''These new men are weird'' - Lipstick Alley

[Originalman]

Won’t argue that because it’s true but the ability to have kids later in life doesn’t prove to be as optimal if the result isn’t as good as it is when your younger. Children with birth defects impact the quality of life on all fronts—from a perspective and timing perspective(disabled children may need to live with you forever). In other words even if it is possible for men to continue to make children as 50 and 60 that doesn’t make it desirable. And I can imagine it wouldn’t be very fun for them or their children. Imagine having a parent the age of a grandparent as a reference.

We also have to keep in mind that in a shallow society people are assessing you based on more shallow attributes. Older men will be seen as desirable based on their resources. But are not sexually or physically desired by the average young women. Yet many women from the younger generation make decisions based not just on resources but on looks, clout and swag—aspects that are more likely to be found in younger men.

No matter what is said, for both men and women, their peak of desirability is not at 40 and up.

Never said it was desirable. I actually said it was silly for women to play the same game as men when it comes to dating.

Then I said it was silly for men to play the same game as women.

Another thing whether its deisrable or not the age at which people are having kids are increasing. Due to financial reasons and society norms (and better reproductive technology). Its very common now to see women and men have children in their 40s. I remembered as a kid in the early 90s a class mate of mine mom had triplets through IVF. It was a shock cause one it was rare then for women in their 40s to have kids and two we all knew it was IVF cause she had triplets. Which isn't done now a days in the US cause they will only implant on embryo unless you got money to skirt the system or go overseas.

Usually people are having kids at an older age due to taking awhile to find someone. Marrying at an older age. Divorcing and getting married again and focusing on career and thus having kids later in life. You can go in any family ward of a hospital or ivf clinic and see couples in their 40s and men in their 50s (celebrating the birth of their kid or trying to have one) having or trying to have kids.

Actually you can normally tie income with how much older people will have kids in the western world. The more they make (and more educated) the longer they wait to have kids.

And I say this as a person who has known a few of them 40 year old folks and 50 for men. Who have had kids at those ages. Whether naturally or through IVF.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Okay. shyt I don’t post there—I didn’t know that. But it supports what I said—the site has a lot of bedwenches.
A lot of posters have been banned from this site recently but last year and the year before pawgset and bucks were making threads on here. Many of us called for an interracial forum for that reason. I also asked for a gay/treh forum because gay/treh content was pretty abundant too.
Ask the mods on here to create an IR forum.

We don;t have a whole IR section in TLR. We have sections for all kinds of women. LSA on the other hand exclusively has an IR section, and it gets a lot of traffic.

 

[Canon]

they exist they just don't want you boo

 

[Consigliere]

So basically that thread is their version of the one here about how all young women know how to do is lie, charge their phones and eat hot chips.

I am furious.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

So "good men" only want white/other women?!

Who said that? I said that everyone should date who they want. If a brehette wants to get with Brad and Chang than she should. Life's too short to worry about what others think and a lot of those hos will find themselves waiting till they 40. At least then brehs can enjoy PAAGs in peace. I'm tired of all this "bedbuck/bedwench" nonsense

 

[Shadow King]

Eh

LSA is predominantly blk women...at least supposedly

Dont blk women outnumber blk men? I believe in the states at least. Sure in many other places as well

In higher education blk women are far outpacing blk men... newer generations of blk women are out earning their male counterparts by quite a bit I believe

Then not all men are heterosexual sexual... blk men are more open to interracial dating

On top of just trying to find someone you are attracted to and vibe with...

So it's legitimately hard out here if you do want to date within your race as a black woman

If you want your partner not to have a criminal record and or decent credit it's even harder

Let's be real

I'm in a long term relationship but I lucked up

And that's not to say blk men have it easy or that blk women are perfect

The female-to-male ratio is an outlier among other groups but let y'all tell it it's 4-1. Nah.

Women fought for equality, education and income are apart of that. Black women are gonna have to start accepting that waiting for a breh who's making 30+% more than you might be spiting yourself if you want to continue to climb the socioeconomic ladder and start placing emphasis on other qualities.

Open to IR =/= won't date a black woman.

Attraction is attraction but there's an archetype that women seem to have and the bar is high.

Staying record-free is easy (in most places), good credit is another thing.

All in all the bundle of expectations need to come back down to Earth. Brehs aren't expecting prime Esther Baxter-At-Law with Nana's homemaking and pornstar bed skills.

 

[semicko82]

You heard it first hear fellas,Straight from the horses mouth!

You called that man a pushover for providing all the conventional things women say they want to make THEM happy. Damn THAT'S the disrespect we talking about.

Maybe you right, because if I did all that for a woman and she cheated on me and people calling me that shyt, she'd be hanging over the balcony like Suge did Vanilla Ice.

I swear can’t win for losing

 

[El Cocodrilo]

people think they are justified in being bitter, but their bitterness doesn't do anything to the people they are bitter against... just make the bitter person pathetic

don't be bitter brehs

 

[Solo_87]

Your whole post was basically blaming bm for everything.

Everything you said could be used on bw as well.

You saying some bm aren’t straight? You don’t know how many bw are bi.

bw also have a thing for open fufu men as well, that’s never discussed though.

bw are the most infatuated with interracial dating hence why there is a thread on lsa for it and not one here.

y’all the ones that want mixed babies that don’t look like y’all.

I have not heard as many bm say stuff like that compared to bw.

I keep hearing y’all say bw make more than bm, but every site I looked on that isn’t the case.

Show me where you got that from.

You talking about criminal records n shyt too wtf.

You got guys on here as proof what you saying is bullshyt.

You dating a bm? How you think he feels about how you really feel about bm?

I can’t believe this can be posted anywhere freely, but let a bm say anything bad about a bw and you got nikkas and bytches going at them equally.

Just like this thread for example. nikkas are actually agreeing with them lsa birds.

Disheartening as fukk.

Can’t make this shyt up.

So your just gonna ignore the part where I stated that's not to say blk women are perfect or that blk men have it easy lol

Love blk men and I'm with one.... but this idea that blk women just want thugs/bad boys and that's the issue is not the case

Of course we have our flaws and lot of it stems from systemic racism, but it's two sided which both sides dont really like to admit

Some articles I could find

In Higher Education Black Women are far Outpacing Black Men on JSTOR

Far as earnings go I believe newer generations blk women earn more

Was able to find this article

Study Finds Black Women Earn More Money – Howard University News Service

But if I'm wrong I'm wrong

Again, as if 2015, black women who are 25 to 54 and not in jail outnumber black men in that category by 1.5 million in the states

Far fewer black men than black women

Varies state to state obviously but that's a big number

MAP: Why Black Women Outnumber Black Men in the Bay Area and Beyond | KQED

Philly has the widest population ‘gender gap’ among major U.S. cities

Areas With Large Black Populations Have the Smallest Shares of Black Men (Published 2015)

This is from 2017

Race & Justice News: One-Third of Black Men Have Felony Convictions | The Sentencing Project

 

[10bandz]

To be fair, y'all young nikkas (under 30) are pretty weird.

I get to sit here and read some of y'all real, unrestricted thoughts and 9/10 i cant relate at all.

This coming from the nikka who went on a crusade against Pusha T after he dissed drake, making up story after story about the guy and then ignored every thread about Pusha that verified him

 

[Badmon]

Do y'all ever go on there and flex? High paying job, big house, and cars? What's they reaction? I'd be flexing on them broads

6 certs brehs where u at

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

So your just gonna ignore the part where I stated that's not to say blk women are perfect or that blk men have it easy lol

In Higher Education Black Women are far Outpacing Black Men on JSTOR

Far as earnings go I believe newer generations blk women earn more

Was able to find this article

Study Finds Black Women Earn More Money – Howard University News Service

But if I'm wrong I'm wrong

Again, as if 2015, black women who are 25 to 54 and not in jail outnumber black men in that category by 1.5 million in the states

Far fewer black men than black women

Varies state to state obviously but that's a big number

MAP: Why Black Women Outnumber Black Men in the Bay Area and Beyond | KQED

Philly has the widest population ‘gender gap’ among major U.S. cities

Areas With Large Black Populations Have the Smallest Shares of Black Men (Published 2015)

This is from 2017

Race & Justice News: One-Third of Black Men Have Felony Convictions | The Sentencing Project

None of what you posted means anything in the grand scheme. Black women make less than white women, and even lesser than white men. Black women also accrue more debt from student loans with useless degrees. On top of that black women, just like black men, still have to deal with workplace racism from whites, Asians, and Indians. Good luck trying to move up the ladder and reach the top

This ain't nothing but dividing the black community.

 

[SNYC]

If any of you lonely LSA ladies from NYC is reading this....

 

[SAINT]

fukk this thread I just discovered something,

I found this thread LMAO!! Serena Williams hubby Alexis says that his wife taught him “what a washcloth was”

and saw one of the wenches mention she uses what’s called a Korean Italy towel. I googled and apparently this shyt is amazing brehs it exfoliates wayyy better than wash cloth. I copped three. Shoutout to that LSA broad

 

[monsterpreneur]

ain't no shortage of men ready to provide for a female they want..these bytches losers

I think a lot of us women don't get this. I notice too many be delusional...