The Illusion and Luster of Alpha Male in has Ruined Black Men, Black Women and Ultimately the Black Family.

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you old nikkas gassed up the worst aspects of our community while simultaneously putting the average black woman on a pedestal for simply existing.

and now y’all are shocked at this outcome… fukking pathetic

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We can actually put a lot of blame of Tupac.

He really popularize that thug image.
Masses of women didn't want NWA or other gangster rap artist. Tupac had different sides to him. Thug, Player, Activist, Christian....

Thug Life and Thug Love was very appealing to our people. That's why you have college boys sagging and playing tough.


And calling his Mom a Queen, while she smoked Crack pretty much made women fill Infalliable. Not matter what you do you're royalty?? :martin:
 

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We can actually put a lot of blame of Tupac.

He really popularize that thug image.
Masses of women didn't want NWA or other gangster rap artist. Tupac had different sides to him. Thug, Player, Activist, Christian....

Thug Life and Thug Love was very appealing to our people. That's why you have college boys sagging and playing tough.


And calling his Mom a Queen, while she smoked Crack pretty much made women fill Infalliable. Not matter what you do you're royalty?? :martin:
Only thing I copy about Tupac is bubble baths :troll: My girl Surprisingly not angry I use her bath bombs
 

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A lot of them lost family and male figures due to the war on drugs an most notably the crack and high crime epidemic. Lets not tit for tat this shyt breh. We all have and can play a role. Some of those brehs have put on for folks in ways we benefit without even realizing
Pretty much all of us did.

If you are African American/ADOS/FBA/whatever the fukk nikkas call themselves these days OR your family was here prior to the 70s, there’s a good chance there was a dealer and/or addict in your family.

That doesn’t excuse the fact that a lot of those nikkas dropped the ball.

Too many of them are stuck on some ignorant simple-minded shyt in 2023, which is inexcusable and part of the reason why we’re taking Ls out here.
 

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These folks not even using dog logic.

"Alphas" in a wolfpack are the parents.

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That's why I laugh whenever people seriously use "alpha" as a description for people and tune out 90% of these conversations about "alpha males". People really out here in 2023 using a term from a flawed 1947 study of wolves in captivity to describe humans and human behavior:mjlol:
 
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I think too many Black men these days are thinking way too hard about what it is to be a man or whether or not people (women in particular) see them as one.

I'm 27 and right before and after I became a man, I've never for once ever sat there stressing myself out on whether or not if I'm a man, or am I an alpha/beta, or whether I'm doing things that makes me look like a man in the eyes of others/women.

I just went with the flow the moment I turned 21 and let everything set in stone on its own, now currently at 27, I still have never felt the need to validate or question my manhood on superficial shyt that too many bruhs out here are stressing, obsessing, and thinking too hard over this type of shyt.
 

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the quality of service

how well do you care for your family¿

alpha got associated with aggressive & obnoxious

it can also be mixed up with having access to resources but you can lie cheat steal & do all sorts of fukkery to come up

put exceptional character back in priority

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I put up a feng shui wind chime and got cheap Punjabi incense fuming 16h/7d

Cultivate the best kind of silence for the best kind of quack smoke
 

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That's why I laugh whenever people seriously use "alpha" as a description for people and tune out 90% of these conversations about "alpha males". People really out here in 2023 using a term from a flawed 1947 study of wolves in captivity to describe humans and human behavior:mjlol:

Its basically a loose form of religion. Some main character syndrome , cat nip shyt for absolute losers and tryhards.
 

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Its basically a loose form of religion. Some main character syndrome , cat nip shyt for absolute losers and tryhards.
You got to remember many white folks descend from feudal era ancestors who got cucked and treated like dog shyt by their own kindred. So deep down they justify these things as long as they are of the same blood/race

It’s a bad false logic that they ironically keep as a source of pride
 

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Ok, now address this point and ONLY this point, that YOU made No other Men desires to be Alphas as much as Black Men.

No group of men desires to be Thug - Alphas like our men.

Most of Hiphop promotes this Thug Alpha image.

Every race has a percentage of tough guys, but they're outcast and low lives. Thug Alphas are admired and imitated in our communities.
 
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