The OFFICIAL Red Flags When Dating Women Thread

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Yes. I can't believe guys don't understand this.

Guy you don't care about : Instant smash
Guy you actually value : Wait to build.

Kinda like for guys

Girl you couldn't give a shyt about and just wanna smash : Mickey D
Girl you really like: Get suited and booted to take her out on the town
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Did you really just compare a woman giving up her vagina to a guy she doesn't like to a man buying a chick he not feeling MickyD's?


See @Dray5K ... shyt men don't understand
 

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All this drip on me
Always on her phone and has it in her hand when you're around but texts you back slow as humanly possible when you're not around.:huhldup:


Judgmental and overly religious:huhldup:

Rude and disrespectful to others over superficial or trivial shyt:huhldup:

Brags about how confrontational she is and brags about how she got friends just as crazy and ready to fight over dumb shyt:huhldup:

Wears fake shyt but has the nerve to be stuck up and flex on people(I can't even hang with the male equivalent of this type either):huhldup:

Bad hygiene and has a filthy bathroom:huhldup:

Can't stay her ass at home and just chill every now & then. Always has to be on the scene and her idea of having a good time is only limited to nightlife functions :huhldup:
 

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Always on her phone and has it in her hand when you're around but texts you back slow as humanly possible when you're not around.:huhldup:


Judgmental and overly religious:huhldup:

Rude and disrespectful to others over superficial or trivial shyt:huhldup:

Brags about how confrontational she is and brags about how she got friends just as crazy and ready to fight over dumb shyt:huhldup:

Wears fake shyt but has the nerve to be stuck up and flex on people(I can't even hang with the male equivalent of this type either):huhldup:

Bad hygiene and has a filthy bathroom:huhldup:

Can't stay her ass at home and just chill every now & then. Always has to be on the scene and her idea of having a good time is only limited to nightlife functions :huhldup:

YO there is nothing worse then seeing a nasty bathroom. The relationship would be instantly over at that point.
 

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What are some red flags when dating women ?

I'll start..

1. History of dating ex-cons or current gang members
2. Let's you hit it raw on the first date
3. Children under 5
5. Goes on and on or 'friends' with her ex
6. Binge drinking
7. Bad relationship with father
8. Has been recently engaged or married
9. Lies about little things --- bigger lies will exist
10 .over 35, wants marriage yet still single.
11. Eats an astonishing amount of fast food
12. Drinks cheap liquor (burnetts, taaka, colt 45
)

Add on...
Dont really agree with the bolded. Might just be broke..unless you are saying dont date broke chicks

nothing wrong with a older woman who is single and wants to get married or re-married.

I have one tho that just happen today that I want yalls opinion on.

I asked this chick for her number the other day in person. She gave it to me. Today I Texted her asking what she was doing for easter/if she had plans or celebrated it. This was her response

"I stopped celebrating it a long time ago. I dont really do anything but im gonna hang out with my best friend"

Now she knew I was asking her this cause I was gonna see if she was free to do anything. So im kinda thinking she went ahead and threw that out there to tell me she isnt interested and just gave me her number to be nice.

She also didnt ask why I was asking as a clarification after I responded with "oh nevermind"

I might be over thinking but I kinda want to forget about her/the situation and try another chick before I/if I get hit with the truth
 

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What are some red flags when dating women ?

I'll start..

1. History of dating ex-cons or current gang members
2. Let's you hit it raw on the first date
3. Children under 5
5. Goes on and on or 'friends' with her ex
6. Binge drinking
7. Bad relationship with father
8. Has been recently engaged or married
9. Lies about little things --- bigger lies will exist
10 .over 35, wants marriage yet still single.
11. Eats an astonishing amount of fast food
12. Drinks cheap liquor (burnetts, taaka, colt 45)

Add on...

You still married breh?
 

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What are some red flags when dating women ?
10 .over 35, wants marriage yet still single.

I agree with everything except the above. I would add a caveat depending on her level of education. If she has been in school for most of her 20s, it may be that she jumps back into the market past her prime and it is harder to find a partner. If she has just been dikking around though :francis:
 
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