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This is the face of beloved loco


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She shouldve just took her heels off. It aint that serious. Should've brought some extra footwear.
 

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I really do make this shyt complicated. :mjlol:
I assume women can be overly superficial so I talk myself out of it.

Yet I approached someone 10 minutes ago and it was so awkward :huhldup:

cause you aren't used to it. the only thing "superficial" about women is that i guess they decide if they wanna fukk you or not really quickly. i don't know how true that is. but you shouldn't be placing such a huge worry on that anyways IMO

@LordLoco ya ain't too bad looking. i honestly do believe if you just take it easy, get used to it, and don't focus so much on things you'll be fine. present yourself on how you would feel most comfortable. legit try to be her friend and get to know her, if she's finding you attractive trust me she will set it up to make your move. it's gotta feel casual.
 

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I really do make this shyt complicated. :mjlol:
I assume women can be overly superficial so I talk myself out of it.


Yet I approached someone 10 minutes ago and it was so awkward :huhldup:
I posted this in the "Gems" thread

I cant believe I used to have anxiety from approaching

Its so easy for me to make random small talk with any woman now, hitting on her or not hitting on her. Its actually laughable how nervous I used to be :mjcry::mjlol:

Just remember women are human beings too. When you put them on a pedal stool because they're women, because they have vaginas, or because sex is all you can think about, is when you get anxiety because youre worried about the end goal INSTEAD OF LIVING IN THE NOW, the conversation.

You get anxiety from thinking of all the ways you can potentially fail when you think too far into the future when approaching a woman

Just relax, be yourself and let the convo flow. And remember to smile and use facial expressions. Dont be stoic :demonic:

Start out by approaching any woman. Class just got out? Talk to the first girl you see and just make a convo, let it flow. Dont even hit on her.
Get some practice

Dont put women on a pedal stool cuz you wanna fukk. That induces anxiety just in case you "fail"

Dont put them on a pedal stool because theyre women. That induces anxiety because "women are different"

Women shyt

Women piss

Women fukk

Women cheat

Women lie

Women steal

Just treat them like human beings you just happen to be sexually attracted to. No pedal stool. This reduces the awkwardness that you mentioned:ehh:

And DONT force attraction. This also induces awkwardness. Attraction is instinctual, if its there it there if its not its not.

AND DONT ASSUME
 

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cause you aren't used to it. the only thing "superficial" about women is that i guess they decide if they wanna fukk you or not really quickly. i don't know how true that is. but you shouldn't be placing such a huge worry on that anyways IMO
True. I mean I'd enjoy a relationship but it don't seem that practical in college. At least to me.
 

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I really do make this shyt complicated. :mjlol:
I assume women can be overly superficial so I talk myself out of it.

Yet I approached someone 10 minutes ago and it was so awkward :huhldup:

You should focus on your approach vs your appearance. Not to be funny but you seem to have zero game just based on how you talk to people on here. You probably come off too strong or desperate. It's ok to shoot your shot but you have to be careful how you do it and what's the environment. My middle brother is really attractive but he tried hitting on 30 females at a club one night (he just got out of a long and serious relationship so he was acting an ass) and he got rejected by all 30. A good appearance helps but ultimately your personality is what will draw a woman who isn't superficial to you. People find it hard to believe that I've like a bunch of overweight men (I hate and love them, idk, it's weird, I get drawn to how they carry themselves and then I get drawn to their fat :yeshrug:)

Idk man, I just keep seeing people say the same thing to you and then you keep saying the same thing to yourself but I don't think the problem is getting addressed properly.
 

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Crip Walkin on her ankles she better stop and just take the damn things off :francis:
My mom can't wear heels because of her heels of her feet. It hurts her to even wear them. Plus her ankles are tiny as fukk. I have small ankles like her but I can wear heels. That heel in the video was tiny though. That wasn't a smart move.
 
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