The friend zone is a myth

[Robbie3000]

look i just didn't want to type all this im about to have to type (you're makin me type this)

You had multiple male friends that you knew were interested in you, but you weren't interested in them.

Instead of telling them "hey im not interested lets be friends." You come up with some lie about being celibate(thats the reason you can't be in a relationship). Which as a woman you gotta know is a calculated move to make dudes interested in you.

You string these men along for emotional support and/or attention. Most likely calling them when your real boyfriend is ignoring you and you need some guy to listen to all your crazy bullshyt but you also use them as a tool to make your real boyfriend jealous cause you're crazy and play those type of games.

All while this is happening you are fukking your man without a condom and letting him cum inside you. Telling your "friends" that you're celibate.

What kind of people hide relationships from their friends? If you are doing something in secrecy it usually means you are ashamed of what you are doing. being in a relationship is a normal thing, why hide it?

When you do tell the "friends" the truth the first thing they are thinking is "This bytch has been lying to me." all the while you are thinking "I thought you were my friend" when basically you had been using them the whole time for your own selfish needs.

You also mentioned that your the type of woman that doesn't have a lotta female friends. This means that you're probably immature, jealous, crazy hoe. because those are the only type of women that dont get along with other women.

The thing you need to realize is that crazy hoes like you (the topic of this very thread) are a dime a dozen and guys all realize one day that you are crazy and this is why you are gonna end up alone talking about "your daddy aint shyt" everyday but in reality you facilitated all of this happening to you.

see how it was just easier to say "i feel bad for your unborn baby"?

This is true. I was stuck in the friendzone by a female very much like the one you are addressing. I swear this chick could not get along with females. She kept male friends around (especially ones she had friendzoned) for the attention and emotional support. Also because she knew they would all treat her special(doing favors for her, listening to her bullshyt, working hard to entertain her etc.).

She was an emotional freak. Meaning that she instead of being physically promiscuous, she was emotionally promiscuous to the point of keeping about 5 different dudes around that she knew liked her or that she had out right rejected.

Women are some strange creatures.

 

[Sharp]

If you're going to be a chick's friend, then be her friend. Don't be her friend waiting for an opportunity to fukk. Man up from jump and tell her what you want. If she's not with it, then move on. If you still think she's cool enough to be your friend, then be friends with her, but don't wait for the p*ssy. There's nothing worse than having a female call you her BFF. You're like the dude who gets to see her naked all the time, but can't fukk. lol. You're the dude who she talks to about her boyfriend like you're one of the girls. There's no reason for any dude to play any female close that they're not fukking. Hang with them, chill with them, but don't make them the center of anything involving you. Like another poster previously said, make sure you control the situation.

 

[Ezigbo Nwanyi]

Most if not all women know during the first 10 seconds we meet a man whether or not we will fukk you.

Being placed in the friend zone is by choice. Either you can take the rejection and move on or climb an uphill battle that you already lost.

 

[Shameonyou]

who really gives a fukk? what man hangs around a woman hes not fukking? get real with yourself, its the summer time, and THERES BUTTNEKED WOMEN EVERYWHERE....lol @ putting one woman over all the others, look at it like this


IF a woman has never GENUINELY impressed you, in any way....im talking legitimately impressed you. SHE AINT shyt, let her rot somewhere else, and get your p*ssy supply from a girl that understands the dynamics of what men and woman ACTUALLY were wired to do. fukk this playground sandbox bullshyt these women are fooling yall to do with them.

 

[Angel On The Rag]

you all are ignorant

just cause someone is friend'd up or whatever doesn't mean fukking/physical involvement wont happen

people are always changing so its impossible to tell

 

[Prestige]

Sometimes its good to keep a platonic female friend around. She can hook you up with her friends and also talk about how much of a great guy you are to other females. They can also tell you about the things that you do that turn women off.

Okay nikkas who co-sign this, give an example of how being friends with a female benefited you getting hooded you up with others? Personally, I don't have time to talk to a female, because if she ain't feeling me, I'm on to the next one.

 

[Sharp]

You should have platonic female friends, but key word platonic. You shouldn't be trying to fukk them. They are great mouthpieces, and get you clearances with chicks that they know. It's like being certified. If you have a female friend who always bigs you up about how great of a guy you are, the chicks she tells this too are likely to give you some play. Just keep in mind that you can never fukk this platonic friend or bad things will happen. Also, this platonic friend shouldn't be a chick you tried to get at and failed, because this may cause problems in the long run as well.

 

[boxfullofjoel]

Most if not all women know during the first 10 seconds we meet a man whether or not we will fukk you.

Being placed in the friend zone is by choice. Either you can take the rejection and move on or climb an uphill battle that you already lost.

Agreed. Although I have one friend who actually broke the friend zone and is now married with children. But he is the exception, in my 37 years he is the only example.

Sometimes women also lower their expectations when they hear the biological clock ticking.

 

[MrFantastic]

If you're going to be a chick's friend, then be her friend. Don't be her friend waiting for an opportunity to fukk. Man up from jump and tell her what you want. If she's not with it, then move on. If you still think she's cool enough to be your friend, then be friends with her, but don't wait for the p*ssy. There's nothing worse than having a female call you her BFF. You're like the dude who gets to see her naked all the time, but can't fukk. lol. You're the dude who she talks to about her boyfriend like you're one of the girls. There's no reason for any dude to play any female close that they're not fukking. Hang with them, chill with them, but don't make them the center of anything involving you. Like another poster previously said, make sure you control the situation.

Such a simple concept!

 

[Roberto Dinero]

Most if not all women know during the first 10 seconds we meet a man whether or not we will fukk you.

Being placed in the friend zone is by choice. Either you can take the rejection and move on or climb an uphill battle that you already lost.

That's a good way to put it.

 

[MicIsGod]

*has broken the friendzone multiple times* Its a talent

 

[Mr. Nobody]

i got a bytch i'm tryna be coo with, i ain't tryna fukk her, even if she would offer, but i like tha bytches goofy personality, and wouldn't mind kickin it with her and hangin out

however i think she must think i'm trying to get at her cuz she don't really reply to my texts

 

[↓R↑LYB]

As a woman I agree with the bold.

Meaning: A man will know you're not interested but in the back of his mind will attempt to prey upon your weaknesses in the guise of friendship.

Once I told a few of my male acquaintances I was pregnant not only did they drop me like a bad habit, I was accused of being a whore who lied about my 5+ years of celibacy

Friend zone = one day she'll crack and let me hit that if I stick around long enough

On the flip side I've messed with girls in the past, maybe went out on a date or two, and they told me they wasn't feeling me like that then hit me with the "we can still be friends" bullshyt.

I tell em I don't have female friends and it's best to part ways and keep it moving. Them broads get mad angry at that shyt. Despite what y'all hoes say, y'all love the fukking attention from simps who'll give you unwarranted affection. And when a nikka decides not to play that game, y'all get indignent

 

[Shockwave]

*has broken the friendzone multiple times* Its a talent

do tell

 

[↓R↑LYB]

*has broken the friendzone multiple times* Its a talent

I've done it once, but I wouldn't really call it the friend zone. Met this chick, she was mad cool, had similar lifestyles, so we just clicked. I don't think either of us wanted to fukk each other like that. Next I know the subject came up, she told me she thought I'd be wack in bed, I said word , next thing you know we ended up dating for 1.5 years


And it was the worst fukking decision of my life