There's such a big epidemic of Young dudes living with their girlfriend

Had a friend talk about a coworker who always complains that her son is 23, living with his girlfriend in an expensive apartment, hot tempered and can't keep a job

A family friend was talking about her son who's 26 and is more focused on his girlfriend then finishing school or getting a job

Another family friend, who's son is 27, was living in a nice neighborhood with his parents. Then got the girl pregnant, now living in the hood with his girl, and he can't keep a consistent job

A next door neighbor talking about his son who's 26 and was living with him for 5 years, then just decided he loves his girlfriend so much he wants to live with her and get an apartment



What the hell is up with brehs in their 20s shacking up with a girl before they even have a consistent job/career? . Starting a family too early is the number 1 reason your career gets halted, and limits your earning potential
Bet you these the same dudes who in a couple years gonna be like life ain't fair and I can't catch a break

 

It's hard for young men to find a woman these days, and who can pass up on live-in puzzy?

 

B bu but the coli told me that young people ain't out here dating or getting girlfriends

 

People used to get married and settle down at a younger age.

It's like people are taking pride in the lifestyle corporations have forced people to adopt.

 

I learned from an early age that as a man, you should NEVER become financially dependent on a woman. Because once she gets tired of you or if you fukk up, you’re out on the streets and on your own.

 

Exactly. People have been getting married and/or having kids young for forever...

Granted, I do believe having children before you're financially secure slows your mobility, but "financially secure" is different for everyone...

 

People also could buy a four bedroom house and afford a large family with little education but try doing that now.

Live in p*ssy which will be used to control you and will eventually stop over setting yourself up properly with a career?

 

DrX warned ya nikkas, there's an economic warfare being waged on the youth of America, and young black males are feeling the brunt of it.

 

shyt if I knew a bytch I'd be over there too

 

Homie there’s dudes in their 30s and 40s shacking up with these females eating the females kids fruit loops and playing ps4 , smoking weed while the chick is out there working and going to school

but u know what... it’s these females fault period for having bum dudes as live ins

 

nikkas would be in trouble if Black women were the monsters we like to pretend they are. The only reason a lot of nikkas ain't homeless right now is because a Black woman is sheltering them.

 

and if the roles were switched and she is financially dependent on you..... good lucc tryna get rid of her . wont be nice

 

I was actually going to say what if each of these men only had their mom taking care of the household?

Maybe theres some sort of connection with their mom & their "live-in girlfriend" (Not saying the men aren't working or anything)

Nothing wrong with settling down with a good woman though.

 

I work with a lot sisters rather on My level of business or in manager/supervisor roles and majority of them have bums and ex cons staying at their pad

you can tell many going through hell with them bums because many be leaving work early cause dude forgot to pick up her kids from school or dude burned up the spot or pawning her shyt

 

First nikkas were complaining about having a girlfriend being too expensive when the reality is in front of your face that even broke nikkas with no job or home can have a girlfriend so is it really too expensive?

And now nikkas complaining about dudes actually having girlfriends... I think what's really going on is they don't want nikkas to have a girlfriend because they don't have a girlfriend. Jealous Ones Always Envy.

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Instead of asking what's up with them broke nikkas having girlfriends ask yourself HOW them broke nikkas got girlfriends.

At this point this is when you learn you need to start hitting up the gym and shyt.

Women aren't that different from men. They are as susceptible to eye candy as men. Some of you nikkas only want bad bytches. That's why your girls can't cook. And some women only want hot boys. That's why those nikkas can't keep a job. Both men and women standards are low.