Misinterpreted attention seems to be dooming women these days. "How can I have XXXX followers and nobody treat me like a lady?"
Well, why are the men that are following you, following you? If its general ratchetness and twerking, you cant expect those guys to have your best interest. You are good eye candy and will be treated as a disposable object. You arent really going to attract the man that feels you need protection, hes just interested in offering you a hard pipe. This might sound misogynistic but were going to protect our immediate female family members and women that are more traditional "girl next door" types. Ratchedness is something we grow tired of investing time in. You will be in a constant state of protection. You will also soon realize, the more you protect, the more she will project in public to prove she has a man that will protect her.
We see women involved in domestic issues with guys constantly yelling and fighting and theres no chance in hell we're jumping in that. You come to my house after a domestic issue to talk with my wife and me about what to do, you get basic advice "Y'all both know what yall need to do

". No im not breaking up fights and beating up a random guy only to have the couple plot against me and have me jumped or killed once they fall back in love the next week. I"ll vote for womens rights, I'll support movements, I'll protect my family, I'll urge women to date men with family values, I'll urge women to project class.