The moment you and her start texting back and forth with regular chit chat you lost

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

But one day I asked her if she wanted to go out sometime to hang out, have fun, etc as friends,....

that was your mistake right there. "hang out" "have fun" are code words for I'm trying to fukk and plus its too vague.

you should've found out what she's into. For example find out what kind of music she likes and if an artist she likes is coming to town, get the tickets and ask her out. It should've been a specific place or event that she's into. That way it will have showed that you put effort in what she likes and it would've made it that much harder to say no.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

If you mean anything more than 2-3 texts then yes I agree. But if you're dealing with girls who are very pretty and aren't desperate fat asses, then you can't just text em once like "Bring your ass over here". I've only seen that shyt work with ugly and fat broads with low self esteem.

Breh Stop putting dimes on pedastool

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

youre stupider than your name if you think this 31 year old Canadian who just started fukking stay dropping real shyt. It's a reason why he's has like 120 ppd

Wtf are you talking about

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

This girl at my gym started talking to me and seemed super interested...even some of the other dudes work out with said the same thing.

But one day I asked her if she wanted to go out sometime to hang out, have fun, etc as friends,....she starts talking about how she just got out of a serious relationship so she doesnt wanna hang out right now. ....which is true about her just getting out of a relationship, but it's not the way she was acting at first.

So then I semi-ignored her one day and she goes out of her way to speak to me and kinda started acting interested again.

So I know how this goes, she likes attention from dudes. And she has a super nice body so I'm sure she's used to it.

But she's about to go on the permanent ignore list. Not to where I make it obvious, but just nothing more than a head nod or "sup".

Breh ummm this chick just got out of a relationship and wasn't throwing the puss at you

You asked her on a date but deep down this chick just wants fukkk buddy or just rebound phase

 

[ShaneTheRogue]

But I like regular chit chat tho

You're challenging our pre-existing notions.

 

[lutha]

I give up on trying to talk with @lutha in here.

Dude is TOO defensive to learn shyt right now.

lol...i wasnt being defensive, i was just having a convo with yall cats...we have differing opinions/views on the topic, which is cool....

and what exactly were you trying to teach me? how to interact with women?...if so, i'm good on that, i dont need to learn anything about that...i've been doing pretty damn well for however many years now with me just being myself...

 

[lutha]

This girl at my gym started talking to me and seemed super interested...even some of the other dudes work out with said the same thing.

But one day I asked her if she wanted to go out sometime to hang out, have fun, etc as friends,....she starts talking about how she just got out of a serious relationship so she doesnt wanna hang out right now. ....which is true about her just getting out of a relationship, but it's not the way she was acting at first.

So then I semi-ignored her one day and she goes out of her way to speak to me and kinda started acting interested again.

So I know how this goes, she likes attention from dudes. And she has a super nice body so I'm sure she's used to it.

But she's about to go on the permanent ignore list. Not to where I make it obvious, but just nothing more than a head nod or "sup".

she mightve been interested, but because of the world we live in and how women have been taught to think, when you said the words 'hang out', she heard 'i wanna date you'...that's why she came back with the relationship talk...

now as for her wanting attention, this is true...but you cant take that to heart in a negative way cause all women want attention...

anyway, back to your situation: it does seem like she was interested, she just didnt like your approach...and like i said eariler, that has to do more with the way the world is and how women have been taught to think, more so than what you actually said/did....if you really want to get at this chick still, the next time she runs up trying to hold a convo, ask for her number and tell her you'll holla at her later after your workout....

also, for future reference, here's a couple ways to handle that situation: 1) instead of asking her out to kick it, just ask for her number at first, and take it from there...if you get the number, yall kicking it is a forgone conclusion unless you fukk it up lol....2) if you do ask to kick it, and she comes back with relationship talk, nip that shyt in the bud right then and reassure her that aint what you meant/implied....usually takes women hearing something at least twice before they actually hear what you said, and not what they think you said....but whatever you do, do not say the words/phrase 'as friends'....i say that cause that's one phrase women hear correctly the first time lol....when they hear 'as friends' you have automatically put yourself in the friendzone and she will treat you accordingly; and the min you try to do something more than as friends, they will always refer back to you saying that phrase....

 

[Mr.bocario]

But I like regular chit chat tho

You can have regular chit chat after you have sex, but until then nah.

 

[malbaker86]

Any chance of smashing her


Be her tex friendly buddy brehs
While the real nikka sends her a text saying


"Get your ass in the car and come thru"
Her:on the way

Malc da gawd schooling the youngins

 

[OliviaTwist]

You can have regular chit chat after you have sex, but until then nah.

I'd be more inclined to have sex with a dude I've had random chit chat with because I'd feel more comfortable

 

[MAKAVELI25]

youre stupider than your name if you think this 31 year old Canadian who just started fukking stay dropping real shyt. It's a reason why he's has like 120 ppd

@malcolmxxx_45

 

[skeetsinternal]

Any chance of smashing her


Be her tex friendly buddy brehs
While the real nikka sends her a text saying


"Get your ass in the car and come thru"
Her:on the way

Truth be told, 80-85 % of the ass I got was basically this....fukk all the small talk and if the chic wasnt with it it was onto the next or strange enough months or years later that same chic who aint wanna get down got with me after brief communication thru texts

 

[MAKAVELI25]

that was your mistake right there. "hang out" "have fun" are code words for I'm trying to fukk and plus its too vague.

you should've found out what she's into. For example find out what kind of music she likes and if an artist she likes is coming to town, get the tickets and ask her out. It should've been a specific place or event that she's into. That way it will have showed that you put effort in what she likes and it would've made it that much harder to say no.

The bolded/underlined are unnecessary. If a chick really likes you she will chill with you pretty much anywhere. It sounds more like the girl duke was talking about just wanted attention and wasn't down for anything beyond that

 

[360dagod]

The bolded/underlined are unnecessary. If a chick really likes you she will chill with you pretty much anywhere. It sounds more like the girl duke was talking about just wanted attention and wasn't down for anything beyond that

pretty much....

she could have gave up the puss in whatever scenario she allowed herself to be put in...

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

The bolded/underlined are unnecessary. If a chick really likes you she will chill with you pretty much anywhere. It sounds more like the girl duke was talking about just wanted attention and wasn't down for anything beyond that

If he was sweatin her enough to where he feels the need to make a post online about it then it probably was necessary. And it helps. Better to be prepared for all types of situations. Either way he wasn't doing something right or he was reading into something that wasn't there and his story is 20% ducktales.