The feminization of black men

HellRell804

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Again, you are showing you don't know what you're talking about. You sound very ignorant. This is a perfect example of what people mean by "toxic masculinty" or hyper masculininty.

Again, therapy goes along with anti depressants to help you work through your issues. The drugs don't make the "bad feelings" go away, it changes your chemical imbalance so you won't have suicidal thoughts and are able to actually get out of bed everyday, the physical things. Then you go to therapy and talk about things, they encourage you and help you think more positively. You take what you learn in therapy and apply it to your life. Similar to what you described in the bold. Both work together. Also, sometimes there is no "solution to their problems" because there is no event that is causing them to be depressed other than their brain chemistry being off maybe bc of genetics or maybe bc of some other substance or medication they were perscribed, which would mean they would have to take the anti depressants bc that is the only way to balance their brain chemistry. You would know that if you actually knew what you were talking about.

This has nothing to do with being raised by your mom vs both parents. There are lots of women who only have their mother who are still depressed, and there a lots of men who only have their mother and never had depression, so your little theory is off. There are millions of people of both genders who have both parents and still have mental health issues.


Maybe you'll understand if one of your male friends or family members kill themsevels instead of going to get help for their issues.

My uncle committed suicide and I myself have battled depression. I've only heard rumors of what my uncle was into (it was kinda bad if the rumors were true), but I know for myself it was because I wasn't happy and I had no idea what to do with my life to get happy. I had no one to guide me because the life I wanted to lead, as an entrepreneur, was radically different than my family and the people around me.

It wasn't until I got around like minded individuals that a fire was lit. They not only gave me a rough outline of how to accomplish my goal, more importantly they influenced me and gave me an ideal to work towards. To mold myself after.

I'm not gonna sit here and lie and say I don't ever get discouraged or depressed, but I have a good network of brothers on the same page as me now and after talking to them I work through my issues.

And I didn't have to pop xans like tic tacs to escape my feelings. I identified my problems, and I worked with other people whove been where i was trying to go , and i fixed them, because I'm a man.

The whole, "Im helpless against my overwhelming feelings" thing is distinctly woman
 

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My uncle committed suicide and I myself have battled depression. I've only heard rumors of what my uncle was into (it was kinda bad if the rumors were true), but I know for myself it was because I wasn't happy and I had no idea what to do with my life to get happy. I had no one to guide me because the life I wanted to lead, as an entrepreneur, was radically different than my family and the people around me.

It wasn't until I got around like minded individuals that a fire was lit. They not only gave me a rough outline of how to accomplish my goal, more importantly they influenced me and gave me an ideal to work towards. To mold myself after.

I'm not gonna sit here and lie and say I don't ever get discouraged or depressed, but I have a good network of brothers on the same page as me now and after talking to them I work through my issues.

And I didn't have to pop xans like tic tacs to escape my feelings. I identified my problems, and I worked with other people whove been where i was trying to go , and i fixed them, because I'm a man.

The whole, "Im helpless against my overwhelming feelings" thing is distinctly woman
I wonder How did god come into play in molding the new you.
 

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My uncle committed suicide and I myself have battled depression. I've only heard rumors of what my uncle was into (it was kinda bad if the rumors were true), but I know for myself it was because I wasn't happy and I had no idea what to do with my life to get happy. I had no one to guide me because the life I wanted to lead, as an entrepreneur, was radically different than my family and the people around me.

It wasn't until I got around like minded individuals that a fire was lit. They not only gave me a rough outline of how to accomplish my goal, more importantly they influenced me and gave me an ideal to work towards. To mold myself after.

I'm not gonna sit here and lie and say I don't ever get discouraged or depressed, but I have a good network of brothers on the same page as me now and after talking to them I work through my issues.

And I didn't have to pop xans like tic tacs to escape my feelings. I identified my problems, and I worked with other people whove been where i was trying to go , and i fixed them, because I'm a man.

The whole, "Im helpless against my overwhelming feelings" thing is distinctly woman
WTF? You didn't get "fixed" because you're a man you got "fixed" because you got around like minded individuals. You were a man the whole type you were stressing, dikkhead,
 

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Very interesting thread. The idea of making a man more feminine is akin to purposely increasing the masculinity in a woman - not ideal and it potentially enhances chaos. A man with natural feminine energy is still different from a man with synthetic, manufactured, excessive feminine energy. Not all men are flowing with vast masculine energy and as people, we do the best with what we have and what we can improve. In that way we come to grips with what we naturally are as people. But the gauntlet has been thrown down against nature to wage war against it - the war against self. Synthetic people lack the peace of harmony. Their very vibration has been altered. Men need to value their masculine power by turning away from those things which seek to water them down - programmed media in its various forms with overt and covert messages. Turning away from the matrix is only the first step. More awake people have to make themselves heard to become the new media, but one that avoids the pitfalls of its predecessor.
 

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My uncle committed suicide and I myself have battled depression. I've only heard rumors of what my uncle was into (it was kinda bad if the rumors were true), but I know for myself it was because I wasn't happy and I had no idea what to do with my life to get happy. I had no one to guide me because the life I wanted to lead, as an entrepreneur, was radically different than my family and the people around me.

It wasn't until I got around like minded individuals that a fire was lit. They not only gave me a rough outline of how to accomplish my goal, more importantly they influenced me and gave me an ideal to work towards. To mold myself after.

I'm not gonna sit here and lie and say I don't ever get discouraged or depressed, but I have a good network of brothers on the same page as me now and after talking to them I work through my issues.

And I didn't have to pop xans like tic tacs to escape my feelings. I identified my problems, and I worked with other people whove been where i was trying to go , and i fixed them, because I'm a man.

The whole, "Im helpless against my overwhelming feelings" thing is distinctly woman
Bc the cause of your depression was enviornmental/situational and you more than likely did not have chemical imbalance in your brain. Everyone's depression is not the same. That is what you seem not to understand. You probably weren't even really depressed.

Also "xans" isn't usually perscribed to people with depression SSRIs are and they are not addictive. There are lots of people who are depressed but are not suicidal (meaning it is not very extreme which means they probably do not have a chemical imbalance in their brain and do not need pills) so they only go to therapy and do not take pills. It is always best to go see a doctor. Gender has nothing to do with anything when it comes to health.
 

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Bc the cause of your depression was enviornmental/situational and you more than likely did not have chemical imbalance in your brain. Everyone's depression is not the same. That is what you seem not to understand. You probably weren't even really depressed.

Also "xans" isn't usually perscribed to people with depression SSRIs are and they are not addictive. There are lots of people who are depressed but are not suicidal (meaning it is not very extreme which means they probably do not have a chemical imbalance in their brain and do not need pills) so they only go to therapy and do not take pills. It is always best to go see a doctor. Gender has nothing to do with anything when it comes to health.

You can believe in doctors and therapy and I can believe that the best course of action is for males to get together and talk it out. Unfortunately, we'll never really get to see which one is more effective because in feminized America, male spaces are demonized, brigaded by women and the focus shifted entirely to women, and are, essentially, made useless.

I wonder which scares the government more, groups of men uniting under common values, able to focus clearly for a few hours a day without the combative whining of women, the thirst trapping of attention starved women, or even just the natural sex appeal of an attractive woman. Able to form strategic plans, able to actually carry them out, able to share similar stories so a young man can know he's not a failure and can still turn it around.

Or a bunch of men, artificially happy on pills and psychotherapy. Satiating their natural desires and capabilities with mindless consumer goods, and excessive intake of media...
 

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You can believe in doctors and therapy and I can believe that the best course of action is for males to get together and talk it out. Unfortunately, we'll never really get to see which one is more effective because in feminized America, male spaces are demonized, brigaded by women and the focus shifted entirely to women, and are, essentially, made useless.

I wonder which scares the government more, groups of men uniting under common values, able to focus clearly for a few hours a day without the combative whining of women, the thirst trapping of attention starved women, or even just the natural sex appeal of an attractive woman. Able to form strategic plans, able to actually carry them out, able to share similar stories so a young man can know he's not a failure and can still turn it around.

Or a bunch of men, artificially happy on pills and psychotherapy. Satiating their natural desires and capabilities with mindless consumer goods, and excessive intake of media...
You right God wants us to work hard and meet us half way with our blessings.
 

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@Giselle I implore you to read "A brave new world" by Aldous Huxley to see the the type of society youre advocating for.

Taken from a summary:

"Brave New World begins in an uncomfortably sterile and controlled futuristic society, commonly referred to as “the World State.” We join the story as a group of young students are receiving a factory tour of the “London Hatchery and Conditioning Centre” from the center’s director, whose name is… The Director. It's all a little creepy.

The Director explains to the students the process by which humans are grown inside bottles and then conditioned (read: brainwashed) to believe certain moral “truths.” This conditioning, also known as “hypnopaedia” or “sleep-teaching,” instructs the citizens to believe in the value of society over the individual. Each person exists to serve the community. It’s their job to be consumers and workers, which in turn keeps the economy stable and strong. Buy lots of clothes. Use lots of transportation. Do your job.

To make the system run more smoothly, humans are divided into various castes: Alphas, Betas, Gammas, Deltas, and… drum roll…Epsilons. Alphas are smart, tall, and muscular; Epsilons short, dumb, and ugly. These people figured out that the best way to keep non-Alphas stupid is to give them dangerous substances while they’re still in the test tube. In this case, they use alcohol and oxygen deprivation. Also, the lower castes are grown in batches, so that 100 Epsilons are all exact copies of one another.And you thought having an older brother was tough. Imagine having 99 clones!

Moving right along, we meet two more of the novel’s characters, Lenina Crowne and Henry Foster, both workers in the hatchery. Lenina is gorgeous. Henry has been sleeping with her. So has everyone else. However, this arrangement is the status quo. In the World State, sex is casual, regular (as in, once-a-day), and explicit. “Every one belongs to every one else,” which means when a man wants to sleep with a woman, he publicly says, “Hey, you, let’s have sex tonight,” and she says, “OK.” (Basically.) Even little kids play games with each other like hunt-the-zipper (just use your imagination). Also, orgies are a required bi-weekly event.

The other big activity in this world is taking a narcotic called soma—a drug that sends its users off into “lunar eternity,” a trippy escape from reality. We receive much of this information from the Director during his tour, but the rest is delivered via Mustapha Mond, a big-deal guy who happens to be one of ten World Controllers.

Mustapha explains to the same “group of students” (read: “plot device”) how this society came about. The short version is that the world got gradually more and more screwed upuntil the world population collectively said, “Oh we can’t take this anymore! Please take away all of our liberties and individuality in the name of universal stability!” And the Powers That Be said, “OK.” And now there’s no war, no sadness, no individuality, no history, no literature (!), no families, no emotional ties to others, no solitude allowed, no scientific freedom, and no religion (God has been replaced by “Ford,” as in Henry Ford, as in the man who perfected the assembly line and mass production). But still, there’s sex. A lot of it."
 

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Its amazing hearing these women den deny deny

As if social engineering is just something you just came up with today

The social engineers probably understand women better than the women themselves

At least men can admit to the manipulation
 

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HellRell the wise brother they don't want to listen till its to late bruh bruh don't argue with them. As Jesus would say "do not throw your pearls before swine." Those that know better will do better. Those that are stubborn with have a downfall of epic proportion. The wise love wisdom and fools love foolishness. Peace and Love

Man, I'm just seeing this post but it almost brought a tear to my eye. My granddaddy's favorite saying was "if they knew better, they would do better". Its printed on his eulogy pamphlet. Hold this rep bruh. Much love
 

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Man, I'm just seeing this post but it almost brought a tear to my eye. My granddaddy's favorite saying was "if they knew better, they would do better". Its printed on his eulogy pamphlet. Hold this rep bruh. Much love
Thanks Man, I just wish that Black men and Women were not so stubborn towards each other and actually wanted to grow together and stop these attacks on Male Masculinity but it seems like sisters love the way things are going as long as their on top.
 
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