There's such a big epidemic of Young dudes living with their girlfriend

nikkas love poverty shaming black ppl while ignoring the systemic issues that created the circumstances.

 

Women out number men how the fukk....

 

Alot of these dudes are just looking for another mama.

Young dudes get ur shyt together. You shouldn't even be in a relationship with a woman until u CAN TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. That means a job, a place to stay, and a reliable means of transportation.

Ain't no woman alive gonna respect you living off her dime.

 

You created an entire imaginary situation, breh. You would really let that happen to you, though?

 

being lonely can kill off your motivation tho

 

It’s Better than being homeless or in jail..

 

You got one job as a man. One job.

These nikkas be straight up eunuchs. Bout as useless to the black community as gay nikkas.

 

It can but being in a bad situation and getting into a relationship can also cripple you if there's no real pressure for you to do better. A lot of men shacked up with women who know how to get it on their own feel very little outside pressure as long as they're providing sex and comfort. Problem is, men in these situation eventually grow to be resentful of the women supporting them and begin to exhibit self sabotaging behaviors.

If a woman makes a nikka into her son, her son will eventually seek out a girlfriend.
- Matt

 

What that got to do with being a grown ass man who can take care of himself?

 

Another by-product or consequence of the fatherless household where women run everything, of course these babied guys are going for what's familiar when they out the house

 

My life situations

I have fukked around with so many chicks majority of them single moms who every past relationships I talk with them about is with nikkas who was bums, ex cons and I can tell when I dumped them is because they wanted love cause other chicks who don’t have kids and have a man or women with a good family have a man in the household and they think dude would be responsible and be there for they kid...

but in reality this dude is only with the chick until a better opportunity comes around..meaning a bigger bag and better scam

 

what the hell is holding him back? he should be good with the CDL alone in the DMV

 

I feel as though people are now going off on a tangent and running their mouths off.

Note that the the thread starter was not referring to men, or at minimum did not state outright, to men bumming off the women in their lives.

Seemed to me that he was pointing the finger at men who decided to move out the nest and live with their girlfriend.

I'm going to keep it a buck. I'm starting to see a lot of homosexual tendencies in men these days. If that's how you swing . I'm not one to judge what two consenting adults do.

What I don't appreciate is the attempt at smearing that which is positive. If people were to follow some of you paper chasing "HOHs" queers, they wouldn't know what it is to bond with a woman.

 

a grown ass man should be able to take care of himself

but it's real out here and nikkas can't lone wolf it al the time

 

If this is the case, nikkas gotta stop the "no one cares about Black men" nonsense, nikkas out here getting saved left and right by the very same women we collectively have deep contempt for.