There's such a big epidemic of Young dudes living with their girlfriend

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Alot of these dudes are just looking for another mama.

Young dudes get ur shyt together. You shouldn't even be in a relationship with a woman until u CAN TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. That means a job, a place to stay, and a reliable means of transportation.

Ain't no woman alive gonna respect you living off her dime.
 

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Alot of these dudes are just looking for another mama.

Young dudes get ur shyt together. You shouldn't even be in a relationship with a woman until u CAN TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. That means a job, a place to stay, and a reliable means of transportation.

Ain't no woman alive gonna respect you living off her dime.

being lonely can kill off your motivation tho
 

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You got one job as a man. One job.

These nikkas be straight up eunuchs. Bout as useless to the black community as gay nikkas.
 

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being lonely can kill off your motivation tho

It can but being in a bad situation and getting into a relationship can also cripple you if there's no real pressure for you to do better. A lot of men shacked up with women who know how to get it on their own feel very little outside pressure as long as they're providing sex and comfort. Problem is, men in these situation eventually grow to be resentful of the women supporting them and begin to exhibit self sabotaging behaviors.

If a woman makes a nikka into her son, her son will eventually seek out a girlfriend.
- Matt
 

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My life situations

I have fukked around with so many chicks majority of them single moms who every past relationships I talk with them about is with nikkas who was bums, ex cons and I can tell when I dumped them is because they wanted love cause other chicks who don’t have kids and have a man or women with a good family have a man in the household and they think dude would be responsible and be there for they kid...

but in reality this dude is only with the chick until a better opportunity comes around..meaning a bigger bag and better scam
 

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One of my uncles is like this. Dude is 57 and has NEVER had his own crib. Slim has been living with his current girl for damn near 20 years now and that woman treats him like shyt. His rationale for staying is "Where else can I go in the DMV and pay only $400 a month in rent?":manny:

Dude is mad talented too, got a CDL and has professional cooking licenses. Everybody in the family begging him to get a food truck going but all he do is talk without walking and complain about being broke.:francis:
what the hell is holding him back? he should be good with the CDL alone in the DMV
 

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I feel as though people are now going off on a tangent and running their mouths off.

Note that the the thread starter was not referring to men, or at minimum did not state outright, to men bumming off the women in their lives.

Seemed to me that he was pointing the finger at men who decided to move out the nest and live with their girlfriend.

I'm going to keep it a buck. I'm starting to see a lot of homosexual tendencies in men these days. If that's how you swing :hubie:. I'm not one to judge what two consenting adults do.

What I don't appreciate is the attempt at smearing that which is positive. If people were to follow some of you paper chasing "HOHs" queers, they wouldn't know what it is to bond with a woman.
 

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a grown ass man should be able to take care of himself

but it's real out here and nikkas can't lone wolf it al the time

If this is the case, nikkas gotta stop the "no one cares about Black men" nonsense, nikkas out here getting saved left and right by the very same women we collectively have deep contempt for.
 
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