He’s shared negative opinions on dark skin before and it was addressed but eh I just don’t see the militant in him. I think he’ll just end up going on the ir route/ I don’t see color bs. that’s all I meant.
You are one of the best posters on here.
Serious comment: I know we can't force our kids to do anything or like anyone but have you or his dad every voiced a preference that he try to date Black girls or tried to introduce him to prospects? Maybe he has his mind made up, but I am still surprised how many Black parents are like

and think that their kids don't value their opinion or have their minds made up. I've noticed this with a lot of my kids' parents, not necessarily on just relationships but all kinds of stuff our parents were not playing. It's like it isn't "progressive" to raise your kid with a Black perspective.
Our parents' generation typically strongly recommended we date Black and while it wasn't forced, we mostly did. I realized this talking with my mom and my wife asked her why my brother and I went Black while a large number of our peers went other. She stated, "DrBanneker's dad was adamant about emphasizing Black beauty and telling his sons to date/marry Black. Other parents were less so and I appreciate what he was saying now". I'm not saying hate on IR or White women---that will likely have the opposite effect. But as a Black mom you have a right to view point and I would argue you need to press it since back in the 90s and early 2000s, at least media mostly co-signed Black-Black relationships. You can't even rely on that anymore.
If you are fine either way, that's cool but don't start asking "why you don't like BW" after his third White/Latina girlfriend. Plant the seed early.