"The one who loves the least controls the relationship" true or false?

[The Gentleman]

I guess the stifling is caused by people valuing control over love.

Or a Core principles over love.

If you put value into sexual exclusivity for example would you still love someone you had sex with other people than you?

You have me but I don’t think I don’t think so because being you value being sexually exclusive and it is important to you.

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

If you put value into sexual exclusivity for example would you still love someone you had sex with other people than you?

Like if they cheated? Nope

 

[The ADD]

i don't get why people want to control a relationship. i would just prefer it to be organically nice and easy.
who wants fake love?
couldn't be me.

Sad that the posturing can’t stop for the sake of a relationship

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

i dont think controlling the other person is the point....its controlling your expectations and disappointment that is the key for me....

 

[Jay Kast]

I don't see it as a manipulative thing, but more so a conservation of emotions - emotions that could very well make or break a relationship.

Love is beautiful, vibrant, intoxicating and dangerous. Everyone can remember a time when they loved so freely, hard, without prejudice and it ended up causing the deepest crater of pain.

I am like a speed governor, - yes I love hard, maybe more than my partner at times but with my love comes wisdom. The wisdom from experience of unconstrained love turned upside-down. I understand that love can cause us to make irrational decisions that may only serve to hurt us both in the end. Often times, my partners do not understand the depths of their own emotions - I only seek to conserve it in the most healthiest of ways.

It ends up protecting us both and allowing our love to grow at a sustainable pace, one never eclipsing the other totally.

 

[Fresh]

true, and this doesn't just apply to romantic relationships either, but in ANY relationship in general the person who cares the least has the upper hand

 

[Obreh Winfrey]

Why does ur mama and grandma always seem to hate the girl you love the most?

Because women hate other women they perceive as a threat.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Why does ur mama and grandma always seem to hate the girl you love the most?

my dad was always like this even with my friends. i don't get his jealousy for the life of me. i figure he's just a hater

 

[SadimirPutin]

Yall worried about power dynamics when you could just leave for the relationship you want.

Well not relationship cause yall dudes value p*ssy over everything else

 

[Peak]

Why does ur mama and grandma always seem to hate the girl you love the most?

Women know women. They know that the girl you love is a hoe

 

[Rawtid]

No one has any real control over the other. People choose to behave a way, maybe the catalyst of that behavior is a person, but again all their choice.

 

[The Gentleman]

Like if they cheated? Nope

That’s my point. The relationships come down to nothing more than value. Where do you place your value? Where does she place hers? The stipulations of these types of things must be hammered out early on.

 

[Rawtid]

true, and this doesn't just apply to romantic relationships either, but in ANY relationship in general the person who cares the least has the upper hand

Why be in ANY relationship where you aren’t given reciprocity? People seeking control instead of compatibility and companionship is so weird to me.

 

[Fresh]

Why be in ANY relationship where you aren’t given reciprocity? People seeking control instead of compatibility and companionship is so weird to me.

I don't deal with ANYBODY where reciprocity isn't involved period, I was answering the thread's question

 

[dr. pill biden]

god is in charge of my relationship and he cares the most


be engaged in stupid fukkin petty power struggles in your own home brehs