Thats another thing. Lot of dudes ride w/the friend zone shyt cause they dont have any other options
The friend zone is a myth
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Well that can be troublesome too. A dude might think he has a bullpen, but is really in multiple friend zones at once. "Talking" to 8 chicks, but not "fukking" one of them
Bilz
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I already have a son, plus I'm an introvert. I don't do clubbing, partying, drinking etc. so that was never a factor.
With the females more of them are salty because I'm engaged. I went so long without being in a relationship & now that I'm happy; most of them view it as 'why her? it should be me'
Often times it takes a particular situation or turn of events for an individual to convey how they've always felt about you. If my happiness makes you mad or uncomfortable you never had my best interest at heart.
Such is life....
Thats all true, some people are friends by convenience or circumstance. I think everyone has had those friends at work and everyone says they will continue being friends after they leave the company and none of them do because that job is really all they all had in common in the first place. Thats just the way it happens sometimes. Judging by the people I know, it is pretty common for someones friends to all bounce once they have kids or get married or something. Your lives just become a lot different.
KnowledgeIsQueen
Duality Duel
I admire your optimism
The only friend who has stood the test of time is my best friend of 20 years. The majority of the individuals that come into my life is either for me to teach them something or vise verse. Once that's accomplished ties are usually severed; whatever the case I'm appreciative for the experience.
Well that can be troublesome too. A dude might think he has a bullpen, but is really in multiple friend zones at once. "Talking" to 8 chicks, but not "fukking" one of them
Its easy as hell to get out the so called friend zone, you just have to be the one to initiate it. The woman is not gonna do it on her own. I been getting laid off this for years.
After you call it quits with your main girl just call up one of those friend chicks and be on some "Ive learned a lot about myself and what i want out of life. With my last girl i felt like we didnt have a real connection, we rushed so fast into the relationship we didnt have time to really be friends. Blah blah blah....Why dont we give it a chance, if it doesnt work out we know we will still have love for one another."
Chances are the chick has watched a ton of dumb ass movies where they say their husband is their best friend so she gonna think thats the way to go, so you in there. Thats not gonna work if she with another dude though, you drop that when she single, and if the timing is right, right after some nikka did her dirty.
Plus let me give you another tip. If you meet a girl and the timing isnt right for you, then you put her on friend notice FIRST. If you do that then she never got the chance to "reject" you, she never got the chance to make it up in her mind that she didnt want you. Women always want to feel like they can have a man if they want him, if you take that away then you can always pull her back in once the time is right for YOU.
This friend zone shyt is also some high school to 25 year old junk. Single women in their late 20s on up are definitely going through their male friends trying to determine if any of them are husband material. If you are her friend then she knows if you have a house, good job, how you are with people, etc....if you meet those qualifications she gonna try and fukk with you because she knows how many foul nikkas are out there and she wants to get a good man to settle with. These young chicks still have the idea that prince charming is waiting for them so they are quick to dismiss otherwise good men.
After you call it quits with your main girl just call up one of those friend chicks and be on some "Ive learned a lot about myself and what i want out of life. With my last girl i felt like we didnt have a real connection, we rushed so fast into the relationship we didnt have time to really be friends. Blah blah blah....Why dont we give it a chance, if it doesnt work out we know we will still have love for one another."
Chances are the chick has watched a ton of dumb ass movies where they say their husband is their best friend so she gonna think thats the way to go, so you in there. Thats not gonna work if she with another dude though, you drop that when she single, and if the timing is right, right after some nikka did her dirty.
Plus let me give you another tip. If you meet a girl and the timing isnt right for you, then you put her on friend notice FIRST. If you do that then she never got the chance to "reject" you, she never got the chance to make it up in her mind that she didnt want you. Women always want to feel like they can have a man if they want him, if you take that away then you can always pull her back in once the time is right for YOU.
This friend zone shyt is also some high school to 25 year old junk. Single women in their late 20s on up are definitely going through their male friends trying to determine if any of them are husband material. If you are her friend then she knows if you have a house, good job, how you are with people, etc....if you meet those qualifications she gonna try and fukk with you because she knows how many foul nikkas are out there and she wants to get a good man to settle with. These young chicks still have the idea that prince charming is waiting for them so they are quick to dismiss otherwise good men.
Constellations
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Yup sum of these chicks out here man eaters...I remember meetin this bad chick. At my job a while back,cute,body like Ki Toy no lie....and on top of that she wuz one of those few women that's funny in they own right to a man,big personality....everybody would say he good we wuz together but she gave me the "I'm not ready for a relationship yet"...I said "ok
"....but then she would tell me shyt like "I neeed to fuk u soon"..id say "soon
ok"...one day she said she wuz on the way over to give me sum,I washed my balls off real quick and had the 
face...called 15min later talkin bout she better go home
.....invited me to her house one day to fuk when I wuz around the corner from her....I get there and her sister there and she ain't rushin to get sis out the door so I just bounced....she said she wanted to be friends first,I lied and said cool but let it be known I still wanted too hit...so like u said it wuz my fault but she wuz throwin the puzzy out there like she might be ready at any moment,I wanted to still be in the rafters like Sting chillin when she wuz...but after that third empty puzzy promise I realized she wuznt just scared of the d1ck like I convinced myself....she wuz a femae who liked havin nikkas on strings...once u started askin for money I had to draw the line and just told her I knew what she wuz like that scene on Lost Boyz where they tell the mamas boyfriend they know he a vampire....I didn't stake her tho we just had a good laugh and been accquantinces ever since,we talk shyt and are good for a plug on sum shyt every now and then...she tricked a baller nikka into gettin her pregnant but them child support payments ain't shyt cuz he broke now,and sum other dude she thought had money got her pregnant,she get her payments but braud still gotta work
....its sum scandolous women out there very good at bein users man,u gotta confront these women and let em know that u know they vampires and keep it real....once u let her know that u know what she is, she will show u the fangs and u will see the real her...ud be suprised how they open up and til u how dirty they do nikkas once they know u know...I don't care about that u can still be my homegirl to a certain extent...its just important to confront them so they don't ever think they got one over on u,or sent u home with ur tail between ur legs cuz u wuz heartbroken...all these women that got u in a friendzone go confront them hos today brehs
Do you read post or do you just skim through it?
I said once I told them I was pregnant they assumed I was lying about being celibate.
well you are either lying about being pregnant or you are lying about being celibate. either way, you're a liar. and most likely you are crazy because thats the only reason you would lie about either of those things.
KnowledgeIsQueen
Duality Duel
Hold on nikka
sounds like them bytches friend zond u only bcuz u had a girl but they still wanted to fukwith u from the jump...second scenario same thing except u friend zoned them....but they still wanted to fuk with u romantically from the jump.And have u nikkas ever seen a bad bytch with a straight ugly azz nikka friend? It seem like women ain't taken no chances of friendship with dudes they think might have the
face one day and try to rape em...same wit dudes,how many dudes u know got ugly azz female friends
...that's how u know 99% of the time the men and women can be friends shyt is bullshyt..u basically look good enuff u don't disgust her or look like u would try to sneak in her window,u look like uve had puzzy before.