The friend zone is a myth

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Friend zone is 100% voluntary

There is no point two people being in a relationship where each person wants totally different things

Guys like to throw the term "friend zone" around cause it absolves them of responsibility for the situation. "Im stuck in the friend zone I put and keep myself in"

 

[Will Ross]

The friend zone is nothing more then a ego booster for women. You are basically the boyfriend without getting any p*ssy. It is called the friend zone because you never move past that stage. Most of us are not in the friend zone with a woman that rejected us openly. We are in the friend zone with a woman that will let you do everything but fukk

 

[Still Benefited]

disagree with TS. One of my best girlfriends was a girl I spit game to when we first met but never did anything. We are still cool after 10 years and we don't feel weird about it whatsoever.

U threw in the the towel and the familiarity with her mad it to where u don't have to have it no more...bu I bet you'd still fuk though if she asked...u just ain't tripin enuff no more to ask....I got female friends like too but bet we ain't talkin on the phone all day like "friendzone" nikkas do...she gettin them once in a blue moon calls and hangouts.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

The friend zone is nothing more then a ego booster for women. You are basically the boyfriend without getting any p*ssy. It is called the friend zone because you never move past that stage. Most of us are not in the friend zone with a woman that rejected us openly. We are in the friend zone with a woman that will let you do everything but fukk

You can move past that stage. W/another chick. By not wasting your time. With chicks who dont want you

 

[Julius Skrrvin]

If you're in a "friend zone" you're not really even a friend. Friendship is a mutual bond of support, trust, and understanding. You're a convenience. Basically most friendzoned dudes are people that are trying to still get it in with a girl that's using them as some sort of emotional pillow. Especially if she's already got another dude in her life who's actually gettin some. You aint her friend son.

and yeah, keep a few actual female friends around because they can teach you a lot. and help wingman you.

 

[Roberto Dinero]

]If you're in a "friend zone" you're not really even a friend.[/B] Friendship is a mutual bond of support, trust, and understanding. You're a convenience. Basically most friendzoned dudes are people that are trying to still get it in with a girl that's using them as some sort of emotional pillow. Especially if she's already got another dude in her life who's actually gettin some. You aint her friend son.

and yeah, keep a few actual female friends around because they can teach you a lot. and help wingman you.

Exactly. The bolded is truth. She don't give a f*ck about you and thinks ur a loser for sticking around and keep trying. She could care less about you, ur not her friend and u never will be. Don't waste ur time.

And yeah, having female friends around is a good thing. But make sure they are friends, not some chick who turned u down and u keep sniffing around her. I gotta admit that sometimes relationships with girls that start as friends end up in sex. I have had female friends with who nothing ever happened but I also have female friends were we ended up f*cking/hooking up.

 

[Will Ross]

You can move past that stage. W/another chick. By not wasting your time. With chicks who dont want you

Most dude invest a lot and they want a return

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Exactly. The bolded is truth. She don't give a f*ck about you and thinks ur a loser for sticking around and keep trying. She could care less about you, ur not her friend and u never will be. Don't waste ur time.

Likewise you dont give a fukk, you just want the p*ssy. People just need to be honest. If you want something physical and she is not with it, why stick around?

Most dude invest a lot and they want a return

Even successful investors lose.

Bottom line, friend zone is 100% choice, dudes need to stop complaining about it and keep pushing. Every chick you wanna fukk won't wanna fukk you and it makes no sense chasing the ones who don't.

 

[Roberto Dinero]

Likewise you dont give a fukk, you just want the p*ssy. People just need to be honest. If you want something physical and she is not with it, why stick around?

Exactly. U don't wanna be her friend either, why pretend? U wan't her as ur woman not ur friend. Like I said before that kind of relationship is doomed from the start. Its not worth having at all.

 

[Turbulent]

how can women be so dumb and naive? To believe nikkas ain't tryna hit...don't know why they gotta be wolves just cuz u wuz a sheep playin around outside the gate like u never been told "its wolves out there! Don't go over there!"...u play around by the gate and now u sayin "its wolves out here!"...I made a thread about this on sohh,here's my post.


"All the times i thought i got put in the friendzone over the years that sh1t really was just my ego talking i think.....Truthfully chances are you was never out of the god damn "friendzone"....as dudes we got that ego that make us think "damn im doin everything right, got her laughin, she callin me all the time, she already told me i was cute time to take it to the next level"


That dont mean sh1t,some females refuse to have ugly female friends too,your cute enough that she will be seen in public with you and hang out but not that she wants to fuk you...you got a mental attraction and nothin more,and mental attraction is meant to be some secondary sh1t....you aint beatin off soley a mental connection....its all about the physical connection,and when a female has it you will know it, you will feel it....theres basically nothing you can do to be put in a "friendzone" at that point when a woman has that physical attraction,theres not a hint she wont drop to let you know you can have it when you want it....to a woman the feelings that physical attraction bring are so much stronger then the ones felt with a mental attraction its ridiculous,its undeniable....that's y I laugh when women say we shallow.

 

[nalej]

U threw in the the towel and the familiarity with her mad it to where u don't have to have it no more...bu I bet you'd still fuk though if she asked...u just ain't tripin enuff no more to ask....I got female friends like too but bet we ain't talkin on the phone all day like "friendzone" nikkas do...she gettin them once in a blue moon calls and hangouts.

I'm a red blooded man of course I'm down to fukk if offered but if you told me that after we fukked things we would act different towards one another then I would do it. One night of puss is not worth the bond we got. I get advice and shyt from her I can't get from my stupid guy friends.

 

[Huellz Santana]

the quickest way to get out of the friendzone is fukk her best friend.

the change in emotions afteward =

then leave both them hoes alone and do something better with your life​

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Once I told a few of my male acquaintances I was pregnant not only did they drop me like a bad habit

That's your side of the story. Maybe you didn't make enough of an effort to be their friend. Maybe they felt you had a lot going on in your life and didn't want to be bothered. Friendships only work when both parties are putting the same amount of effort into it.

This also works as we are talking about "friend zones".. The whole "vulture lurking around" argument is flawed. Women don't allow guys they dislike to hang around unless they are benefiting from it in some way.

If a guy wants to test what this girl is all about.. all he has to do is stop contacting her entirely. If she comes back on some "hey, we haven't hung around in a long time" shyt, then the guy most often has a legitimate chance with her. If the guy never hears from her, then he knows what it is. Also, never let a girl talk to you about any kind of problems in her relationship. Cut it off right there. You don't need to be traveling down that road giving your opinion on ANYTHING.

 

[James Carter]

Now yall mad alot of strong points on why the "friendzone" is not real and i agree with all of yall. nikkas wont read or understand the nonverbal signs the chick is throwing and keep going in. But to say in 2012 that these chicks out here aint playing with nikkas emotions and toying with feelings is BULLshyt

I know chicks now with teams full of nikkas on the sidelines waiting to get called up when their man screws up or does something they like. And YES, these dumb nikkas are stupid for putting themselves in the situation. But sometimes, not all the time but sometimes, chicks wont even reject a nikka to keep him around on some "in case of an emergency dikk".

We can call it the "failure zone" or whatever but to say the shyt dont exist is something i cant back. I know nikkas in the friendzone who have NOT been rejected and all the signs are good but the bytch keeps toying around with them and theyve caught feelings and dont want leave

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Bruh at the end of the day, and this is not to be scumbagish cause it goes both ways, but if you are dealing w/someone and they are not holding up their end of the deal why continue dealing with them?

Theres no way you someone can toy with you if you keep shyt in the open... like if you make a move, and a chick doesnt go for it, what else is there to be said? When you go back to chill with her afterwards, you basically give her the go ahead to take advantage of you

Being in the friend zone = being afraid to walk away, period