The one that got away

[HALLOWEEN]

I feel what you're saying & I agree. I also left out that my good friends's fiance (now his wife) spoke with her after the break up & said she she didn't want to break up She felt pressured from her sister saying they both was gonna leave her all alone & what about family coming first. Once I found that out how my ex crumbled under that pressure I thought she was weak minded & it changed how I saw her somewhat. Years later I heard my ex & her sister barely even speak because of me. I still think about her once in a while & how I've never connected with any female like that since.

i get you breh... Is there a way you can contact her with out her sister finding out? The only red flag would be that she's still weak minded and that could bring it's own problems later on. I saw her photo from that thread you posted and she looks like a genuine good girl, all she needs is some one to help her build some confidence. I forgot to ask, how old is she?

Try hitting her up breh, you only fail by not trying.

 

[rogue_riezo]

Nope.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I think about her every blue moon. She loved me for me and held me down when I was at my lowest... I put her through hell and she withstood the inferno... She's the only girl I ever loved but I didnt appreciate her

My sister sees her sometimes since they work at the same school. She still thinks about me

I dont ever think I'll connect with someone as deeply as I did with her. She completely changed my life and really helped me become a man

 

[Playeroni]

Spoiler: The one that got awayyyy mon

It looks like the box is to die for breh. Life changing type of freak

You miss the box not her breh

As for me. Ya boy is fukked for life.

Dont even want to goo into details, just like i don't ever wont to be in another relationship. shyts pointless to me

If it doesnt work out with the one you want most,even though you put everything into it. What's the point?

These hoes aint shyt brehs

This smilie is the shyt so im gonna use it once more

 

[HALLOWEEN]

I think about her every blue moon. She loved me for me and held me down when I was at my lowest... I put her through hell and she withstood the inferno... She's the only girl I ever loved but I didnt appreciate her

My sister sees her sometimes since they work at the same school. She still thinks about me

I dont ever think I'll connect with someone as deeply as I did with her. She completely changed my life and really helped me become a man

What's preventing you from getting her back breh?

 

[Heafcliffe]

I had one get away

Broke up with her early in the summer of 2010 thinking I was on some boss shyt

Had to prove I could walk away, thinking, "She'll come back around."

August 2010...one of her friend's post pics on FB of a vacation she took with my ex and some friends.

No harm in a little curiosity. *Clicks the album*

Wait...who the is this dude with them?

*Clicks next pic*...Hold up....why is there just a pic of him and my girl?

*Next pic* AND WHY ARE THEY KISSING ON THE BEACH?!

*Ego kicks in like*



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"I bet dude's broke though."

"Bet he aint shyt."

Let's peep his facebook...
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He's a VP at Goldman Sachs.

Spent the next month like.

Ex came over to my apartment to get some of her shyt. We started talking.

I was like..."You know I still care about you right?"

I could tell she still had feelings.

Had a tender back and forth...went in for the kiss. She kissed back. Went in for another one...

*record scratch*

Her: NO!



Me:

Her: You aren't shyt Reality. You really aren't shyt. YOU broke up with ME. You're such a fukking a$$hole you know that?! What-- I start dating someone else and now you want to give me all this bullshyt??? You're a fukking a$$hole and...

Me:

Her: ...and you've always been one. So fukking predictable. Mike treats me SO much better than you do. I NEVER felt good about myself with you and that's because deep down you're still a little fukking boy who can't be honest with himself of anyone else. Give me the rest of my shyt I'm leaving.

Me:

So, basically, she ethered the fukk out of me. She blocked me on Facebook, etc. Came to find out "Mike" had been cheating on her with a couple different chicks, reached out to her when we bumped into each other one day and she said "Never talk to me or contact me ever again in your life."

I ended up moving that winter and spent the next 3 years dating other girls but secretly thinking and dreaming about that girl. Thinking about what went wrong in that relationship, reflecting on the truth in the ether, and trying to better myself overall.
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But the universe gave me a second chance brehs.

Not with the same girl, but with another. She's everything I could ask for in a woman, but had I met her 3 years ago, I would've done nothing but fukked it up.

So, in a way, I'm glad that first one got away. Sometimes they have to.

Damn, read like a script. Impeccable posting skills, breh.

On topic, that tough/ bitter/ unwelcoming "bullet" you have to bite is a bish but the resulting self-realization/ maturation leaves you and .

Good ish, breh.

 

[Vilified not verified]

All those bitter thoughts and feelings you harboured go out the window as soon as you hear her angelic voice.

 

[Slystallion]

You wasn't hitting it right breh

 

[BujuBoombastic]

It looks like the box is to die for breh. Life changing type of freak

You miss the box not her breh

As for me. Ya boy is fukked for life.

Dont even want to goo into details, just like i don't ever wont to be in another relationship. shyts pointless to me

If it doesnt work out with the one you want most,even though you put everything into it. What's the point?

These hoes aint shyt brehs

This smilie is the shyt so im gonna use it once more

 

[Elite_Echelon]

I can honestly say that I can not relate to this post. I have never experienced this obviously painful event. I can however relate to being the one that got away, it is not a enjoyable feeling.

 

[Momentum]

I hate instagram yo

 

[DEAD7]

 

[At30wecashout]

A new lady has appeared as of late who obviously likes me. She is a school teacher at a nearby HS and I am a Barista fukkboi
Twice now I have spoken to her and stonewalled her advances, and not by choice. My #HOH days transformed me into Mr. Friendzone that girl.

I have to break the cycle. I don't want to be alone this Christmas.

 

[Collateral]

I got maybe about 7 that got away so much hurt brehs

 

[RealAssanova]

Can't say i've been that dude....my ego is to big.

If i've ever felt something, it usually occurred the minute something happened and a few days after...but after that, i'm good.

If u have a one-track, scarce mindset...this typ'a shyt will occur. If you have an abundance mindset, you'll be before you meet her, while u with her and after if ya'll part ways.