Scripture.This will be very hard to do if not impossible
Reason being, bc so many otherwise ‘normal’ men are raised by single mothersthe behaviors adopted are now the new normal. Attention seeking, overly emotional ‘standing on business’, being ‘petty’. These are concepts that are for women, but have seemlessly been normalized for men. A man can be feminine without being feminine. 50 Cent comes to mind
This is because the academic explanation for this is ...patriarchyAny "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.
These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.
She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.
It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.
Pretty much, thats why I tell my friends and younger family members, do what thou will, you gonna do what the fukk you wanna do in the 1st place, live with the consequences of your action and if you know the shyt is fukked up, then don't do itcan lead a horse to the well but you can't make em drink
the SMART sistas know what to do. Unfortunately many don't and are too caught up, especially nowadays, in reality tv fukkery, social media, and general entertainment ideas thinking it's the norm of what women should be and how to act.
Most Smart cats with their shyt together ain't marrying birds like that. Not all of course, but most.
