The Worthless Black Woman

[Chelsea Bridge]

truth is the majority of you got your hair and scalp fukked up from your parents and grandparent, long before attraction to the opposite sex ever occurred. if there is an abundance of black males that dislike afro textured hair, they came from a black woman that disliked afro textured hair.

and , truthfully, there's not a lot of black men rejecting black women with long natural hair. its all these chicks that just did the big chop yesterday, talkin bout how we should be attracted to that style

And we are fully aware of how you feel about that style

 

[Blackout]

rap music is why black women are undervalued

So when do they realize that the rap music they focus on is ran and directed by white men?

Oh wait they wont.

 

[Blackout]

weak...

Just like how every black person is disrespected because they dare to think differently from the crowd.
I'm more black than you and that's a fact. I can trace my Ghanaian heritage to my great great great great grandfather.
Let's see you do the same

So there it is. The anti-AA side of you finally shows itself.

Yet Im sure you are here in the US posting that crap and are only able to do so because of those same AAs you diss.

Not to mention that many of those same AAs that fought for that right are the same black women that you hate so much.

 

[OatmealCreamPie]

weak...

Just like how every black person is disrespected because they dare to think differently from the crowd.
I'm more black than you and that's a fact. I can trace my Ghanaian heritage to my great great great great grandfather.
Let's see you do the same

Why do Africans think this is something that Black Americans are ashamed of? I have been working on my ancestry for the past 4 years or so so I can trace mine back, but even if I couldn't, it wouldn't mean that I didn't have a 4x grandparent. Just wouldn't know about him. You aren't the first Afric00n to do this but I guess you can't use the state of your countries as a source of pride so you use some silly ancestor that most likely sold his brethren into slavery to make your ridiculous point.

 

[OatmealCreamPie]

So there it is. The anti-AA side of you finally shows itself.

Yet Im sure you are here in the US posting that crap and are only able to do so because of those same AAs you diss.

Not to mention that many of those same AAs that fought for that right are the same black women that you hate so much.

Those Afric00ns never want to live in their home countries. Always posted up in Europe or the US bragging about nothing.

 

[Moose_Greyjoy]

Didn't read...my wife is black

 

[MVike28]

Didn't read


Who's the girl in the pic?

Nvm found her

 

[NobodyReally]

This is a black women's issue. You cannot ask an outside group to view you differently. You have to show something different. And that goes for any group of people. Black men have their own set of problems and the same goes for us too.

You can't blame Hip Hop for the portrayal of black women. Hip Hop is only narrates what it sees. Just like violence can't be blamed on Hip Hop. Hip Hop only tells the stories of violence that are seen everyday within the community.

If black women want that narrative to change, they must change it. It starts with the individual.

My father is a big tipper at restaurants. He told me that the stereotype is that black men don't tip well so he single-handedly set out to change that notion one server at a time. Let's be honest folks, these negative stereotypes began somewhere.

My sister was a waitress in college. She is a black woman. Her boss told her on her first day that black women were the worst customers. She told her that they would be the most demanding and the lousiest tippers. My sister couldn't ask her boss "Please stop saying those things about black women." No, black women need to change those perceptions through their actions. Just like black women can't say to Hip Hop, please don't portray us in such n such light. Instead they need to go to the worst of their group and smack em upside their heads and tell em to act right! They are embarrassing you.

When a child acts up in school, he embarrasses his parents, his family. But his mom can't go to the teachers lounge and ask the teachers to stop talking about how bad her son is. She needs to go to her son and smack him upside the head and tell him to act right!

This is blatant excuse making and blame deflecting. When we learn to take responsibilities for our actions, both individually AND collectively, only then will we begin to thrive as a people.

And I don't mean just black women because black men have our own issues that we need to address and and black people as a whole have issues to address as well. It's time to grow up and be adults. No more finger pointing.

It's interesting you bring up tipping as an example of how people try to change stereotypes because it highlights how stereotypes justify bad behavior by other groups. If a waitress believes black people are poor tippers, she probably will not give them the best service. She may even give them bad service in anticipation of bad service. Now are the black people she waits on supposed to give her fair compensation to dispel a stereotype she clings to, or should they swallow their pride and give her compensation for poor service in other to negate the stereotype? I feel like the issue with how people perceive black women is just as complex. I've had people wait on me, or serve me and expect for me to have a bad attitude. They even go out of their way to be rude to me in anticipation of me being rude to them first. Like your father, I'm always calm and civil in an effort to dispel stereotypes, however, it would be perfectly human of me to be rude back because it was provoked. Some black women (and men) probably just say "fukk it, why should I treat you better than you're treating me?" It kinda sucks that the burden of dismantling racism and judgement falls on the group who is the target and no responsibility is assigned to those who do the judging.

 

[blackestofpanthers]

Do black women do anything besides whine?


And have babies?

Shut the fukk up

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

No they're not breh. Black women are gonna get shytted on by white America just as they always have. A few will get in, but the masses of black women (educated or not) will still struggle and remain at the bottom of the totem pole just as this country designed.

Yep...All that black woman economical talk is fools gold.I'm not one to knock a sistas ambition, but I don't wanna see them fall for the okey doke, neither.

They'll let nikkaz stir the Titanic.....after it hits the iceberg.

You gotta watch when they start opening a few doors for you..Might be trying to trap you in a burning house.


Nothing will change until we unify and build up our own communites.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

It's interesting you bring up tipping as an example of how people try to change stereotypes because it highlights how stereotypes justify bad behavior by other groups. If a waitress believes black people are poor tippers, she probably will not give them the best service. She may even give them bad service in anticipation of bad service. Now are the black people she waits on supposed to give her fair compensation to dispel a stereotype she clings to, or should they swallow their pride and give her compensation for poor service in other to negate the stereotype? I feel like the issue with how people perceive black women is just as complex. I've had people wait on me, or serve me and expect for me to have a bad attitude. They even go out of their way to be rude to me in anticipation of me being rude to them first. Like your father, I'm always calm and civil in an effort to dispel stereotypes, however, it would be perfectly human of me to be rude back because it was provoked. Some black women (and men) probably just say "fukk it, why should I treat you better than you're treating me?" It kinda sucks that the burden of dismantling racism and judgement falls on the group who is the target and no responsibility is assigned to those who do the judging.

Oh pops didn't break bank for bad service now.

But where the average person would give 15, he'd give 20. In fact, we used to laugh at waiters who gave bad service because they didn't even know they were fukkin themselves.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

I've only been disrespected by black men online.


“Some males who are hesitant to approach women with natural hair are intimidated by the confidence you’re displaying by wearing your natural hair & he cowers at the possibility of you rejecting him,” I explained.

This is the largest bale of horseshyt I've read in a minute. That's like a guy saying his fade is so damn crispy, females reject his approaches because they fear the confidence he has to wear such a crispy lineup. Sounds ridiculous doesn't it? Wake the fukk up females, I swear ya'll walk around like you're the greatest thing since sliced bread

 

[2manyFCKNrappers]

the black woman could never be worthless.

1 star.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

This is the largest bale of horseshyt I've read in a minute. That's like a guy saying his fade is so damn crispy, females reject his approaches because they fear his swag, it's just too on point. Sounds ridiculous doesn't it? Wake the fukk up females, I swear ya'll walk around like you're the greatest thing since sliced bread

I am

 

[marcuz]

Oh pops didn't break bank for bad service now.

But where the average person would give 15, he'd give 20. In fact, we used to laugh at waiters who gave bad service because they didn't even know they were fukkin themselves.

he's still over tipping for bad service to combat negative stereotypes. i use to do the same shyt til i realized its rewarding negative behavior