The OFFICIAL Red Flags When Dating Women Thread
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InDePickWest
Im Not American
Id expect you to say that as a male. I'm not offended.
ill_will82
What you see, is what you get
Yeah I normally don't deal with these threads but some of these responses are reasonable (from what I read).
Address_Unknown
Jesus Loves you...Your Cat doesn't. {#Dogset}
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I don't encounter women with neuroses THAT bad often, but when I do and can't seem to lessen or eradicate it with reasoning and understanding....shyt really makes me sit and think and build character models on these chicks and what happened that caused 'em to be like that shyt. Flawed but beautiful creatures, man.
Naw, topics like this are just stupid. Example...Somebody said "a woman over 35 who never been married wanting to be married" how stupid is that?
malbaker86
Gators
I bet yall nikkaz single too
Paradise50
Superstar
Working in Mental Health, I'll tell y'all two types of women (besides drug use) to avoid at all cost:
Sexual abuse
Physical abuse
Especially if it was childhood abuse, and they never received any kind of proper treatment. Obviously she won't tell you this early but these types are insecure, clingy, and very insecure. They'll need constant reinforcement from you so they can feel better. Hell, the p*ssy might be good but these types are an automatic no go for me.
Anybody carrying that for years needs serious treatment, and probably medications. Most have bad anxiety and PTSD symptoms...they'll also cheat on you quick if you're not providing the overly emotional support they need. They have no coping skills whatsoever....they just want a man to constantly tell them that they love them all the time.
Sexual abuse
Physical abuse
Especially if it was childhood abuse, and they never received any kind of proper treatment. Obviously she won't tell you this early but these types are insecure, clingy, and very insecure. They'll need constant reinforcement from you so they can feel better. Hell, the p*ssy might be good but these types are an automatic no go for me.
Anybody carrying that for years needs serious treatment, and probably medications. Most have bad anxiety and PTSD symptoms...they'll also cheat on you quick if you're not providing the overly emotional support they need. They have no coping skills whatsoever....they just want a man to constantly tell them that they love them all the time.
Voice of Reason
Veteran
I don't encounter women with neuroses THAT bad often, but when I do and can't seem to lessen or eradicate it with reasoning and understanding....shyt really makes me sit and think and build character models on these chicks and what happened that caused 'em to be like that shyt. Flawed but beautiful creatures, man.
Exactly breh
dirty house = dirty p*ssy
HE_Pennypacker
Superstar
Exes are MUCH older
History of ain't shyt exes - poor decision making and clearly isn't learning from it
Still close friends with a long-time ex
General anti-male sentiment, except for you course (just give it time)
Smoking, drinking to excess
Being fat and lazy
Drug habit
Only male friends
Heavy social media presence while being older than 20
Expects you to pay her way
Manipulative
Claims to have haters and "bytches who are jealous" of her
History of ain't shyt exes - poor decision making and clearly isn't learning from it
Still close friends with a long-time ex
General anti-male sentiment, except for you course (just give it time)
Smoking, drinking to excess
Being fat and lazy
Drug habit
Only male friends
Heavy social media presence while being older than 20
Expects you to pay her way
Manipulative
Claims to have haters and "bytches who are jealous" of her
Paradise50
Superstar
Also I saw someone mention "delusions of grandeur"...definitely avoid the types who ain't living the way they portray themselves on social media. Nothing healthy can come from that, and they're using social media to make up for everything else that's lacking life. They have no drive, and are not accountable.
Also for men that make a decent salary for w/e your cities cost of living is:
Don't date down too far, and if you do then that chick better literally be in the middle of w/e her goals are. Not just talking it but actually making tangible moves to step up her economical position.
Also don't take a chick w/ a kid under 3 that serious. She's still new to the motherly thing, and need to be focused on that.
Say no to chicks w/ multiple kids. It's one thing if she in her 40s and them kids bout out the house, but younger kids? NAH
Also for men that make a decent salary for w/e your cities cost of living is:
Don't date down too far, and if you do then that chick better literally be in the middle of w/e her goals are. Not just talking it but actually making tangible moves to step up her economical position.
Also don't take a chick w/ a kid under 3 that serious. She's still new to the motherly thing, and need to be focused on that.
Say no to chicks w/ multiple kids. It's one thing if she in her 40s and them kids bout out the house, but younger kids? NAH
I can ask the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with whatever the hell I want
Jean Jacket
NOPE
1. Suggests a joint account (never do this)
2. Cuts all hair off with no warning (something evil or tragic is afoot)
3. Ever says anything about "the others" w/ you in comparison.
And finally... if a woman shyts in the bathroom while someone else in there she may have been a whore, abused/neglected or just filthy. Get out.
2. Cuts all hair off with no warning (something evil or tragic is afoot)
3. Ever says anything about "the others" w/ you in comparison.
And finally... if a woman shyts in the bathroom while someone else in there she may have been a whore, abused/neglected or just filthy. Get out.
