They Made Stability Look Corny on Purpose

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Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.

These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.

She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.

It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.

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Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.

These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.

She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.

It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.

:unimpressed:
That is the problem with a lot of these gurus. They can only see one side of the problem, while wearing blinders when it comes to the otherside. The problem is a problem both sexes contribute to. If you only focus on one sex to fix the problem, you will never fix the problem.
 

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Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.

These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.

She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.

It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.

:unimpressed:
My interpretation of the video is she is saying the media engineered a culture that made us value the wrong things and the entire community has fallen prey to it. This video wasn’t an attack on Black men, it was an attack on the systems that intentionally created these narratives to destabilize our communities. I think she’s trying to say we need to wake up and take control of our own social narratives.
 

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My interpretation of the video is she is saying the media engineered a culture that made us value the wrong things and the entire community has fallen prey to it. This video wasn’t an attack on Black men, it was an attack on the systems that intentionally created these narratives to destabilize our communities. I think she’s trying to say we need to wake up and take control of our own social narratives.
these folsk dont watch stuff. they just chime in a project truama and insecurities, or they are agent provocateurs and just wanna sow discord. she disparaged american culture, the media and the overall structure that promotes certain ideas while ignoring others.
 

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I'm not clicking on any of this garbage.



If all your daily sustenance is entertainment, if you've been spoon-fed to want to be lied to in order for your life to feel "interesting", chasing which latest self-styled guru said what and who's infighting with who...you're just as infected as any.

All of that foolishness can step wide and stay wide.
 

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Yeah it really depends on who you’re around. I have friends who are stable and some living for a moment. Imho the factors are how you grew up and what life experiences you went through usually shape that.
 

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Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.

These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.

She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.

It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.

:unimpressed:
They keep trying to make it out like men are the ones shaming other brehs for being stable, but from my experience even as a teen that ain’t really the case.

Brehs that were actually really on that street shyt either left me alone or showed respect towards me. Same thing going into adulthood.

Not to say that was everyone’s experience, but usually it’s the wanna-be thugs who want approval from these bytches who call other men “corny” for being stable.

Even when you look at MBJ being called “corny”, by and large it’s not men of any background calling him that.

But like a lot of things, people try and make this a “both sides” issue rather than just call a spade a spade.

There’s 2 groups who can’t stand to see or interact with a black man who doesn’t fit the stereotype because it goes against their agenda and programming. :mjpls:
 

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Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.

These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.

She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.

It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.

:unimpressed:

OP should be making this thread on LSA, Women focused Reddits, etc.

these hoes unserious as fukk
 
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