Intelligent?
The Evolution of a Bottom Side bytch. Should I let it go ????
- Thread starter Blackking
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Intelligent?
Yea it takes some intelligent for her to understand that she isnt number 1 material with the type of nikka that she wants to be number 1 with and accepts her role
Most sides try to force your hand to make them your main either not know our fully understanding that if they were a side to begin with that's all they'll ever be considered.
You find a chick that is mentally and emotionally competent enough to know that yall wouldn't work as a couple but yall are doing good as buddies and accepts that without trying to fukk up what your doing, then she is a keeper.
That usually means shes getting better dikk and hes the fire alarm.
Not all the time. Some people just accept and are cool with their positions in life.
Was she really boyfriendless for all these years? Maybe she didn't care for not being wifed up by you,and she is cool with her relations to you. I mean the choice is on you bruh, if there isn't any tell tale signs that she would go on stalker mode once you totally dismiss her, then there is no reason to think she would blow a fuse when you get gone. Some of these broads know what it is.But to be real you might be the ones with an attachment if you iffy about this, plus you ain't really tell your main about all your sidechicks. Its on you bro.or bottom young lady.
I'm just going to tell my story to illustrate how a young lady can get ruined being on the side and being Down for a man 110%.
Some of you never had enough women to even have a Bottom or even understand what that is
Once upon a time at Michigan State university I met a 2nd generation Kenyan chick... slim, not real shapely , not even fully developed yet, We were 17.
We hit is off but she was a good girl, with values unlike Detroit hoes i was used to. Caramel Goddess if you will.
I of course needed p*ssy, so I had a girl friend and side hoes, but we remained friends.
She eventually broke up with her boyfriend, I hit it over summer semester. She was taking classes, I wasn't cuz I wasn't that interested in cac education Any fukking way.......... I was becoming pro black by then + first year classes are way too easy for a brother with a history of home schooling.
Anyway, we fukked for a year... I got nevervous because she wanted a lock down, and I wasn't about that good family values life.
We stopped talking for 6 months, I went away, I left and went to the military eventually, She came to visit right after Basic Training and we made passionate love because we had that connection + she called herself waiting for me.
Little did she know I had my Very First Dime piece, and I , like a simp ass nikka, married for looks and Money.
While I was married, shorty went on hard times, and was kinda like fukk life. She had a degree but no reall career, I came back to Mi and hit her up...... and upgraded her life........ We started fukking again while I was still married.
By Now She has the FAT ASS and a banging body , unlike the little girl body when we first met....... and also I weight 35lbs heavier and am a real Grown man now.
I eventually got divorced................ but I had random girls and she was one of them - EXCEPT she would write my papers for college, help with my bills, help me pick out presents, help me with everything in life and even cook for me.
Official Bottom bytch statues - because we I needed money, she did whatever she had to do to get it.
But what happened to those values? What happened to that confidence, Did I ruin this hoe or WHAT?
She was fukking me all this time and i wasn't making ANY commitment................ so I started to subconsciously lose respect for her.
4 relationships over 10 years later......... me and her still fukk. We still share ideas and shes still down for Anything any time. We did 3somes, experimented our 'first' of everything freaky with one another. She knows all my secrets. Everything. + she still cooks whenever i come through.
we went on vacations together to FL, TX, GA, and to Mexico.
Anyway, for the first time in my life I have a Woman I want to be faithful to
Shes a real queen, and she knows I cut all my womenzz for her, but she doesn't really know about MY BOTTOM.
I'm not sure if I can even let my bottom Go. How can I do that? I now have been fukking with her over 13 years. Shes still upbeat and Friendly...... Holds Zero resentment for anything ( or at least doesn't mention it ) she says that she never wants to get married, but wants to always be my 'friend'.
Every moment with her is stress free--- PLUS HER p*ssy Defies the laws of time, space, and nature.
I hit 19 year old chicks with not as good sex and cooch. and Shes has her own house, a career, everything that would make her wify, but isn't pressuring to get wifed...... and is respectful of the fact that I have a girl, Never contacts me first...
Would any of you let this go, something that you are so attached to and used to?
isaygotdamn
Pro
i'm lowkey feeling sorry for the brehette, breh 
I've fuked over some chicks in my career but i let em know wassup before they melt down. Can't believe she's been around for that long
I've fuked over some chicks in my career but i let em know wassup before they melt down. Can't believe she's been around for that long
A woman will only play the fool for so long. Never forever.
Hardest Since MC Ren
Kizz My Black Azz
not attracted to African chicks right??
Post pics of the "bottom"would you be on anyones roster?
but anyway, i really didn't hit my bottom when i seen her, and i have even really even spoken to any women lately.
i think i'm ready to settle down
Was she stripping or hoeing?
this is seriously a hard decision
KravenMorehead™
Barrel Brothers.®
not attracted to African chicks right??
Can I get her digits? We need to have a heart to heart. So she's never had the beautiful feeling of a man really loving her exclusively? Be willing to proclaim that she's wonderful enuff to be his and dedicate his entire life to...?Wow. Not one of her needs are fulfilled. Some women sacrifice so much for people that don't give a damn about them.
DreadBrown
Feed the children
Keep her until it runs it's course bro real bottom chicks don't come around everyday. Maybe it will never burn out and you'll be one of those second family nikkas if really about that life.
Monogamy is a myth trust me most of our male elders have/had side chicks it's the natural order of things. Real men know how to keep that balance.
Monogamy is a myth trust me most of our male elders have/had side chicks it's the natural order of things. Real men know how to keep that balance.
Do you have this young lady's number maybe I can talk some sense in her?
