The 'How To Get A Loyal Woman' Thread

[ultraflexed]

Agree with all three points of the op. And would add to make sure you have good dikk, not trying to be crass, but don’t underestimate how important it is. After that, everything else is going to depend on the woman and the relationship you have—every woman is different.

Also, if there are any men in here that are believers, never underestimate the importance of seeking a woman of God—not a woman that calls herself a Christian, but nothing in her life demonstrates it, but a woman that truly bears the fruit of the spirit. She’ll naturally have all the qualities and character that would cause her to be loyal to you. (If your looking for a wife, that is).

You dropping gems in here, my wife is church girl at heart

 

[CarmelBarbie]

More often those woman just have a old school mindset of thinking - moving. I agree with your sentiment but telling guys on here that God is a good place to start is not good advice, too many church goers are looking for excuses to excuse their poor decisions. We see plenty of single woman by their decisions in church every week.

It simple shouldn't be a man's starting point for looking for a loyal woman*

The men I am talking to, wouldn’t need to start with God—they’d already be there with God. Again I’m talking about believers. If you aren’t one, then it doesn’t apply to you.

And, at my church, yes there are single women, but a lot are in relationships, and married. I go to a church that is skewed toward a younger demographic group—as in, the majority of church goers are young. The majority have made mistakes(what young person hasn’t), but I don’t know any personally that go to my church to be “excused” from
poor decisions they make, they go to be accountable and to not keep making the same ones. But I digress.

I’ll say it again, that my second paragraph was aimed at believers, if you aren’t, then don’t worry about it.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Dudes doing way too much thinking regarding women.

 

[010101]

Be a gentleman, wine and dine her and wait for sex even if it takes over two years.

i'm the no.cuffs capo but this is a jam




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[MaxPain]

only thing i would disagree from your great post is the cheating part. I wouldn't cheat ever, thats an a$$hole move and yeah I know your post doesn't encourage cheating lmao but I would say the relationship is 100% ruined once either one cheats

From experience......depending on the power dynamic if a man cheats the woman will stay. She just doesnt want to know about it and have it be public, to embarrass her.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Hmm

 

[Smukie]

I agree with your sentiment on mature and emotionally secure woman but that all goes out the window with the right guy. Your idea of emotional secured is emotional protective, those are 2 different things. A emotional secured woman would simple not take up with abuse, protective

A emotional secured woman can be head over heels for a guy in a month but the difference is she will know how to identify a bad relationship path or judgment of person character and leave before it becomes a bigger issue.

Head over heels after only 30 days?? That's not even enough time to see a person's true character so how would she know she's found the right person?

 

[dark_magic]

interesting perspective, why do women fall in love so fast though? Biological mechanism?

War Brides phenomena

In short, nature has selected for females that can quickly move on after a break up.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

War Brides phenomena

In short, nature has selected for females that can quickly move on after a break up.

Why would nature not equip men with that same ability by nature.. considering that they are equally needed to ensure procreation?

Could this not be a simple matter of demand and supply?

Because in western society men are expected to approach women, more women get approached than men so many women make sure to have a back-up plan which is easy because all they have to do is pick someone or two guys as potential next guys in case their current relationship collapses.

We all know most women are slicker than men. Which is why you so often see that there's a break up and BAM a girl has a new guy and it turns out they were already talking and that they been talking. This is why men LOVE to hear that a fine girl has boyfriend problems and offers to be the 'shoulder to cry on'.

When men do this, they are considered really foul. But women seem to do it and society does not say 'wow.. that's foul, you're basically a female dog.. a bytch'. 'No he just had that confidence I was missing in my relationship and things weren't really working out..' is standard talk for many women.

MOST men who are genuinely committed do not play that, they are focused on being providers and good men and sometimes they focus on it so much that women get bored and start talking to some rude dude because he's 'edgy'. This all comes down to 'be loyal to yourself' as a man. It's good to be in love, but be clear that you are a high quality man who can, whenever he chooses, have other options available.

 

[Neuromancer]

Well since y’all asked, here’s what I was talking about yesterday. Moral police, dont quote me because I dont care to hear what u have to say. This is for those who are interested anyways.

First, u gotta break a bytch down (yes im using bytch to bring the point home). U start off with subtle slights at her, never validate her. Do light teasing. If she asks if she looks good in a dress, say not really. Make fun of something shes insecure of. Tell her to change her hair for you cuz u dont like the way it looks (if its brown tell her to add blonde tip). Always give her something to do as far as looks (cuz women are extremely insecure about their looks). Pimps call it put her under instructions. Say hey I need u to change ur hair color, or start wearing this, STOP wearing that .All this does is make her invest more in you psychologically and try to gain her approval. She will always try to get her on ur good side. Every once in a while, reward her for doing what u asked, show her ur good side. Do simp shyt, like dinner with candles, poems etc. Make it very brief, then go back to ur bad side. 75% bad 25% good. Switch on and off for the emotional roller coaster, ull never be “boring”.

After time u get more and more disrespectful. U keep breaking her down. Start random arguments out the blue then ghost for a week or two at a time. U flirt with other girls infront of her. U stare at other girls infront of her. Hell if u want to u can cuss her out and call her every name in the book, even use shyt she’s told u in private. By this time shes been cut down and molded up in ur liking she will put up with it.

Always Remember:
Never stay the same day to day. Be nice one day then an a$$hole the next
Never apologize even if u did something wrong, to a bytch ur judgement is never wrong , make her feel crazy for questioning it. Ive even had a woman apologize to me for me cheating on her lol
Never ask her for anything, tell her (give me ur phone number versus can I have ur phone number)
Always choose up on other females subtly or non subtly and make sure she knows
Make her value ur time

She can still leave but it wont be because she really wants to. It’ll be because she has to. Best beleive u could still smash post break up even if shes got a man or a boyfriend. And u will probably always be “the one that got away”. She’s literally been customized for you, and no one else. Shes kinda ruined for life unless she meets someone with game on ur level.

This isnt healthy relationship advice. I dont claim it to be. But it works on a lot of women, they’ll give u far more loyalty than they do other men doing this. Especially low quality ones. So basically most women u run into. This is some Lester from Casino type shyt.

Happy Memorial Day. @Hungerpain @ItsGhost

I had to quote you breh. This is insidious and ingenious. I don't have the heart to do this. But I respect the planning.

 

[MMA]

Head over heels after only 30 days?? That's not even enough time to see a person's true character so how would she know she's found the right person?

All woman need to be woed is their prototype

 

[DirtyMoney]

1. Be able to identify if a woman really wants you or not. A woman who wants you will approach a lot of her interactions with you and do her best to keep you around (You won't have to question this). If not, you will know, you are wasting your time with someone but you choose to ignore it, stop ignoring what your body is telling you.

2. Do not fix a woman, it is not your responsibility. A woman flooding her problems onto you is letting you know you should leave and save yourself from her. Listen

3. Your interaction with woman should be limited online. The internet and cyber-world give people a false equivalent of life. You should be looking at ass offline, you should be putting yourself in positions to be around attractive woman offline. When you take out the equation of being satisfied with the opposite sex online with things like social media and porn, you'll have no choice but to go after woman in person.

4. If your goal is to find a loyal woman, begin to ask yourself the traits a loyal woman would carry and what her actions will present. While dating, look for the patterns.

5. When you respect yourself, you'll expect the same from your partner.

6. Be firm with what you want and expect from a woman. Do not play games or entertain the shyt. If she isn't it or attempting to be such, leave.

7. get used to rejection and stop taking it personal. Pick up on what works and what doesn't work, self-audit at all times while dating.

8. stop being afraid to leave a bad situation - it could be no one fault but if it isn't working, do not stay. Too many man staying in situations they don't want to be anymore

9. Don't listen to people, social media is a great way to figure out who you are dealing with. If they are seen online doing reckless shyt, believe it

That's the biggest issue I see many brothers having now a days. It's not your job or responsibility has a man to save any woman. Being a good guy does not mean saving a woman from her own problems. Those are her problems not yours.
If your advances don't work with her. It's not meant to be and move on to the next.

Now once you have this loyal woman - bring her guidance, learn to use the word No, be firm on your beliefs and movement, be the man in your relationship, enjoy time for yourself

Going 3 year strong with mine, never settle with a woman who does not truly love you or ride for you. You are only missing out on the beauty of a woman love. Too much of thecoli are dealing with woman who do not really want them, that's why so many of these nikkas are angry.

Best thing I’ve read here by far

 

[Neuromancer]

Make a list of the traits you want in a woman. And I mean detailed. Make sure loyalty is on there. Try to put the most important ones first. Now if a woman doesn't have at least 3-5 of those important ones don't waste your time.

Also make sure you actually want to be in a relationship and don't just like the idea. And Make your intentions clear. If she ain't with it then leave.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

So, how long have you been apart of the LGBT community?

leprosy, gonorrhea, bacteria, and tuberculosis. I do not have these ailments. Stay on topic.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Goddamn breh. Who hurt you?

You gotta be hurt to understand female nature. No wonder y'all have issues.