The feminization of black men

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Ironically, the tactic of labeling male interaction, mutual respect, and mentoring / bonding as "gay" or "effeminate", is one of the main tactics used to prevent men from sharing knowledge and imparting wisdom.

Its also why there are so few male teachers in schools. A man wanting to impart wisdom on kids is creepy or gay, but women are actually fukking their students at a rapid clip...
It's like with the pedo stuff too.

To not risk assumptions men are hestitant to interact or help kids they aren't related to.
 

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A lot of men and boys these days are too emotional, are not good with resilience and perservance, succumb easily to cravings, easily depressed by minor life setbacks, have no self-discipline, are always trying to appease other's people feelings at the expense of their dignity etc. They even care too much about the opinions of random people like females do.

And these types of men do not understand nor care about building and leading communities. At most they'll work, but they aren't leaders, they aren't strong enough to be and they won't be building anything. They also usually go out of their way to bring kids into this world even though they really shouldn't.
 

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Not all but A LOT of it stems from fathers not being as present as they should be. Popping up every other weekend with some McDonalds only does but so much for a young boy. When I worked with kids, I could usually always guess which ones whose fathers weren't around enough and which ones were, I was right 99% of the time, you could always tell a difference.

Lack of fathers has allowed feminine energy to grow unchecked in the Black community.
 

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Is there anything positive about being a woman to according to yall nikkas, or is it just 90 long years of a tortured, overly emotional life? :patrice:

As I said in the post, men need women for balance and vice versa. This weird androgynous hybrid we got going on where men are feminized and women are masculinized makes everyone unhappy. Men are committing suicide in record numbers and 1 in 4 women are on antidepressants.

I can't talk on the benefits of femininity because I'm a man. It would be akin to a woman lecturing me on what "a real man" acts like.
 

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I mostly agree with the op (I'm a big fan of traditional gender roles)
I would just add or differ and say that it's not just "fatherless" homes. It's actually really evident even in young men and women from 2 parent homes. It's common on here where there's an undercurrent of men actually being jealous of women (which is insane to me, apples and oranges)
Men who not only don't know how to lead, but have no desire too. Men who refuse to serve in the role of protector and provider, women who refuse to serve in the role of nuturer.

Society is crazy and getting crazier.
 

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:rudy: yall so dramatic, maybe they just having a bad day or year.

https://www.google.com/amp/nypost.c...-all-themselves-so-why-are-we-so-unhappy/amp/

http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/289511

Happiness lost

Each year since 1972, the United States General Social Survey has asked men and women: “How happy are you, on a scale of 1 to 3, with 3 being very happy, and 1 being not too happy?” This survey includes a representative sample of men and women of all ages, education levels, income levels, and marital status—1,500 per year for a total of almost 50,000 individuals thus far—and so it gives us a most reliable picture of what’s happened to men’s and women’s happiness over the last few decades.

As you can imagine, a survey this massive generates a multitude of findings, (see the full report by Wharton Professors Betsy Stevenson and Justin Wolfers) but here are the two most important discoveries.

First, since 1972, women’s overall level of happiness has dropped, both relative to where they were forty years ago, and relative to men. You find this drop in happiness in women regardless of whether they have kids, how many kids they have, how much money they make, how healthy they are, what job they hold, whether they are married, single or divorced, how old they are, or what race they are. (The one and only exception: African-American women are now slightly happier than they were back in 1972, although they remain less happy than African American men.)

http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/1098023

The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness
 

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I mostly agree with the op (I'm a big fan of traditional gender roles)
I would just add or differ and say that it's not just "fatherless" homes. It's actually really evident even in young men and women from 2 parent homes. It's common on here where there's an undercurrent of men actually being jealous of women (which is insane to me, apples and oranges)
Men who not only don't know how to lead, but have no desire too. Men who refuse to serve in the role of protector and provider, women who refuse to serve in the role of nuturer.

Society is crazy and getting crazier.

That's the same jealousy women tend to show each other. I've seen many instances where women are jealous of their daughters and are intentionally harder on them because her youth and beauty affords her access to higher quality men to provide. It all stems from them wanting the same outcome but realizing someone has an easier time reaching that ideal outcome.

Unless a woman is completely undesirable, if shyt hits the fan she still has the option of finding a man to subsidize her lifestyle, making the road easier. Most men don't have that option. If he's raised to believe that lifestyle is ideal, of course a man will be jealous because that option is closed to him.
 
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