The Evolution of a Bottom Side bytch. Should I let it go ????
- Thread starter Blackking
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this is seriously a hard decision
I got nothing fam
i still talk with her, but i have avoided her though.
i actually just recently realized that i would be jealous (13yearhistory) if she got wifed up... but happy at the same time.
MadameMoreaux
Pro
How can you call yourself a muslim and be so disrespectful to your wife and children? Marriage is half the deen my brother. You gotta make this right.
Sit down and speak to your wife about it, pull out some hadiths to support your side and read some quran together. Assure her that you love her, that you think she's beautiful. Share with her the benefits of having a co-wife, like having someone who will homeschool the children if she decides she wants to work, someone to share the housework with, etc.
Don't continue with this haram behavior, because as long as you do, can you really call yourself a muslim? No, you can't. Polygamy in Islam is not about having secret wives, it's about a man caring for, loving, and respecting multiple women. You are not being respectful to a woman whose house you role through whenever you want.
As the man, you have complete control of this situation, don't try to peg it on the side piece. There is a reason why God made men the protectors of women. You are not doing your duty right now. If you really love this woman who you are disrespectfully referring to as "side piece", then there is no reason why you shouldn't ask her for marriage and begin living a halal life.
Until you are able to correct this behavior, please don't identify as muslim. We already have these extremist making us look bad enough.
Sit down and speak to your wife about it, pull out some hadiths to support your side and read some quran together. Assure her that you love her, that you think she's beautiful. Share with her the benefits of having a co-wife, like having someone who will homeschool the children if she decides she wants to work, someone to share the housework with, etc.
Don't continue with this haram behavior, because as long as you do, can you really call yourself a muslim? No, you can't. Polygamy in Islam is not about having secret wives, it's about a man caring for, loving, and respecting multiple women. You are not being respectful to a woman whose house you role through whenever you want.
As the man, you have complete control of this situation, don't try to peg it on the side piece. There is a reason why God made men the protectors of women. You are not doing your duty right now. If you really love this woman who you are disrespectfully referring to as "side piece", then there is no reason why you shouldn't ask her for marriage and begin living a halal life.
Until you are able to correct this behavior, please don't identify as muslim. We already have these extremist making us look bad enough.
i agree with everything you said.
but i don't have a wife. and if I did have one it wouldn't be this chick----
shes basically an atheist
i actually agree though...
MadameMoreaux
Pro
If you're a real muslim then the answer to this situation is easy. If you're a poser then you'll keep fukkin her.*you're willing to risk having a child with an atheist?? smh
i stopped having sex with her...
*you're willing to risk having a child with an atheist?? smh
that doesn't mean that I don't want to.... shes developed like crazy over the decade bruh.
im not trying to have sex again til marriage.
Hardest Since MC Ren
Kizz My Black Azz
i agree with everything you said.
but i don't have a wife. and if I did have one it wouldn't be this chick----shes basically an atheist
i actually agree though...
u cant keep up with your own lies ,can you??
u was fukking her when u was married
i don't have a wife is what i said.
because i don't.
i had a wife a lifetime ago bruh.
