there is not a deadbeat problem in the black community

[Wild self]

How am I selfish? Do your realize people who ACTUALLY know me would say the opposite? Also, saying that men AND women are responsible for a child's life is not defending anyone (it's saying that the person who provided the egg AND the person who provided the sperm should be held accountable). Only in your world is that defending single mothers. You are the one who capes for deadbeats because you hate women. Again, sit down.

Don't tell me to sit down! Yes, there are deadbeat men that will never amount to be shyt, but for these "successful" women give them play and have 9 months for them to plan an abortion or adoption, after pregnancy starts. There is no excuse for women to be struggling when they have all kinds of choices in this day and age, outside of that religious bullshyt that keeps them indoctrinated and in constant financial pain.

 

[SouthernBelle]

Don't tell me to sit down! Yes, there are deadbeat men that will never amount to be shyt, but for these "successful" women give them play and have 9 months for them to plan an abortion or adoption, after pregnancy starts. There is no excuse for women to be struggling when they have all kinds of choices in this day and age, outside of that religious bullshyt that keeps them indoctrinated and in constant financial pain.

Show me some stats that says women doctors, lawyers, and professionals are having tons of babies by non-GED having thugs. Most of the babymomas I've come across are hood and ghetto too so it sounds like you are making stuff up. Also, there was a national study just discussed on here the other day that says there's not a deadbeat problem in the black community because black fathers are just as engaged as fathers of other races. Stop trying to take outliers and generalize them to all black women and men. Even for the fathers that did become deadbeats, they are still just as responsible for that child's life as the mother. You will never convince me otherwise. That's why you will forever be a BOY. You don't even want to take accountability for your penis. GROW UP and until you do, SIT DOWN!!!!!!!!

 

[SouthernBelle]

I see that non of you c00ns who constantly want to perpetuate negative stereotypes about black women and men posted in the thread linked below.

You want to know why there is not a deadbeat problem in the black community? Because black fathers are just as involved as fathers of other races (given the same living situation). In many cases they are more involved that other races. Read it for your damn self:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/nati...ack-fatherhood-are-bogus.177529/#post-6792933

STOP trying to take outliers and people at the very bottom of society and generalize it to all black people. STOP buying into media stereotypes about black people because you look pathetic.

 

[Wild self]

Show me some stats that says women doctors, lawyers, and professionals are having tons of babies by non-GED having thugs. Most of the babymomas I've come across are hood and ghetto too so it sounds like you are making stuff up. Also, there was a national study just discussed on here the other day that says there's not a deadbeat problem in the black community because black fathers are just as engaged as fathers of other races. Stop trying to take outliers and generalize them to all black women and men. Even for the fathers that did become deadbeats, they are still just as responsible for that child's life as the mother. You will never convince me otherwise. That's why you will forever be a BOY. You don't even want to take accountability for your penis. GROW UP and until you do, SIT DOWN!!!!!!!!

Don't you dare call me boy. Acting like a white supremacist I know that there are more black fathers that want to be in their children's lives, but trifiling ass women prevent them from doing so because they are chasing their goals over the well-being of their own kids. Plus, the most desired man in the black community is the swagged out player that many of the "successful" women still lust for.

 

[SouthernBelle]

Don't you dare call me boy. Acting like a white supremacist I know that there are more black fathers that want to be in their children's lives, but trifiling ass women prevent them from doing so because they are chasing their goals over the well-being of their own kids. Plus, the most desired man in the black community is the swagged out player that many of the "successful" women still lust for.

What are you going to do beside sit behind a computer screen and be mad? NOTHING! Also, me calling you a boy has NOTHING to do with white supremacy. It's because you are a boy, a male person who is still mentally in a state of childhood. Also that study doesn't say they want to be in their lives. These fathers ARE in there lives. You clearly buy into the negative stereotypes about black men and women. You are a pathetic boy.

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

What needs to be address is the educational disparity with black males. 52% having a high school diploma is not what's hot in these streets.

 

[Wild self]

What are you going to do beside sit behind a computer screen and be mad? NOTHING! Also, me calling you a boy has NOTHING to do with white supremacy. It's because you are a boy, a male person who is still mentally in a state of childhood. Also that study doesn't say they want to be in their lives. These fathers ARE in there lives. You clearly buy into the negative stereotypes about black men and women. You are a pathetic boy.

Don't call me a boy. I don't think or act like one. I already said that there are fathers that want to be a part of their lives, but bitter ass women block them from doing so. Which what this thread is all about.

Calling me boy for stating the truth about black fathers being a part of their lives, but are prevented from doing so is just

 

[SouthernBelle]

Don't call me a boy. I don't think or act like one. I already said that there are fathers that want to be a part of their lives, but bitter ass women block them from doing so. Which what this thread is all about.

Calling me boy for stating the truth about black fathers being a part of their lives, but are prevented from doing so is just

Show me a study that says black fathers are being prevented from being apart of their children's lives on a large scale because I linked you a study that showed that black men ARE apart of their children's lives on a large scale. Again, that study confirms that, as a whole, black men are active in their children's lives (which means that as a whole no one is preventing them from doing that). Keep making up shyt, boy.

Child please to that last sentence. I AM THE ONE WHO STATED THAT BLACK MEN ARE APART OF THEIR CHILDREN'S LIVES. NOT YOU!!!!!! I EVEN LINKED THE STUDY. You're a boy because you buy into cac propaganda about black men and women and continue to perpetuate with dumb uninformed posts such as these.

 

[Wild self]

Show me a study that says black fathers are being prevented from being apart of their children's lives on a large scale because I linked you a study that showed that black men ARE apart of their children's lives on a large scale. Again, that study confirms that, as a whole, black men are active in their children's lives (which means that as a whole no one is prevented them from doing that). Keep making up shyt, boy.

Also, you're a boy because you buy into cac propaganda about black men and women.

Listen to me here, lil girl.. Call me that face to face, and I cuss your c00n ass till Jesus Christ comes back. Black men who do the right thing often get shytted on. 70% of black kids are born out of wedlock and even the ones with both parents in the household still face with all kids of shyt from the court system.

 

[SouthernBelle]

Listen to me here, lil girl.. Call me that face to face, and I cuss your c00n ass till Jesus Christ comes back. Black men who do the right thing often get shytted on. 70% of black kids are born out of wedlock and even the ones with both parents in the household still face with all kids of shyt from the court system.

What are you going to do if I do? Hit me, punch me? I'd like to see you try. You think I give a damn that you'll say curse words at me. You see...that's why you're a boy. Grow the hell up. I don't give a damn.

Again, YOU ARE THE c00n! You are the one perpetuating stuff that a national study just said wasn't true. I AM THE ONE WHO SAID BLACK FATHERS ARE APART OF THEIR CHILDREN'S LIVES. I AM THE ONE WHO SAID THEIR WASN'T A DEADBEAT PROBLEM.

Show me some studies and receipts like I did. To the bolded statistic, Black men, black women, and hell even WHITE WOMEN contribute to that statistic considering the fact that a good portion of mixed race children are labeled as black at birth.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Don't tell me to sit down! Yes, there are deadbeat men that will never amount to be shyt, but for these "successful" women give them play and have 9 months for them to plan an abortion or adoption, after pregnancy starts. There is no excuse for women to be struggling when they have all kinds of choices in this day and age, outside of that religious bullshyt that keeps them indoctrinated and in constant financial pain.

Exactly, I don't think these female posters understand how asinine it is to defend a woman not getting an abortion because of her belief system. Raise a child without a father or allow a boy to be raised without a male role model so you can sleep better at night? Tough choice

 

[Wild self]

Exactly, I don't think these female posters understand how asinine it is to defend a woman not getting an abortion because of her belief system. Raise a child without a father or allow a boy to be raised without a male role model so you can sleep better at night? Tough choice

Organized Religion is a cancer, especially to the ones that can't think abstractly.

 

[GoPro]

So this thread is about a woman picking a deadbeat and it being her fault?


How about the guy not be a deadbeat bum in the first place

But its those qualities that attract the woman though

You got Tupac in your avi. And he aint even wearing a business suit

 

[KinksandCoils]

You got Tupac in your avi. And he aint even wearing a business suit

What's your point

 

[SouthernBelle]

What's your point

That clearly means you are looking for a mate just like Tupac. You can't possibly be a fan of a rapper on a hip hop site because you are one of those icky women.