest!
:myman:
Have you seen the prices of everything?
:merchant:
Could I be more in touch with my emotions? Could I give more words of affirmation? Could I be home more than 6 months a year? Sure, but when my family has not a single need nor want they can’t acquire all that other stuff is out the window.
:wow:
The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. What percentage of black men make 100k plus and do you have access to those who do?
:usure:
Money isn’t everything but it does provide security, comfort, and the world is less stressful. Do you want to risk leveling up, going back to the streets, so you can try to do better and get that 5% your man lacks?
:francis:

I’ve seen them do it. They always try to crawl back once it blows up but I’ve never seen the guy take them back. :manny:


That’s why you put them through the fiery crucible to combat this dynamic before you cuff. It’s like a platinum protection plan.

What is this crucible of which you speak? :jbhmm:
 

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Social media has really done a number on women’s heads. All these relationship gurus, and expecting princess treatment has them seeking unrealistic relationships. Relationships are work. It’s not roses every week, extravagant gifts all the time, constant vacations, waking up to breakfast in bed, etc. (We’re going on our 4th vacation of the year on the 10th, but one was a business trip, and she just came along, but I digress.)

It’s living a regular day to day life, with a partner.
Nah, there's some women like this that existed before. Social media def increased it though.
 

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When a man says this, most women deny it, but let's be real, there's plenty women that'll admit this when they are close enough to you to open up.



Yeah men aren't perfect but women's ideal partner is statistically far more improbable than a man's ideal partner. So this is Partly a problem of it being hard to please women/ high expectations

Don't lesbian relationships have high rates of divorce and abuse? :sas2:


That's why you should strive to be the best you can. Don't listen to women who talk about some "just be yourself"/"toxic masculinity"/etc. bullshyt. You'll regret it later
Breh you ain't lying:ohhh:


"female couples made up 67.2% of same-sex divorces"
 

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They only feel that why when your money lookin funny… If your bread is right trust she ain’t thinking about the next nikka or the nikka she use to mess :mjlol:

If she on the Amex accounts, got Marc Jacob and LV bags pushing that big body Benz GLS 2023 model and 2 decades deep in a marriage and still getting long stroked raw 4 times a week… A thought about she could’ve done better never crossed her mind because I’m the nikka she did better with :mjgrin:
Lol the foolishness of men

I got a chick who married to a vet. All the shyt you talk about. Still hit me up regularly

Even invited a nikka to stay at they crib while he was ot.
 

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Some people understand that that person you were wildly in love/attracted to when you were younger might not have been the right person to build a long-term relationship with. Or that YOU were not ready at that moment. Other people call that "settling".
 
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