“The Weakest Men Become Step Fathers.”

[Georgiamuscle]

Not for me personally. Can't take a woman with kids seriously for anything long term. As there is a person in their life more important than you'll ever be. Which makes sense.

Then you add in stuff like baby daddies hanging around. No thank you.

Had to have serious words with my younger bro once.

He was dating a chick who already had a 2 yr old.

And was at that time pregnant with another brehs child. So 2 different baby daddies.

I know why he was doing it. He needed a place to lay his head. Told him to fix up. The risk of getting her pregnant was high.

They finally broke up and he met a chick with no kids who he now has four kids with.

 

[WaveGang]

It's a dangerous mindset to have, because people like that saying things like that are why a lot of men believe they have no chance at really being I their child's life and just don't even fight. They just accept being a weekend fun parent. Men need to stop believing the nonsense. It is VERY EASY AND REALISTIC to get 50/50 custody of your kids, it's not even that much of a fight.

Important message here fr.

I dapped you up cause you ain't lying at all. I'm in the same position myself

Imma just boil it down to forum hyperbole, coz there's nothing you said that I disagree with.

My original point is entirely different to the point you were making.

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

Everybody situation is different

If everybody had this mindset I would never have been born

Mom had my brother when she met my dad. Been married over 20 years

Would I do it? Nah, them kids need a daddy. Biological or other wise

But it aint gonna be me

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

ehhh the step-father to my kid is a good dude.... shyt he cash apped me a few times.

You know what? Imma spare you this time. Random act of kindness

 

[Playaz Eyez]

I dated a chick with three kids a long time ago. She could cook her ass off and she had an ass like Cherokee. That was a fun 8 months before I just said “”

 

[Belize King]

Women are the same everywhere colibrehs, I have been sent by the African delegation of Men to reveal this to you. Do not believe the hype. And if I am African, what will a South American say?

Djiboutians and Kenyans seem to be headaches from the outside looking in but, I believe most “3rd world” country relationships allow outside relationships.

Working men are a commodity unfortunately. In Thailand or at least bkk, more women work than men. Women want an additional income to make ends meet. Love really isn’t a thing. Survival is more important.

I say that to say, if you are a woman who wants a man. You almost have to accept that you share your man. For the scumbags on the Coli, all women are the same across the world. US woman won’t share you is the only true difference.

 

[Belize King]

I dated a chick with three kids a long time ago. She could cook her ass off and she had an ass like Cherokee. That was a fun 8 months before I just said “”

Best thing about single moms is their lack of time. You serve them dikk then they have to get to their family.

Spending time with little Jaylen, Emma, and Javon…

 

[Belize King]

So I didn't tuck my son in last night either huh? Or the night before that? Give him baths? I never took him to the doctor? He crawled in my bed last night to sleep with me cause he hates being alone. Dog are you a mama's boy? Just say that bruh cause that's what you sound like. If you have 50/50 with your child you literally have to do THE EXACT SAME shyt A SINGLE MOTHER DOES. There ain't no way around it. You sound like a fool right now.

Shout out to the 50/50 Coli Brehs out there. They doing exactly what men should do if they have the ability.

I say it all the time, if my relationship don’t make it, I’m moving across the street.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I wouldn’t necessarily consider a man weak for being a stepfather but it depends on the conditions around it.

I look at it like this, IF I’m dealing with a single mom she needs to bring the exact same as me. If I have 1 kid she can only have 1 kid. Fukk I look like having 1 child and she has 2+ with separate dads. I’m losing there cause now I’m adding more mouths to feed significantly.

I buy my son McDonald’s, now I gotta buy her 2-3 kids McDonald’s. My son want some Jordan’s, now I have to buy her 2-3 kids shoes. That’s a losing situation. My son wanna go to a ballgame, well now I gotta haul her 2-3 kids along with us to be fair smh.

Then dealing with a single mom’s lack of time to spend together individually. I got 1 kid me and his mom has a great 50/50 partnership. So I have free time to legit date. Most single moms I encounter don’t cause they have their kids all the time. So they wanna spend time with you but everything gotta involve the kids. Fukk all that crap.

 

[Vic Damone. Jr]

I couldn’t do it, seems like too much unnecessary drama and I’m trying to live drama free. Not knocking anyone that does it though. Let mfs be happy and worry about you and yours

 

[SoulController]

harsh but is it a lie?

ive even talked to my friend about this and asked him point blank does he feel like if he was where he is now in life that he would get with his fiancee...he reluctantly admitted that he wouldnt - that he settled before he hit his prime.

he is short and back then he was not in a stable job, lived with family, wasnt educated, had acne problems so that's probably the reason
now he is doing ok in IT, lives on his own (with his family), has a solid car, fly gear, dreads and is more confident in himself

as far as the women getting with guys they normally wouldnt, to gain stability? thats pretty true lol

the men themselves being weak? idk, obviously its something they want, or they wouldnt get involved

 

[KidJSoul]

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/woman-embarrasses-simp-for-being-a-simp.1052826/#post-53911536

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Everybody situation is different

If everybody had this mindset I would never have been born

Mom had my brother when she met my dad. Been married over 20 years

Would I do it? Nah, them kids need a daddy. Biological or other wise

But it aint gonna be me

Don't you wanna grow up and be the man your father is

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

Don't you wanna grow up and be the man your father is

For what? These women ain't the kinda woman my mother is

Just seen a mother of 2 throwing it back on her Facebook story two weeks ago, now she talking about she just found out she's 8 months pregnant

 

[Yaboysix]

More INCEL INCEL Random Bird tweets. SMH.

Women Do NOT SAY THIS shyt IRL