The one that got away

[Taadow]

She should beee mi-i-iiiine
anything she waaaaaaan-hu-hant
she's got to fortify my looooove
to fortify meeeee...


















CANYA WOO WOO WOOOOOO
CANYA WOO WOO WOOOOOO
CANYA WOO WOO WOOOOOO
SHOULD BE MI-HIIINE, ALL MINE

 

[Rawtid]

If it were meant to be it would be.

 

[Dwolf]

Saw her on Facebook

She's teaching in Japan now

Dating a nice guy

They look happy

Could've been me

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

I had one get away

Broke up with her early in the summer of 2010 thinking I was on some boss shyt

Had to prove I could walk away, thinking, "She'll come back around."

August 2010...one of her friend's post pics on FB of a vacation she took with my ex and some friends.

No harm in a little curiosity. *Clicks the album*

Wait...who the is this dude with them?

*Clicks next pic*...Hold up....why is there just a pic of him and my girl?

*Next pic* AND WHY ARE THEY KISSING ON THE BEACH?!

*Ego kicks in like*



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"I bet dude's broke though."

"Bet he aint shyt."

Let's peep his facebook...
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He's a VP at Goldman Sachs.

Spent the next month like.

Ex came over to my apartment to get some of her shyt. We started talking.

I was like..."You know I still care about you right?"

I could tell she still had feelings.

Had a tender back and forth...went in for the kiss. She kissed back. Went in for another one...

*record scratch*

Her: NO!



Me:

Her: You aren't shyt Reality. You really aren't shyt. YOU broke up with ME. You're such a fukking a$$hole you know that?! What-- I start dating someone else and now you want to give me all this bullshyt??? You're a fukking a$$hole and...

Me:

Her: ...and you've always been one. So fukking predictable. Mike treats me SO much better than you do. I NEVER felt good about myself with you and that's because deep down you're still a little fukking boy who can't be honest with himself of anyone else. Give me the rest of my shyt I'm leaving.

Me:

So, basically, she ethered the fukk out of me. She blocked me on Facebook, etc. Came to find out "Mike" had been cheating on her with a couple different chicks, reached out to her when we bumped into each other one day and she said "Never talk to me or contact me ever again in your life."

I ended up moving that winter and spent the next 3 years dating other girls but secretly thinking and dreaming about that girl. Thinking about what went wrong in that relationship, reflecting on the truth in the ether, and trying to better myself overall.
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But the universe gave me a second chance brehs.

Not with the same girl, but with another. She's everything I could ask for in a woman, but had I met her 3 years ago, I would've done nothing but fukked it up.

So, in a way, I'm glad that first one got away. Sometimes they have to.

Time for me to.exit this topic.

 

[BujuBoombastic]

Chick is looks OTT ratchet, you should be glad some other dude is exploring her worn out walls and dumping a load in her mouth

You're right, I'm just ADDICTED to the pum pum... She KNOWS how to please a man...

But fukk her!

 

[EffedUp]

The one that got away wasn't mine to begin with.
At my last job, I worked with this one really pretty chick. She was chocolate and thick as all get out brehs. She had her flaws like the rest of us but she was cool as fukk. We clicked on a personal level but she had a boyfriend. Even worse, she was on that . Anyways, I left that job for the one I got now (a year ago) but on my last day, some co-workers and I went out to eat for lunch. This one chick says that ol' girl is single now. In my head I'm like but never acted on it. Part of me is saying to get at her since we cool and I can show that only a black man can really hold her down. We fell out of touch but I found her again when I finally joined FB back in July. Since then, she's moved and got a new man (a black man at that). Through FB, saw she had a bachelorette party last week with some chicks we worked with. Yesterday, she flew out to Vegas and got married.

 

[HALLOWEEN]

So, in a way, I'm glad that first one got away. Sometimes they have to.

 

[TPL01]

So much in this thread

 

[HALLOWEEN]

I was told this a long time ago which I understand now in my adult life. There are very few people in this world that you truly form a connection or bond with & if you're not careful it slips away or goes right by you. The one that got away from me left because she listened to her older sister who was upset that her best friend/roommate was engaged to my friend & I was with her sister & she was single with nothing going on in her life. I haven't had that kind of connection with another female since & it's been years.

If her sister got in her head like that she didnt feel the same way towards you breh..

females will move mountains to get what that want...

The one that got away wasn't mine to begin with.
At my last job, I worked with this one really pretty chick. She was chocolate and thick as all get out brehs. She had her flaws like the rest of us but she was cool as fukk. We clicked on a personal level but she had a boyfriend. Even worse, she was on that . Anyways, I left that job for the one I got now (a year ago) but on my last day, some co-workers and I went out to eat for lunch. This one chick says that ol' girl is single now. In my head I'm like but never acted on it. Part of me is saying to get at her since we cool and I can show that only a black man can really hold her down. We fell out of touch but I found her again when I finally joined FB back in July. Since then, she's moved and got a new man (a black man at that). Through FB, saw she had a bachelorette party last week with some chicks we worked with. Yesterday, she flew out to Vegas and got married.

Sounds like you dodged a bullet breh..

Hit her up anyways. see how loyal she is

 

[Incogni' Rodney]

it's been about a year now since mine got away .. i can't lie the shyt hurts, cause i now think she was the one.. i'm still not sure what exactly happened but i don't think there's much hope left i peeped her IG and she seems happy as hell and is gettin dikked down by some antonio banderas lookin fagg0t..

 

[Knicksman20]

If her sister got in her head like that she didnt feel the same way towards you breh..

females will move mountains to get what that want...

I feel what you're saying & I agree. I also left out that my good friends's fiance (now his wife) spoke with her after the break up & said she she didn't want to break up She felt pressured from her sister saying they both was gonna leave her all alone & what about family coming first. Once I found that out how my ex crumbled under that pressure I thought she was weak minded & it changed how I saw her somewhat. Years later I heard my ex & her sister barely even speak because of me. I still think about her once in a while & how I've never connected with any female like that since.

 

[Ello_Vee]

Through FB, saw she had a bachelorette party last week with some chicks we worked with. Yesterday, she flew out to Vegas and got married.

Oh... I actually feel sorry for you, a lil bit.

 

[I love Latina women]

what?!

 

[EffYou]

 

[thoushallhustle]

Cant relate