there is not a deadbeat problem in the black community

Busted_Toes

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I could post all the evidence in the world and the women here would still want to argue.
Started from Black men not being allowed in the home for a Black woman to recieve benefits.
To the strong and independent movement
To i can raise a child on my own
To i'm the mother and the father
Listening to these Charles Barkley built Black feminists

All these things are poison and are prevalent in the black community.
 

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Breh please, shyt is transparent as fukk. Blame black women for getting with deadbeats and creating a generation of deadbeat nikkas while you've barely dated black women to have any say in this topic.



Take a peak in this thread. There's no winning wit y'all. We're 100% responsible even though it takes a nikka to come inside a bytch in order for her to get pregnant. :leon:

Maybe you should go back and re-read this thread. EVERYONE in this thread wasn't blaming black women for getting with deadbeats. Most of the posts have been from people acknowledging that both sides need to do better. In case you haven't noticed, there are an array of people posting on black topics that either they have nothing to do with or have no experience outside of. But in this thread @His_Excellence_Reincar story was very relevant regardless of the race of the women in question. Heck, I figured you would rejoice at the fact that it wasn't any black women he knocked up in the first place.

Who said anything about women being 100% responsible? It seems as though you have an axe to grind in this thread with the posters involved based on topics from other threads.
 

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I could post all the evidence in the world and the women here would still want to argue.
Started from Black men not being allowed in the home for a Black woman to recieve benefits.
To the strong and independent movement
To i can raise a child on my own
To i'm the mother and the father
Listening to these Charles Barkley built Black feminists

All these things are poison and are prevalent in the black community.

BUT, where is the accountability from Black men in this equation? Sure we can acknowledge these things, but that doesn't let brothas off the hook who decided not to take care of their children. All the scenarios do here is alleviate brothas of any responsibility and control over their own actions.
 

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Take a peak in this thread. There's no winning wit y'all. We're 100% responsible even though it takes a nikka to come inside a bytch in order for her to get pregnant. :leon:


Nobody said its all black womens fault. Yes nikkas need to learn how to be men and take care of their kids. I completely agree with that. At the same time black women are letting these nikkas get them pregnant and then having their kids.

I mean do men take the p*ssy or do women give the p*ssy up? The emphasis is always being put on us. All I hear is nikkas aint shyt over and over again :deadhorse: like its all the mans fault when women have to take responsibility for their actions also. All I am saying is women need to stop opening they legs to these dead beats. Or get that abortion.
 

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:lolbron: Brehs

read the title of the thread, see who's being blame for the deadbeat problem then the one blaming the problem on the group


Dont be biased in here for obvious reasons:stopitslime:
 

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BUT, where is the accountability from Black men in this equation? Sure we can acknowledge these things, but that doesn't let brothas off the hook who decided not to take care of their children. All the scenarios do here is alleviate brothas of any responsibility and control over their own actions.

For the most part, most men want to take care of their children adequately, however, most brothers like myself pursued the romance before finance. That's the brothers' fault, knocking up chicks knowing they damn well they can't take care of them. The fallacy is there are safety nets that prevent their children from completely suffering.
 
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BUT, where is the accountability from Black men in this equation? Sure we can acknowledge these things, but that doesn't let brothas off the hook who decided not to take care of their children. All the scenarios do here is alleviate brothas of any responsibility and control over their own actions.

:whoa: I'm not excusing Black men that run off, i just explained how it started. Don't expect a bum nikka to magically be responsible. The difference is you won't see me defend an aint shyt nikka but women here sure do love defending deadbeat women.

I won't see any accountable from women here. It's either "what about Black men" or "white women do it too" :dead: :snoop:
 

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Nobody said its all black womens fault. Yes nikkas need to learn how to be men and take care of their kids. I completely agree with that. At the same time black women are letting these nikkas get them pregnant and then having their kids.

I mean do men take the p*ssy or do women give the p*ssy up? The emphasis is always being put on us. All I hear is nikkas aint shyt over and over again :deadhorse: like its all the mans fault when women have to take responsibility for their actions also. All I am saying is women need to stop opening they legs to these dead beats. Or get that abortion.

A GOD-FEARING WOMAN CANNOT GET AN ABORTION! :yeshrug: No to abortion but yes to bum dikk.
 
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