The friend zone is a myth

[kevm3]

lol they should rename friend zone failure zone. Let's just call it what it is. Negroes get shot down and try to linger around trying to supersize their current consolation status. Then they go try and talk to other women and make sure his 'bud' notices and tries to do other specific things just to try to get the attention of the woman that rejected them on that 'look at how desired I am, don't you want to mess with me now??" tip. Man, get up off that woman. The best solution is to stop wasting energy on a woman that ain't trying to mess with you like that because there are ones that are.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

keeping it real, that's more or less what it is. if i'm friends with a chick, chances are i'm trying to hit.

i only have one female friend who i can honestly say is a genuine friend. and even then i still semi-flirt with her. not necessarily because i want to hit. but more just to see if i could seduce her. i think there is always sexual tension between males and females friends.


as far as your friends, they played themselves. they figured they were up for the challenge of cracking you open. but when you got pregnant, they figured you were fukking dudes all along. it's not that they think you're a whore that frustrates them. it's that they think they were trying hard to take it slow with you while in their head you were getting dikk on the side. in other words, they feel like you provided them with false info and that they lost their time and efforts based on that info.

I would be lying if I stated I wasn't hurt. I truly thought these were my 'manz and them'.

Whenever a new mixtape dropped they would always hit me up, whenever my knicks played against their team they would call me up popping sh!t, whenever they had 'problems' I was their voice of reason, etc. I NEVER gave any of them the inclination that there was any sexual attraction, I viewed them as cool people. Now it's as if I no longer exist.

I used to be the BIGGEST advocate saying male and females could be friends.. shieeeeetttttttttttttttttttt not anymore

I only have 2 male acquaintances that're genuinely happy for me, the rest where wolves in sheep's clothing all along.

That's the beauty about life you constantly learn lessons that help you gain perspective.

 

[Rominati]

lol they should rename friend zone failure zone. Let's just call it what it is. Negroes get shot down and try to linger around trying to supersize their current consolation status. Then they go try and talk to other women and make sure his 'bud' notices and tries to do other specific things just to try to get the attention of the woman that rejected them on that 'look at how desired I am, don't you want to mess with me now??" tip. Man, get up off that woman. The best solution is to stop wasting energy on a woman that ain't trying to mess with you like that because there are ones that are.

Cotdamm

 

[thesandman]

to the friend zone...



What's crazy is I've been on both sides of this equation. I remember I tried to get with a chick back in the day and was digging her so much. We hung out all the time and always had good times So when she rejected me I was blown I brushed it off and thought maybe she'd come around

Years later we reconnected and all she wants to do is hang out with me and tell me the problems she's having with her current dude. Always telling me how good i look (lost weight) and always saying randomly "I told my guy even if I do like somebody else, I wouldn't cheat on you".

 

[SubLyminalz]

lol they should rename friend zone failure zone. Let's just call it what it is. Negroes get shot down and try to linger around trying to supersize their current consolation status. Then they go try and talk to other women and make sure his 'bud' notices and tries to do other specific things just to try to get the attention of the woman that rejected them on that 'look at how desired I am, don't you want to mess with me now??" tip. Man, get up off that woman. The best solution is to stop wasting energy on a woman that ain't trying to mess with you like that because there are ones that are.

kevm3 stay dropping some knowledge.

 

[Dooby]

Never try to befriend a female you tried to hook up with.

 

[thesandman]

Never try to befriend a female you tried to hook up with.

what if you were friends before?

 

[KOTK]

Basically if you're trying to get on her she shouldn't be wanting to hang around if she's not up for it. If it's a no, leave unless you want another friend of hers.

 

[KOTK]

what if you were friends before?

You're not in the friendzone. You're a friend.

 

[Genome]

I got rejected by this girl I dated. She had picked another guy over me. I really liked her. Iv'e been trying to keep texting her and stuff but it seems like she is never interested in continuing to talk to me. At first I was like but now i'm not trying to be in the friend zone anymore What winb was saying could be true. She might have fukked up and want to fukk with me again

 

[Trilly D Williams]

Trilly don't even know what the friend zone is

 

[Angel On The Rag]

lol they should rename friend zone failure zone. Let's just call it what it is. Negroes get shot down and try to linger around trying to supersize their current consolation status. Then they go try and talk to other women and make sure his 'bud' notices and tries to do other specific things just to try to get the attention of the woman that rejected them on that 'look at how desired I am, don't you want to mess with me now??" tip. Man, get up off that woman. The best solution is to stop wasting energy on a woman that ain't trying to mess with you like that because there are ones that are.

 

[KOTK]

Iv'e been trying to keep texting her and stuff but it seems like she is never interested in continuing to talk to me. At first I was like but now i'm not trying to be in the friend zone anymore

Read that again. You aren't friends, you're a pestering acquaintance.

 

[Turbulent]

I would be lying if I stated I wasn't hurt. I truly thought these were my 'manz and them'.

Whenever a new mixtape dropped they would always hit me up, whenever my knicks played against their team they would call me up popping sh!t, whenever they had 'problems' I was their voice of reason, etc. I NEVER gave any of them the inclination that there was any sexual attraction, I viewed them as cool people. Now it's as if I no longer exist.

I used to be the BIGGEST advocate saying male and females could be friends.. shieeeeetttttttttttttttttttt not anymore

I only have 2 male acquaintances that're genuinely happy for me, the rest where wolves in sheep's clothing all along.

That's the beauty about life you constantly learn lessons that help you gain perspective.

it doesn't mean males and females can't be friends.

all i'm saying is that no matter what, there will always be some sort of sexual tension in a male/female friendship. and that's ok. the trick for the friendship to be successful is to learn to recognize it and be responsible about it. meaning don't use it to play games with the other person's feelings or to manipulate them. but it's definitely possible to be friends with the opposite sex. it's just a different type of friendship with a different "code".

 

[threattonature]

I'm actually torn on this. Some females I tried to hook up with were at the time in a relationship. But they were cool people so we stayed in contact. Eventually we had enough contact that it became a true friendship. That's how I made all my female friends. Either that or I fukked and then cut off the relationship and threw them into the friend zone.

But yeah I agree with the OP. Most of the time we end up in the friend zone after spending time with a female she decides she doesn't want to hook up with you LIKE THAT. We all assume that if given more time we can break through that so we stay "friends" instead of taking the L.