The harsh reality is most of single men 30 + will end up with a single mom & its not that bad.

[African Peasant]

Ain't nobody mimicking a rap video bruh.

I just think it's silly how theres some sort of expiration date on hard partying/living fast and adventurous.

Aside from your health and job security, I feel people have a stupid notion that your 30s is reserved to become a boring ass adult who only had guys nights and a rare date with the GF/wife as their only adult recreations.

I ain't going out like that.

Becoming an adult is ont a death sentence. Stop avoiding it like the plague. You will waist your time and your youth chasing an utopia and you will end up old, alone and bitter.

After 30, your mind must change. You're not 21 anymore and you won't be.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

others might have been in long relationships in their 20s that didn't work out

When you mean long term you’re talking about marriage?

Because if so theres a huge risk with this situation. I’m not saying it’s impossible for a person to move on but there’s a reason why almost 70 percent of second marriages end in divorce.

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

The kids will always come first.

fukk a single mom.

 

[Balla]

Why would your 20s be better than your 30s? Unless you got flabby and sick af.

It's more of a mental thing bro, if you look close or better than in your 20s, why would it be harder for you to fukk decent bytches?

It's one or both of these two problems.

1. Flabby n sick

2. You meeting women at the wrong places

There should be no reason why u have to date single moms.

im in my 30's....once i past 26-27 the dating pool became trash. I dont have kids...no real bills...make decent money...im decent looks wise and i have a hard time out here. shyt isnt sweet any more. my 30's suck compared to my 20's love wise. take heed youngings...cuff the good when you can lol i dont mind kids with a female...the biggest issue is the baby daddy...they all started to hate me and put pressure on the BM...and they almost always fold despite the kids liking you more than they own father. the issue isnt the women or the kids...its the baby daddy usually in this age bracket lol

 

[Michael's Black Son]

fukk that @DrX , my resources will see to it that such a thing won't happen.

 

[Booker T Garvey]

this is moreso true for women than men

there are a lot of women in their 20's without children out here to choose from...

not talking hoodrats though

 

[Killigraphy]

Bro science is never taken seriously.


No it isn't good.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

I would rather die alone

 

[T'krm]

u aint happy living a bachelor lifestyle. that shyt is old for u...you're in the club looking like roy jones fighting in 2018..probably wearing baggy jeans and a throwback jersey on with some high top air force ones with the strap looking 2001 fresh...u should be married and at home with your kids man

 

[UpAndComing]

Not for me. No single moms in Africa

 

[T'krm]

embrace it.

Alot of them are good women that made mistakes young. No need to punish them for the rest of their lives. Single moms are more down to earth anyway. They understand struggle and you can have a real relationship with them.

Nothing is wrong with it. Plus u can help guide a young kid and give them siblings All single mothers are bad,.

No unicorn woman exist. Trina in a business suit isn't coming to do your taxes and suck your dikk...like grow up and just do what u have to do so u wont be alone.

If you're older u really don't have no choice u unless u want to go young and good luck trying to have a relationship with a gen z chick

Even if you trolling, the end of the day, do you, breh!
If you are able to find a woman who's damn near perfect for you, but the only flaw is she has a kid, you'd be a damn fool not to claim her!!
Stop listening ppl's idiocy when they just making noise..and do what's best for your life, and ur happiness and stop worrying other silly nonsense.

 

[T'krm]

I made some reflections about dating in general. A lot of women want you to be on their timeline. During their fun years, they not trying to give the average guy no play lol. While you as an average young man are grinding getting your life together. Then suddenly when they mature out of those fun years, they expect you as the average dude with your life in order to be ready to settle down . It makes no sense to me.

This is true..but not always the case; and granted everyone has 'fun years'.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Lot of truth to OP as far as attractive Black women go. THEY ALL GOT KIDS BY THEIR EARLY TO MID TWENTIES. Multiple children by their early thirties. Nine times out of ten the father is a felon or dead. Facts.

@BmoreGorilla please get this cac

 

[Striving For Greatness]

Lil rugrats mowing the lawn and taking out the trash by the time they turn 10

And I don’t even have to pay cs

 

[BlaKcMoney]

You always making some depressed loser mentality threads. Evidence of a weak and butter mind