The OFFICIAL Red Flags When Dating Women Thread

ill_will82

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From my experience bible thumpers tend to be the worse people. They usually hide their grime behind the bible and tend to be overly judgmental of others. And half the time they've never even read the bible. :mjlol: There are exceptions but very few tend to be worth while. If someone I was dating insisted I share in his/her religion they would do straight to the bushes.

I believe in God myself (no I don't do church) and I pray when things are good/bad for me. I'm not into Bible Thumper extremists. I am not into to dealing with people who think their religion makes them better than everyone else.
 

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Dont really agree with the bolded. Might just be broke..unless you are saying dont date broke chicks

nothing wrong with a older woman who is single and wants to get married or re-married.

I have one tho that just happen today that I want yalls opinion on.

I asked this chick for her number the other day in person. She gave it to me. Today I Texted her asking what she was doing for easter/if she had plans or celebrated it. This was her response

"I stopped celebrating it a long time ago. I dont really do anything but im gonna hang out with my best friend"

Now she knew I was asking her this cause I was gonna see if she was free to do anything. So im kinda thinking she went ahead and threw that out there to tell me she isnt interested and just gave me her number to be nice.

She also didnt ask why I was asking as a clarification after I responded with "oh nevermind"

I might be over thinking but I kinda want to forget about her/the situation and try another chick before I/if I get hit with the truth
Nah, a bit on the overthinking. You two just met, so be more direct in this situation. Kinda tell her to go on a date brotha. Good luck. Reason I say that. I once asked a young lady "can I ask you something" and she responded "why not just ask the question" from then I learned to stop playing and ask directly. Worst you get is a no
 

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- Can't differentiate between an affectionate touch/gesture as opposed to a sexual one and would rather you only touch her as an indication for sex. (Never been loved or had someone be tender with her and gets confused)

- Dislikes or feels uncomfortable with your affection to the point of being ill or highly annoyed. (Possible molestation/abuse)

- Prone to spending budgeted money on material things or flat out lies about it until the bill collector comes (A breh of mine lost his house this way. Chicks like this are more prone to living in the moment and letting self destructive elements/actions grow to the point of no return)

- Feels the need to compare herself to women younger than her instead of using her age and experience to set herself apart from 'em. (Delusions of grandeur, self centred, could be combative/jealous)
- IS UNINFORMED AS TO WHERE THE fukk HER URINE COMES OUT OF HER GENITALS.
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(Refuses to seek knowledge and often entertains bullshyt oldwives tales like being able to pee a dude's nut out to not get pregnant. Chucking harmful bullshyt down her throat and vagina to stop unwanted pregnancies. Flourishes in ignorance)
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Nah, a bit on the overthinking. You two just met, so be more direct in this situation. Kinda tell her to go on a date brotha. Good luck. Reason I say that. I once asked a young lady "can I ask you something" and she responded "why not just ask the question" from then I learned to stop playing and ask directly. Worst you get is a no
I understand the bolded. Thats why I asked for her number in person. We didnt JUST meet. we've worked together for a bit. She is a little shy tho, so thats why I text her instead of asking in person.

Ive never messed with girls ive worked with so this is a first. Ill ask her in person to hang out next time. I wont call it a date, if she sees it like that then thats fine.
 

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From my experience bible thumpers tend to be the worse people. They usually hide their grime behind the bible and tend to be overly judgmental of others. And half the time they've never even read the bible. :mjlol: There are exceptions but very few tend to be worth while. If someone I was dating insisted I share in his/her religion they would do straight to the bushes.


She complains about "judgemental people" :mjpls:
 

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I understand the bolded. Thats why I asked for her number in person. We didnt JUST meet. we've worked together for a bit. She is a little shy tho, so thats why I text her instead of asking in person.

Ive never messed with girls ive worked with so this is a first. Ill ask her in person to hang out next time. I wont call it a date, if she sees it like that then thats fine.
Ah my bad, I missed those details
 
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