Fanservice
Bih call me senpai
Black women can start by procreating with STEM degree Urkel over hobosexual Tyrone
Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.
These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.
She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.
It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.
No one wants to admit how dating preferences impact male behavior
Doobie Doo
Veteran
I'm glad I came from a 2 parent home and experienced love growing up cuz a lot of men are putting themselves thru Hell trying to live out the love they thought they were missing growing up so they think they HAVE to put up with women's bullshyt
skyrunner1
Superstar
Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.
These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.
She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.
It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.
These two alone show me the other side of social media because you dont even have to counter this lady argument, you just have to press play and let them tell on themselves.. They soo addicted to clout that they cant not do it. God bless em.
Black women can start by procreating with STEM degree Urkel over hobosexual Tyrone
The Hobosexual Tyrone has the potential to be the next Tupac, according to them hoes
Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.
These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.
She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.
It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.
can lead a horse to the well but you can't make em drink
the SMART sistas know what to do. Unfortunately many don't and are too caught up, especially nowadays, in reality tv fukkery, social media, and general entertainment ideas thinking it's the norm of what women should be and how to act.
Most Smart cats with their shyt together ain't marrying birds like that. Not all of course, but most.
O.T.I.S.
The Monk & The Mercenary
Been talking to yall folks about “chaos agents” for years..
Like I been saying… hope this spreads.
Been talking about this for YEARS. Black culture (only culture I’m concerned with) has for a long time been about what’s “cool”.
My older sister told me as a teenager to fukk what these people think is corny or cool. How tf someone doing worse off, dumber, no foresight, immoral, no codes, etc., gonna dictate to me (or you) what’s cool or not.
Came back here surrounded by nikkas who don’t do shyt trying to look down because I’m not fitting their “cool” standards.
Pass
And it was ALWAYS purposely done.
Like I been saying… hope this spreads.
Been talking about this for YEARS. Black culture (only culture I’m concerned with) has for a long time been about what’s “cool”.
My older sister told me as a teenager to fukk what these people think is corny or cool. How tf someone doing worse off, dumber, no foresight, immoral, no codes, etc., gonna dictate to me (or you) what’s cool or not.
Came back here surrounded by nikkas who don’t do shyt trying to look down because I’m not fitting their “cool” standards.
Pass
And it was ALWAYS purposely done.
Been talking to yall folks about “chaos agents” for years..
Like I been saying… hope this spreads.
Been talking about this for YEARS. Black culture (only culture I’m concerned with) has for a long time been about what’s “cool”.
My older sister told me as a teenager to fukk what these people think is corny or cool. How tf someone doing worse off, dumber, no foresight, immoral, no codes, etc., gonna dictate to me (or you) what’s cool or not.
Came back here surrounded by nikkas who don’t do shyt trying to look down because I’m not fitting their “cool” standards.
Pass
They push out any black male that aint criminal or street adjacent and indirectly blackball them from many black social circles while rewarding the future crashout for entertainment sake.
Yeah I was with her till she jammed that part in. If she kept it more vanilla like married and had a family, I would have rocked with it.
Her message got muddy(or diluted when she tried to promote the simping). Marrying a women with a kid worked better in the 20th century because she probably appreciated you more in those days.
Today theres not even appreciation for opening the door.
Amo Husserl
Superstar
Integrity first, intention second.
Recognize the system is out to divide and conquer and put ego and pride to the side to keep your eye on the sparrow to build and rise, together, as a people without outside influence.
Yep. No incentive for these older single mothers to correct their way of thinking thanks to SIMPING brehs doing anything for p*ssy.
O.T.I.S.
The Monk & The Mercenary
I will say this about crashouts though
They probably got more “courage” than I do
.I see a situation and be on that Dr. Strange
looking at multiple outcomes of a situation before hand and be like “I’m good
“.Yeah I noticed that part subconsciously. Women as a whole really can’t comprehend that as a man, picking up another man’s saved game is not ideal. I saw that shyt in my own family so I’m not following anyone’s OPINION.
I’m going by what I seen and my own experience. Not saying it’s impossible, or not worth it for some. Saying it’s not ideal especially if you don’t have your own kids.
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IsThatBrothaMouzone?
Veteran
Men chase women.
Women choose men.
Ultimately women are the gatekeepers. Only exception is the top 10% of men (income/wealth, looks, education etc) that can pull almost any woman they want.
Sometimes women get fooled....yet women also claim to have superior intuition and situational awareness.
Either men are smarter, more clever master manipulators.....OR.....women decide to overlook obvious red flags for the sexy, 3-legged bum. Men don't suddenly become shyt bags. Their base personality is always there. It's just a matter of whether you choose to listen to those instincts.
Women can identify creepy ugly men in 0.05 seconds. Turn that creep into a handsome man and suddenly their instincts disappear. I don't "blame" women, but ladies have to be honest with themselves. The good man that's stable and solid versus the wild man that's fun but problematic.....in RPG gaming terms, women tend to "min-max" when picking men. Sometimes it's better to get the guy whose a 6 or 7 in multiple categories over the breh that's a "10" in some ways and a "2" in other ways.
Women choose men.
Ultimately women are the gatekeepers. Only exception is the top 10% of men (income/wealth, looks, education etc) that can pull almost any woman they want.
Sometimes women get fooled....yet women also claim to have superior intuition and situational awareness.
Either men are smarter, more clever master manipulators.....OR.....women decide to overlook obvious red flags for the sexy, 3-legged bum. Men don't suddenly become shyt bags. Their base personality is always there. It's just a matter of whether you choose to listen to those instincts.
Women can identify creepy ugly men in 0.05 seconds. Turn that creep into a handsome man and suddenly their instincts disappear. I don't "blame" women, but ladies have to be honest with themselves. The good man that's stable and solid versus the wild man that's fun but problematic.....in RPG gaming terms, women tend to "min-max" when picking men. Sometimes it's better to get the guy whose a 6 or 7 in multiple categories over the breh that's a "10" in some ways and a "2" in other ways.