My friend, I'm not black and I'm guilty of using that word from time to time.
I agree, people shouldn't use it. Myself especially.
But this is a losing battle, man.
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I lot of people I know use it but damnit I can't. This year has changed me. Travon Martin, 12 years a slave, Tea Party movement, and black people doing dumb shyt. We get mocked by other races but a lot of us look at it as a sign of endearment. A black person shouldn't feel that comfortable saying it. Even in music, it just doesn't sound right to me no more.
where you been at, breh? i've been called a ****** more times that i can remember.
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Maybe the occasional track during workout. Right now I'm listening to Perpetual Groove. My fair lady has delivered me from my "nikka ears" 
Your first name is nikka. You probably just so desensitized to it at your age.