The truth about women not being "protected".

[Serious]

I think they want the type of protection white women, or even Asian women, get. People will stop and protect them way before they before they'll help a black woman out. A little white girl missing, News coverage.
A black girl missing, no one talks about it, parents are to blame anyways.

What concerns me is that I feel like as if this generation is trying to separate black people in general. For example: black women and black men. Blacks in on average are on the bottom totem pole of the racial wage gap, so of course the quality of our living wont be as good as others. Black women and men are dying out there. I just wish they stop placing just black men as the root.

People need to stay focused on the real issues.


It’s poverty, proximity and racism.

You fix these issues then a lot of dysfunction goes away. They’ll always be bs, to shift through because no one is perfect, but black people collectively have an extra layer of bs they gotta deal with that non black people don’t.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

how old are you?

36

 

[CW_1991]

I really wish there was a way to bring up statistics of black men who are currently incarcerated or dead over a domestic dispute involving them defending a woman. Because it happens all the time. My cousins in the pin right now for shooting a dude was beating up his sister.

Like I said in another thread, the only women black men should concerned with protecting are their wives, mothers, sisters. If more women were raised to be wife material instead of the contrary, they would be married and have that protector figure. That also goes for these single matriarchal households where the boy is raised to be a simp and submissive to female energy.

Feminism has also done massive amounts of damage.

 

[mcellas]

I've been hearing a lot from black women saying they aren't protected , this isn't a bash thread but I want these women to realize something men have known for awhile now. Protection ain't free, it doesn't come as a standard feature just because you're a woman and just because I'm a man. That be like me expecting submission from every woman I come across.

Protection is reserved for family, wives, girlfriends and those in need of protection as I deem it.

No man can protect a woman from herself. The problem with the sentiment that all black men need to protect black woman is that it's fundamentally taking a patriarchal approach to a world that doesn't value men for being patriarchs , but I guess patriarchy is ok as long as it's the benevolent kind , furthermore , it's a misnomer to assume all black women support black men by default, there are plenty of outliers who can attest to this baseless presumption.

As a man, defending every woman's honour is a costly and foolish endeavor, shootout to Merlin Santana. Furthermore, if Meg truly wanted , then it would probably make the most sense for (and other women) to pursue relationships with men who are protectors. Think of an actor, bodyguard, military contractor, lawyer, etc. Or some kind of man with a good track record of treating women. Her dating record suggest otherwise, you can't help being attracted to who you like, but there are always red flags.

I've noticed that women choose men like Mr. Lanez for certain reasons, Mr. Lanez is not a patriarchal man in the sense of being a traditional protector/provider, I understand that Tory Lanez is the fun time guy, you can smoke all the weed, do all the coke, twerk all day and be as free and ratchet as she wants to be around him, whereas other men who are serious about wives would judge her and check her for being a "hot girl" . However, you can't expect Mr. Lanez to be something he never was, and she chose him for that reason, because she wanted a Bobby brown for her Whitney. Except Bobby actually loved Whitney. This is just a no strings attached arrangement from a non patriarchal inclined man.

Expecting that is not so radical at all. It be like a black men exclusively dating women who frequently exchange their bodies for currency and then complaining about gold diggers and whores, it's nonsensical.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Certain parts of black male culture are toxic what's wrong with acknowledging that? Black men and way to violent to black men and women. It is what it is.

 

[kevm3]

I don't know if this is related to this thread or thread worthy but here's a post that just hit my FB

That's nonsense
Didn't people already clown Jhene Aiko for flipping out over Big Sean? What is that supposed to be, "they are picking on the 'full black woman' but not the light skinned, mixed woman?"

If saweetie got in the same sort of situation, they'd say the SAME thing about her. She likes delving into that whole ratchet, I'm hood image and she needs to accept what comes with what she's glorifying.

 

[Prodyson]

I think some women are talking about multiple areas.. Black women dying in childbirth is actually a big topic amongst black women.


But if you want to relegate it to violence then I’ll say that stats show that BW are #1 in homicides against women, #1 in domestic violence against women...

Black women think black men pose a bigger threat to us then anyone else and they use the stats to back it up and even when I tell them that most violence against women is by men of their own race, their go to is that it’s higher amongst black women.


I don’t think they’re asking for black men to step up and protect them when they’re being attacked but for black men to stop attacking them.

That’s my take on it.

My guess is that black men violence against black women is higher for the same reason that crime is higher in black communities than in white communities. I’d bet there is a strong correlation between poverty and increase in domestic violence.

 

[Pazzy]

You wrote all that because of megan the stallion? you're basically using a celebrity who basically obviously is doing some funny shyt, which is why she got shot, for your basis on an entire group. shyt wouldn't have happened if she wasnt doing dumb shyt so her trying to use her blender into a social justice issue is some pathetic shyt trying to save her ass and her fast dying career. This is only the result of megan bullshytting and nothing else. if she hired better security, hung around the right people and stop doing dumb shyt. One celebrity doesnt speak for all black women.

As for the basis of your thread..

If folks knew their history, theyd realize that black women were never protected because they always go after the black men and destroy them. Divide and conquer. One of the things that those monsters did was destroy any family structure. They separated mothers and fathers from their children then separated that coupling too. So you had folks from different ethnicities, tribes and etc mixed up. Then you put the brutality in the mix and that's not even the half. These folks saying the obvious and they over explaining because they dont know the facts surround their history. Folks underestimating how the effects of slavery are still impacting us to this day generations later. When we understand that much, we can see where we are going wrong. We are blaming ourselves for something we have nothing to do with. Its that instead of other people dividing us up and shyt. We are doing it OURSELVES. We've been programmed to. Wake up.

You ever notice how it's acceptable for a black person to openly speak negatively about black people collectively in front of non blacks and theres not enough push back from black people? Folks are letting people like Terry Crews go around unchecked. Its people like him that basically get used as a speaking piece for these white supremacists, racists and etc that cant say the same exact thing without being seen for exactly what they are. Yet their hate speech becomes valid when Terry crews says the same shyt.

We have to unlearn and reprogram.

 

[philmonroe]

People need to stay focused on the real issues.


It’s poverty, proximity and racism.

You fix these issues then a lot of dysfunction goes away. They’ll always be bs, to shift through because no one is perfect, but black people collectively have an extra layer of bs they gotta deal with that non black people don’t.

People low key don't want to fix these issues wholesale. They just want to be on places like here and talk and talk and talk about these issues all day. A lot,of people don't even get that's what they're doing with themselves thinking they're being productive when truth is they're just wasting time under the guise of doing work. I've saw scenes in blaxploitation movies where similar things were talked about like what is discussed here all the time with stuff still looking the same for a lot of blacks and them movies were from 40 something years ago.

Truth is if you want to improve your chances of getting out of poverty for the adults that are you have to stop posting on sites like here and do a bunch of boring work to improve yourself. Talking about the same few subjects over and over on here when like you said will always be here in some fashion won't help in no big way. I'm sure its a few big money cats on here but how many do you think are on here that can really make crazy moves that can help a nice amount of people? At most I'd say 1/2% if that because if you're truly doing it big you're really doing it not on here and other sites like this tbh. That goes even for me I got money but not enough to help the "community" if I wanted to. I got enough for my family/friends but for those that care about helping black people as a whole that's not enough and being on here IMO won't help get it done talking the same few pro black topics over and over and over again.

 

[Ill-Yaz]

Del.

 

[The Wall Is Undefeated!]

I'll say it once and I'll say it again.

I'm only obligated to protect women that are part of my family, my S/O and close female friends. That's it.

Asking random men to protect random women screams of entitlement of the highest order.

 

[Thethirdpew]

This may not be what you’re focusing on in regards to black women claiming to be unprotected but when I think of it, the main thing that comes to mind is childbirth.

I know for me, I’m getting tired of seeing black women die at a disproportionate rate from childbirth due to a lack of care in hospitals and from midwives. I recently saw a video of a youtuber who was only 24 years old (8 months pregnant) and died from a heart attack. She complained to her midwife about having shortness of breath, but it was pretty much dismissed. Now she and her child are gone. Her boyfriend, a black man, was devastated, but there was really nothing he could do. They relied on the right people and still she and her child lost their lives. This is a constant thing that’s been happening for years and mainly affects black women because they do not take the concerns of black women seriously until it’s too late.

That’s where the lack of protection needs to be focused. It’s not black men’s fault. It’s the racism and discrimination in the Medical field towards black women that needs attention.

I’m seriously getting tired of seeing this and honestly makes me scared to even have children.

Wouldn't be a problem if we weren't on the bottom in terms of wealth. Less money = we get the shyttiest doctors and nurses. Sad world.

 

[Youseenmywork]

It's over y'all thread /

 

[Grand Eeezus Maxwell]

I don't know if this is related to this thread or thread worthy but here's a post that just hit my FB

"-I’m pro Black women dating non-Black men"

She gotta shut the entire fukk up.

 

[Mastamimd]

"-Pro Black women dating non-Black men"

She gotta shut the entire fukk up.

The explanation for "misandrist lite" in her comments explains everything. I'm mad that I shared this now.