There's such a big epidemic of Young dudes living with their girlfriend

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  1. KENNY DA COOKER

    KENNY DA COOKER HARD ON HOES is not a word it's a LIFESTYLE Supporter

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    I told y'all about this last year

    These guys are not in LOVE with thier girlfriends

    They are HOBOSEXUALS who have nothing to offer but DIKK to these girls who provide them SHELTER

    And these women love it ... that man has to check in with her like a child

    And the power of having a dysfunctional kept man at home who they can kick out at anytime cause he is not on the Lease or mortgage paperwork...

    I been there except I managed to find a good job stack my bread and liberate myself from that oppressive woman


    FREE DA GUYS :mjcry:
     
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    too many broads are accepting of being a baby mama instead of a wife. they allow it. And it doesn't help that their moms did the same.
     
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    young3000 Most wanted baby father

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    5 guys so that makes it an epidemic :dwillhuh:
     
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    It’s not an epidemic.

    This is young people in love playing house. Many coming from broken homes trying to heal those wounds - growing up too fast. Both damaged trying to fix their problems in the wrong way. Many of those young women envision having families with a man they love but not the financial aspect of a family - which leads to many mistake/early pregnancies and then she is trying to mend a man without direction.

    When you don’t have guidelines on the right ways to do things, this is the result of it.
     
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    All of this shyt is subjective, the only thing that matters is DEBT. If a man lives with his chic, manages their debt, and they wont have to be working or hoping for govt assistances at 65 then who cares. Black people have inherited the poverty this country reflects through systematic practices of racism anyways, so stop thinking your playing on a even playing field and do what you have to do. The only thing that matters is time, what you spend it on...and how you waste it.
     
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    Need to be reminded that these women choose ain't shyt guys ALL the time. If he's a bum that gets it in, she doesn't expect him to spend on her like that....

    But if you're a good guy with a career, all of a sudden they expect the most out of you like it's a romcom

    Weird times
     
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    Hold up

    I thought the narrative was men make much more than women do

    Now I'm seeing threads about men shacking with women like hobos and women making more than insecure husbands

    :hula:
     
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    Yeah my boy pulled some like this. Now he married in his dubs but the wifey coo
     
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    lol i use to play 2k with some of these guys. dudes in their 40's who'd run all night with us but then drop off their kids to school in the am then game again.
     
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    Its been proven
    Black Women lead all college graduates, and are becoming entrepreneurs at faster rate than most if not all demographics I believe so its more than likely the woman is going to get to the bag quicker than her black male counterpart. Being said, Blackmen must become more financially literate regardless and if put in the situation where he has to live with his woman, he can at least help them navigate the pitfalls of becoming submerged in debt or at the very least not become stagnant in building wealth.
     
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    young men are broke for the most part :yeshrug:

    not all women want to be some rich middle aged niccas sidepiece, they want a relationship with a dude in their age range and young women are running laps around young men in regards to "achievement"

    it's not even about choosing bum dudes. not enough "winners" to go around.

    this has been a thing in the blk community for a minute. just like i said the blk community been 80/20 in terms of sexual distribution since the crack era. it's just spreading to white (and hispanic) folks too.
     
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    One of my uncles is like this. Dude is 57 and has NEVER had his own crib. Slim has been living with his current girl for damn near 20 years now and that woman treats him like shyt. His rationale for staying is "Where else can I go in the DMV and pay only $400 a month in rent?":manny:

    Dude is mad talented too, got a CDL and has professional cooking licenses. Everybody in the family begging him to get a food truck going but all he do is talk without walking and complain about being broke.:francis:
     
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    Leave me out of this!!!!!
     
  14. KENNY DA COOKER

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    He is a HOBOSEXUAL

    a man with no land

    https://www.thecoli.com/threads/ask-a-former-hobosexual-anything-ama.695074/
     
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