There is a growing movement of anti-black male rhetoric online

[Wildhundreds]

fukk that kids stay out of grown folks business. that used to be a saying. And that lasted as long as you were in the house not paying bills. Kids with "failure to launch" syndrome get treated like a child till the Man or woman up enough to leave the nest Adult ass Craig's father was a great Father

I agree 100%..

Just telling a kid no and beating their a$$, without telling them exactly whats going on, is damaging because you don't show a child how to handle problems.. My rules are whats going to be left standing, but I let my kids speak their perspective, because one day they'll have to leave my house and speak their voice to the world..

Name a better place than the home where a kid can speak their mind?

 

[Diunx]

"growing" "online"

 

[saturn7]

All im gonna say is we can still fix this.. But we refuse to trust and work with one another..

All im gonna say is we can still fix this.. But we refuse to trust and work with one another..

I will concede that Gen-X does suffer from the "Peter Pan" syndrome. We don't want to be viewed as old and out of touch with what's hip.

We will also need discipline, rules and regulations and enforcement of those rules and standards to fix some of these problems.

On the low I think a lot of Black folks enjoy the current dysfunctional state of the community. You can do anything at anytime in many or our communities and no one can tell you anything. Lawless chaos. Any attempt to have some structure and rules is called "respectability politics" or "shaming" or other BS excuses for dysfunctional behavior. I'm fukking tired of it.



"now get off my lawn!!!"

 

[Wiseborn]

a lot of my younger female cousins also aren’t fukking with Brehs. They date out. It’s strange because growing up I remember seeing Brehs smut out white girls regularly but brehettes weren’t dating/sexing nonblack guys like that. But with gen z it’s like both groups are dating out in high numbers.

I honestly think it’s the result of more and more black parents moving their kids to white areas for better education and the only black experience some of these kids get is through social media where they’re consuming a lot of this rhetoric. Also the media… bw are “in” but it’s the Meg the stallion and Chloe Bailey sexy types that are oversexualized. On top of that all those IR commercials and IR promotion in media.

Hell even in porn. Those 2021 pornhub results showed that a lot of people, outside of just brehettes and Brehs, are apparently taking interest in watching bw fukk. like I said the oversexualized images in media are probably contributing. But I think a lot of gen z just think whites and others are better. All I know is that I don’t have high hopes for gen z. Even with my own son. He’s little c00n himself smh lol.

Anyway it’s not something I’m concerned with anymore. I’m just letting cards fall where they may. Black family was destroyed the moment we were brought here involuntarily, it was only a matter of time that these kind of movements would increase as more people grow discontent with the modern dating world.

Maybe the upcoming massive biracial class will be the new blacks?

Whoa Whoa Whoa. Don't raise the next Red Pill youtuber. Your Son will be a Black Man someday. raise him right. Give him the real. Tell him he can date anyone he likes but ask him how would be feel if when he turns 17 that you take a trip to Vegas for the weekend with your boyfriend?

He probably wouldn't say it but he'd think Hell naw no random nikka is gonna get head from my moms. Tell him that white people feel the same way and he should do what he wants but keep this in mind.

The nikka from Get Out should've Got Out when the father agreed to let him sleep in the same room as the daughter. Again that's not something a 70 year old Black Man is gonna let his 35 year old daughter do with her boyfriend that she lived with for 5 years.

 

[Wild self]

The divide & conquer techniques went next level.In the era of "wokeness", niccaz are less aware, and more unconscious than ever.

Some people.

 

[Wildhundreds]

I will concede that Gen-X does suffer from the "Peter Pan" syndrome. We don't want to be viewed as old and out of touch with what's hip.

We will also need discipline, rules and regulations and enforcement of those rules and standards to fix some of these problems.

On the low I think a lot of Black folks enjoy the current dysfunctional state of the community. You can do anything at anytime in many or our communities and no one can tell you anything. Lawless chaos. Any attempt to have some structure and rules is called "respectability politics" or "shaming" or other BS excuses for dysfunctional behavior. I'm fukking tired of it.



"now get off my lawn!!!"

We just hate one another breh.. That in the bold gives us a passport to disrespect one another. Everyone wants to be respected, but don't want to respect anyone. Our values are none existent and our black politicians know this.. Thats why they sell us out to white people so easily.. Holding people responsible is looked down upon in the black community.. And if you do, you're a c00n.. White people washed out brains well..

 

[Wild self]

I will concede that Gen-X does suffer from the "Peter Pan" syndrome. We don't want to be viewed as old and out of touch with what's hip.

We will also need discipline, rules and regulations and enforcement of those rules and standards to fix some of these problems.

On the low I think a lot of Black folks enjoy the current dysfunctional state of the community. You can do anything at anytime in many or our communities and no one can tell you anything. Lawless chaos. Any attempt to have some structure and rules is called "respectability politics" or "shaming" or other BS excuses for dysfunctional behavior. I'm fukking tired of it.



"now get off my lawn!!!"

Gen X were the first ones that didnt have the 'community' mind of sharing valuable information. Even on some shyt like getting women or searching for a higher oaying job, it's always met with "I aint ya father! Go get it yourself!!!! I ain't dropping no knoweldge off of shyt" as if the next black man is competition and not your ally.

 

[Wiseborn]

It stemmed from self hatred IMO. No one told those black success stories to move to white burbs. There are black suburbs with low crime rates, too.

Yep then and now. You always had hoods but the average Black community wasn't a ghetto because Black Doctors lived in the same areas as Black garbagemen. So kids had positive role models. I think Michelle Obama's father was a garbage man but he was still a MAN

 

[Wiseborn]

Some videos, yes she shyt on black men. Now she's a lesbian.

Of course she is. When you can't find even the goofiest excuse for a male to simp on you, find a fake male to do the job.

If lesbians weren't such pick me c00ns they wouldn't allow this, Makes it seem like a choice to be gay and a last resort.

 

[Wild self]

We just hate one another breh.. That in the bold gives us a passport to disrespect one another. Everyone wants to be respected, but don't want to respect anyone. Our values are none existent and our black politicians know this.. Thats why they sell us out to white people so easily.. Holding people responsible is looked down upon in the black community.. And if you do, you're a c00n.. White people washed out brains well..

Because everyone wants to be "That nikka" that everyone else bows down to, over being a stand up black man that works as a community UNIT.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Gen X were the first ones that didnt have the 'community' mind of sharing valuable information. Even on some shyt like getting women or searching for a higher oaying job, it's always met with "I aint ya father! Go get it yourself!!!! I ain't dropping no knoweldge off of shyt" as if the next black man is competition and not your ally.

I feel this way when I look at the Boomer politicians that don't groom the next generation, but block that position until they die.. Then usually some CAC gets the seat, and thats that for a black person holding that position..

Mexicans make sure another Mexican gets the political seat they just stepped down from..

 

[Wildhundreds]

Because everyone wants to be "That nikka" that everyone else bows down to, over being a stand up black man that works as a community UNIT.

We too deep into that capitalism model that white people do to one another.. Capitalism is good, but as a black community, we can't do it as white people do it.. Its too destructive..

 

[Wiseborn]

I agree 100%..

Just telling a kid no and beating their a$$, without telling them exactly whats going on, is damaging because you don't show a child how to handle problems.. My rules are whats going to be left standing, but I let my kids speak their perspective, because one day they'll have to leave my house and speak their voice to the world..

Name a better place than the home where a kid can speak their mind?

Yes let them speak their mind while you're taking a shyt in front of them.

In a Home there's only one Man their can be innumberable women and children in a home but only one Man. I guess a house can have no Man it it but no house. Craig's father didn't whip his ass but if he didn't want to smell shyt, then maybe he needed to think about looking at that job brochure so that he could get his own home. A woman can express their opinion so can a child or a guest but the rules are made by the one who's name is on the Home.

 

[Wild self]

I feel this way when I look at the Boomer politicians that don't groom the next generation, but block that position until they die.. Then usually some CAC gets the seat, and thats that for a black person holding that position..

Mexicans make sure another Mexican gets the political seat they just stepped down from..

Yeah, we look at each other as competition instead of successors.

 

[Wiseborn]

I will concede that Gen-X does suffer from the "Peter Pan" syndrome. We don't want to be viewed as old and out of touch with what's hip.

We will also need discipline, rules and regulations and enforcement of those rules and standards to fix some of these problems.

On the low I think a lot of Black folks enjoy the current dysfunctional state of the community. You can do anything at anytime in many or our communities and no one can tell you anything. Lawless chaos. Any attempt to have some structure and rules is called "respectability politics" or "shaming" or other BS excuses for dysfunctional behavior. I'm fukking tired of it.



"now get off my lawn!!!"

That's the case no one whats to be told what do to. everyone has a boss everyone has roles and responsibilites. The leader's job is harder than any followers job.