The Toxic Masculinity Debate

Coco Loco

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All I see is a dad being a great dad to his son. People love to project their bs onto other people.
 

Barlow

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Nothing wrong with it, but culturally it's a cut off age usually for when this kind of affection is culturally acceptable. (in america)
Culture evolves though so if the new wave is for 30 yr old to lay on their dad chest then so be it. There are cultures where men hold hands, kiss, and invade each others personal space. It's only weird and sexual (or whatever the issue is here) if the society deems it so
Why do we wanna go by these flimsy circumstances at times that we like but not others? You know what other kinds of things are acceptable in other cultures?

much lower sex ages, women’s rights, and general debauchery. If we go with whatever “society” feels at the time we’d be in a world of trouble.

we don’t lay up under our father shirtless as grown men because it’s weird, not because of toxic masculinity. Women don’t lay up under their mother or father topless as grownups either but I guess that’s just “weird American constructs”.

If you wanna go to Europe and tongue kiss a man in the mouth on some platonic shyt then go do it, but don’t force it on the rest of us like we’re wrong if we don’t want to. And make sure you adhere to all the other shyt they find culturally acceptable there.
 

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Toxic masculinity is such a lazy umbrella term. I only consider harmful actions be toxic masculinity such as sexual assault, sexual harrassment, sexual coercion.
You consider those actions to be toxic masculinity but not the line of thinking that leads to those actions? Toxic masculinity is a mindset that is injected into us at a young age.
 

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If you tell your dad you love him:dame:

I just say “have a good one” cant love another man
 

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I wouldn't do it just because I've never been like that, but I also don't see anything to get worked up over.:yeshrug:
 
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