
That is the problem with a lot of these gurus. They can only see one side of the problem, while wearing blinders when it comes to the otherside. The problem is a problem both sexes contribute to. If you only focus on one sex to fix the problem, you will never fix the problem.Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.
These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.
She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.
It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.
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My interpretation of the video is she is saying the media engineered a culture that made us value the wrong things and the entire community has fallen prey to it. This video wasn’t an attack on Black men, it was an attack on the systems that intentionally created these narratives to destabilize our communities. I think she’s trying to say we need to wake up and take control of our own social narratives.Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.
These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.
She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.
It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.
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these folsk dont watch stuff. they just chime in a project truama and insecurities, or they are agent provocateurs and just wanna sow discord. she disparaged american culture, the media and the overall structure that promotes certain ideas while ignoring others.My interpretation of the video is she is saying the media engineered a culture that made us value the wrong things and the entire community has fallen prey to it. This video wasn’t an attack on Black men, it was an attack on the systems that intentionally created these narratives to destabilize our communities. I think she’s trying to say we need to wake up and take control of our own social narratives.
They keep trying to make it out like men are the ones shaming other brehs for being stable, but from my experience even as a teen that ain’t really the case.Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.
These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.
She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.
It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.
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Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.
These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.
She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.
It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.
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