The OFFICIAL Red Flags When Dating Men Thread

[Biscayne]

And it was moved to the salon

Hates to see a woman shine

Always cynical/sarcastic and believes cynicism/sarcasm makes them witty

Wears timberlands/ Jordan's as a fashion staple

Holds traditional gender values but can't fulfill traditional male roles

6 figures, 6 certs, 6 women

Has paid for sex

Can name porn stars

Now you're just saying shyt to get back at men in that other thread...



How the hell are those redflags?

 

[Krazy K]

he wants you to do anything to or involving his ass

 

[Biscayne]

Pretty soon the lists in here are gonna say:

-Has penis

-Has sexual desires

-Doesnt agree with EVERY.SINGLE.THING a woman says....

-Was born...

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

You didn't have to neg me

You didn't have to move this thread

But also no hard feelings.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Tries to use gender to discredit your point or uses gender as an argument for his point.

Is past a certain age and still hangs out till late with friends on a regular basis.

Hides his friends list from you.

 

[Koba St]

Pretty soon the lists in here are gonna say:

-Has penis

-Has sexual desires

-Doesnt agree with EVERY.SINGLE.THING a woman says....

-Was born...

Lol

 

[Krazy K]

Tries to use gender to discredit your point or uses gender as an argument for his point.

Is past a certain age and still hangs out till late with friends on a regular basis.

Hides his friends list from you.

wtf? It's a red flag if a grown ass man doesn't have a curfew

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

wtf? It's a red flag if a grown ass man doesn't have a curfew

She needs to realise that a guy like that is used to a certain lifestyle. She might be okay with it but if she's not, don't expect him to change.

 

[Krazy K]

She needs to realise that a guy like that is used to a certain lifestyle. She might be okay with it but if she's not, don't expect him to change.

yea the coming and going when I damn well please lifestyle

 

[Draje]

wtf? It's a red flag if a grown ass man doesn't have a curfew

If your wife/gf was consistently out past 1 am or 2 am and said she was with her girls, would it make you feel some sort of way?

 

[Mr.Plan B]

Inconsistent availability

Answers his phone/ texts immediately while with you but your texts/calls go unanswered for hours


You: Where are we headed?
Him: Let's take it slow *tries any and every maneuver to gtd*

Sagging Skinny jeans

Luxury car, hood spot

Lives with his mother/parents

Can't hold down a job

Has no retirement plans

Thinks that manhood starts and ends in his pants

Comfortable seeing you struggle

Doesn't look to protect your best interest

As a person who live on his own this statement is foolish. Type shyt that will get a young brother in bad debt. Move out when you have 6 months rent saved up if you don't have roomates. If you can't move out so what.....

 

[Critical Distance]

nothing about mental health or relationships with his parents.

but "friends list" and hangs out too late are listed.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

nothing about mental health or relationships with his parents.

but "friends list" and hangs out too late are listed.

Tell us what are the red flags for mental health problems with men?

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

If his mother manages his affairs. Be ready to either be his replacement mother or live under his mother's thumb.

 

[Draje]

nothing about mental health or relationships with his parents.

but "friends list" and hangs out too late are listed.

If your girlfriend or wife was consistently hanging with her friends early into the morning or "late", you wouldn't care?