The OFFICIAL Red Flags When Dating Men Thread

[K.Dot]

If you have a disagreement and he gives you the silent treatment

What's wrong with this ?

 

[Colicat]

I fukks with you but GTFO with this bullshyt right here. The NY hate on here is borderline ridiculous.

@The Grendel @Ironman @NY's #1 Draft Pick @ISO @Michael's Black Son @CashmereEsquire @My First Timbs

Sorry, I am Southern. The New York arrogance and attitude from men is a red flag and turn off. It screams selfishness and egotistical.


Edit: @My First Timbs

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

What's wrong with this ?

I get that sometimes you need time to cool off but silent treatment is childish. You can't sort through problems if you can't talk.

 

[VFib]

I fukks with you but GTFO with this bullshyt right here. The NY hate on here is borderline ridiculous.

@The Grendel @Ironman @NY's #1 Draft Pick @ISO @Michael's Black Son @CashmereEsquire @My First Timbs

I'm born and raised in NY, and if all you have are timbs and Jordans, it's a turn off. It's especially a turn off seeing long lines at the shoe store way before it's even open.

 

[The M.I.C.]

I'm born and raised in NY, and if all you have are timbs and Jordans, it's a turn off. It's especially a turn off seeing long lines at the shoe store way before it's even open.

That's not what she specified..She said if you got timbs and don't use them for work, you got the grimey NY mentality. I got THREE pairs of crisp ass timbs and I am FAR from grimey so that wack ass narrative collapses real quick.

 

[K.Dot]

My father is the ultimate fukk boy, so any traits that apply to him. Old ass nikkas still dressing like the youth is a def red flag.

 

[The M.I.C.]

Let me back out of this thread i know this is going to turn into an eventual battlefield.

 

[The M.I.C.]

Moved back

 

[Michael's Black Son]

If timberlands are a staple in your wardrobe and they are not work boots, you are a New Yorker or in love with the New York grimey mentality. Neither of those make suitable mates

 

[VFib]

Men who can't make decisions without approval from friends.

Men 30+ who have no friends in healthy long tern relationships. They view relationships and women as annoying.

Men who are still living at home past 35. Most aren't saving for a home, no matter what folks try to say.

Men who post shirtless pics on social media. They are looking for quick ass.

Men who wear sagging pants. They are advertising their ass.

Men who have never seen their father treat their mother well. You're asking for trouble dealing with this man.

Sexual abuse in their past. The ones I've known who were molested and raped were very sexually reclkess.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Luxury car, hood spot

What if its an old school tho?

 

[BmoreGorilla]

If timberlands are a staple in your wardrobe and they are not work boots, you are a New Yorker or in love with the New York grimey mentality. Neither of those make suitable mates

We gotta wear hard bottoms to Walmart now?

 

[malbaker86]

I get that sometimes you need time to cool off but silent treatment is childish. You can't sort through problems if you can't talk.

It's childish but we prideful (to a fault) at times. My wife and I will have a disagreement and we both are silent to each other but generally we're both over it and waiting for whoever to break the ice

 

[malbaker86]

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We gotta wear hard bottoms to Walmart now?

Sandles/flip flops, casual shoes, running shoes are all applicable bruh. Guess it's a southern thing cause i don't own Timbs

 

[Colicat]

What if its an old school tho?

A hooptie type old school?

If it's the hooptie, then he makes sound decisions for his current situation. Not a red flag.