The OFFICIAL Red Flags When Dating Women Thread

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She takes pride in claiming she's crazy :beli:

Lack of identity outside of you or morphs into a female version of you to initially impress you. For the world of you, you don't know who she is or what makes her tick b/c she's a chameleon that takes on the traits of everyone around her while never having formed a stable identity for herself.:what:

Consumes too much female porn like romance novels and movies. Everybody got favorites but just like men can OD on porn and fapping, women can too. The result--makes em resent real men who can't live up to those fantasy standards.:martin:

Will let u do LITERALLY anything to her. :gladbron:

Is always going from relationship to relationship with no break in between.:comeon:

Can't keep anything between u and her. Big red flag here.:hhh:

Doesn't try to fix ur place up or clean up ur spot if ur junkie. It might seem irritating but a well raised woman can take u to the next level. If she's okay living with u in filth, sleeping on the floor or adding to ur mess...that ain't one u want. :picard:

Has low or very few standards in men.:mjlol:

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Has ridiculously high standards that don't match her own worth.:usure:

Poor hygiene :scust:

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1. Suggests a joint account (never do this)
2. Cuts all hair off with no warning (something evil or tragic is afoot)
3. Ever says anything about "the others" w/ you in comparison.

And finally... if a woman shyts in the bathroom while someone else in there she may have been a whore, abused/neglected or just filthy. Get out.
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My personal ones:

  • Doesnt have a good relationship with parent - If she hates her dad or her mom... stay away
  • Refers to herself as a b!tch and to men as "n!ggas". - Hearing the word n!ggas come out of a womans mouth is such a turn off to me.
 

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Won't call her own friends/gender out on there shyt.
Won't stick up for you infornt of family/ lets lil remarks slide.
Lies about talking to other guys even when not dating.
Place phone facedown , whenever you around.
Live for the moment aka yolo.
Friends are hoe/sugarbabes
Never had real hard job but always tired for no reason.
No hobbys , other than shopping and eating out.
If I can make her do something I want without much effort then a nikka with more game can also.

Book smart but really fukking stupid, can't hold deep convo that not about love life.
From the burbs but want to act hood for some reason.
Dirty nails, dirty feet, Dirty ashy lips, bad breath everyday or musty.
Cool with being seen in public with her man looking undone.
First time she come over she fukk, sorry yo she doing that with every cat house she go over.




The bolded lines are no goes for me, the reg lines I can look past if she cool person.

 

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Any examples of women who haven't been truthful how they've been raised ?
Most of the women I've dated painted a higher class of life when I seen how they were living, it wasn't anywhere near as good as they painted. It was decent for some but wasn't as good them again, it's not a red flag but it's a sign that they could fake the funk when needing the full truth.

For me, that's a red flag.
 
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