idk...
ironic as it is............ i feel that if she had a backbone and self respect she wouldn't have been my bottom this long,
so that excludes her from being wify for me. + she literally never asked, she just hinted around it.
The Evolution of a Bottom Side bytch. Should I let it go ????
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ironic as it is............ i feel that if she had a backbone and self respect she wouldn't have been my bottom this long,
so that excludes her from being wify for me. + she literally never asked, she just hinted around it.
Choosing a wife isn't easy man. It's not like going through my contact list choosing one of many dimes like ok babe here's our newest family member. Choosing a wife is hard and a good wife requires a lot of specific qualities for me to pull the trigger on a big decision like that. Most women don't want to share and can't understand the concept of that type if family. I want to marry meadow but she lives in canada.
So let me GET THIS STRAGHTTT.
you can have another wife. you aren't considering maybe getting a young black wife.
You don't realize you'd be living the dream????
A 2nd wife may never happen if the chick isn't wifeable and polymgamist
people try to wife her all the time... so maybe theres still hope?
but anyway,so this is her fault , not mine right??
Oh, you are horrible...But fool me once shame on you, fool me twice can't put the blame on you. I always find it funny/sad how a man will treat a woman like a hoe, or turn a good girl out and then "lose respect" for her. Oh now you don't want her. Shame...
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I suppose.Yea you cant be shy about the dialogue. I wasn't and my wife was like
if the economy turns to shyt a lot more people are going to be doing it.You just can't present it like a pervert because the motivation of most men to have a 2nd wife is sexual.
I'm thinking how can this enhance our lives
i'm not horrible...
i just always thought of it as a friendship... but now shes all, ' i always want us to see each other' ... i actually never lied to her, so i be trying to justify it.
oh yeah...Yea you cant be shy about the dialogue. I wasn't and my wife was like
You just can't present it like a pervert because the motivation of most men to have a 2nd wife is sexual.
I'm thinking how can this enhance our lives
i come from the afrocentric community...
so i know 3 reasons for it..... none are sexual.
community, economics, and someone always available for the children.
If that's how a woman wants to be treated what can you do? Of course you know it's wrong and continue to do it so that says a lot about your moral fiber. If you truly stop fukking with that chick she will either sink or swim. Kill herself or respect herself.
Of course you know it's wrong and continue to do it so that says a lot about your moral fiber. If you truly stop fukking with that chick she will either sink or swim. Kill herself or respect herself. If it was a friendship then why were yall doing relatioship things? You knew full well what she really wanted, you aren't stupid. You knew you weren't trying to go there with her and still continued. She is dumb and you rode with it, pacified her. You knew you had her so you just let her continue to be dumb and used. Just because you didn't sell her dreams doesn't mean your hands are clean. But
You really are the model wife out of all these women in the coli. Not sure if you can actually cook but you look like a wife.
You all are grown and she knows her role so keep her around, its hard to find chicks like her and you'll be going back even if you did attempt to cut her loose.
Very few people in life are intelligent enough to understand and accept situations for what they are. She is cool with being a role player and doesn't try to be the star
Very few people in life are intelligent enough to understand and accept situations for what they are. She is cool with being a role player and doesn't try to be the star
Dameon Farrow
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It happens.....more than most people will admit to....but the thing is....if she is truly content with it it only looks bad on the outside. If you didn't order the steak at the steakhouse and instead went for that shrimp etoufee with the garlic bread you didn't waste the steak because you didn't want it nor order it anyway. Everybody isn't made out for the fairy tale endings and on that note, fairy tale endings are a subjective thing. For example, I say I'm happy single and childless and the majority of days I am. No lie. But somedays I sit back and wonder what I'm missing by not having a stable relationship. I don't sit back and wonder what I'm missing from having children though. I know at this point I'm not about that life. Just being honest. I tell people at 31 I'm too old to be out having children and folks give me thechick wasted herself.
. Especially older folks. I can understand their reasoning though as they are from a different time. But I still look back at them like because I'm out here in these times. I'm...not...married. For goodness sakes. Is there some ingrained obsession with getting brothers to be on child support around here or something? 
To these older folks, I am wasting my life away. But they are on the outside looking in. This is my life and my decisions. It's unconventional in the eyesight of some but we can't all be pleased around here....especially if we can't mind our own business.
And while I do have my days where I wonder what I'm missing out on, I wouldn't trade it. I always go back to being grateful for my freedom like 2 hours later. 
Child Support out of the blue at the age of 31
Just when things are getting fully financially stable like I want them to.
I'll mess around and catch that case, brehs!
