Oh, it’s coming. This next decade ain’t gon’ be nothing nice. Why did DrX get banned anyway? A part of it is control. However, black girls are groomed to have a mentality of lack in the dating department & this drives the decisions of many girls. That being said, the decision to get with a bum is due mostly to women trying to prevent continued abandonment experienced by their fathers. That’s why the black nuclear family (defined as a black man, black woman & black child) is the #1 factor in stability & upward mobility in our community...even before money. @Matt504 outchea preaching a whole word.