The one that got away

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She liked me in high school but I found her annoying at the time and she was average looking

Fast forward to now.

She's beautiful and looks like shes got her head on straight :sadbron:
 

Regine Hunter

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Saw her on Facebook :mjcry:

She's teaching in Japan now :mjcry:

Dating a nice guy :mjcry:

They look happy :mjcry:

Could've been me :mjcry:
You gon be aight, Smoke
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She know who she is, she lurks here, says she loves me for who I am, those words still resonate within me. I am counting the days my love, you done know already. I am doing what you said until we come back together again


Our Song REAL THING
New tune, I automatically think of you 3:14 tell me dat aint us :to:
 

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well i was never with this chick, but i never said nothin to her in college

in november i hit her on the book, saying some random crazy ish, then i deleted the message outta embarrassment :huhldup:

but she hit me back around thanksgiving :blessed:

we met for my birthday a few weeks ago when i visited my friends out of town


we clicked like none other, best way to describe it is love at first sight :noah:
 

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I was told this a long time ago which I understand now in my adult life. There are very few people in this world that you truly form a connection or bond with & if you're not careful it slips away or goes right by you. The one that got away from me left because she listened to her older sister who was upset that her best friend/roommate was engaged to my friend & I was with her sister & she was single with nothing going on in her life. I haven't had that kind of connection with another female since & it's been years.

 

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I had one get away :wow:

Broke up with her early in the summer of 2010 thinking I was on some boss shyt :smugdraper:

Had to prove I could walk away, thinking, "She'll come back around." :jawalrus:

August 2010...one of her friend's post pics on FB of a vacation she took with my ex and some friends.

No harm in a little curiosity. *Clicks the album* :mjpls:

Wait...who the is this dude with them? :leostare:

*Clicks next pic*...Hold up....why is there just a pic of him and my girl? :skip:

*Next pic* AND WHY ARE THEY KISSING ON THE BEACH?! :bryan:

*Ego kicks in like*

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"I bet dude's broke though." :sas1:

"Bet he aint shyt." :sas2:

Let's peep his facebook...:lupe:
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He's a VP at Goldman Sachs. :damn:

Spent the next month like. :to:

Ex came over to my apartment to get some of her shyt. We started talking.

I was like..."You know I still care about you right?" :mjcry:

I could tell she still had feelings. :wow:

Had a tender back and forth...went in for the kiss. She kissed back. Went in for another one...

*record scratch*

Her: NO!



Me: :merchant:

Her: :ufdup: You aren't shyt Reality. You really aren't shyt. YOU broke up with ME. You're such a fukking a$$hole you know that?! What-- I start dating someone else and now you want to give me all this bullshyt??? You're a fukking a$$hole and...

Me: :merchant:

Her: ...and you've always been one. So fukking predictable. Mike treats me SO much better than you do. I NEVER felt good about myself with you and that's because deep down you're still a little fukking boy who can't be honest with himself of anyone else. Give me the rest of my shyt I'm leaving.

Me: :skip:

So, basically, she ethered the fukk out of me. She blocked me on Facebook, etc. Came to find out "Mike" had been cheating on her with a couple different chicks, reached out to her when we bumped into each other one day and she said "Never talk to me or contact me ever again in your life." :to:

I ended up moving that winter and spent the next 3 years dating other girls but secretly thinking and dreaming about that girl. Thinking about what went wrong in that relationship, reflecting on the truth in the ether, and trying to better myself overall.
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But the universe gave me a second chance brehs. :blessed:

Not with the same girl, but with another. She's everything I could ask for in a woman, but had I met her 3 years ago, I would've done nothing but fukked it up.

So, in a way, I'm glad that first one got away. Sometimes they have to.
 
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